Being your own person? Hey buddy, open your eyes, smell the coffee, and stop living in that little fantasy world of yours. the world isnt nice, the world is gonna punch you in the face and kick you when you are down, this is the real world. People say looks dont matter, obviously those people are ugly, its not their choice but everyone has flaws and trys to cover them. being over weight and out of shape is a flaw, bodybuilding, dieting, eating right, and exercising daily is the way to cover and fix that flaw. You dont belong on this board if your gonna be bringing that kind of crap to the anabolic steroids section.
and whoever said steroids are the easiest way to get you laid? Working out and looking goood naturally, in general, works just the same. some people just want to use drugs, personal preference.