Oh that is so unbelievably true. Men make that mistake so much. I have done it myself. We have such a bassackwards view of what constitutes real strength. Men complain about what they percieve is an always changing line of achievement in a woman's heart. And they percieve it as such because they are 'acting' in an effort to find balance. When in reality, to be honest, to be yourself and to be gentle all the while acting on what is right and not simply reacting emotionally, projects the strength of character and gives her the security her heart craves. But I assure you, these are not easily learned lessons.