Ok now heres a scenario what if chris's wife finds out about this meatup?

[shrimp poboy]

What will u tell your children?

 

[Razorguns]

you're avi is hot!

Dat Ho Make Me Mah Money G!

r

 

[Smurfy]

Dat Ho Make Me Mah Money G!

r

lol good stuf

 

[Bikini Mod]

I didn't know that Chris was married. However, being that they are both intelligent consenting adults I am fairly sure that they know what they are getting into.

And I don't recall either of them asking for anyone's input/opinion.

It took me nearly THREE FUCKING YEARS to procure the divorce from my ex. He broke our marital covenant and he didn't have to screw someone to do it. Once I kicked him out, WE WERE DONE.

 

[chris302001]

I didn't know that Chris was married. However, being that they are both intelligent consenting adults I am fairly sure that they know what they are getting into.

And I don't recall either of them asking for anyone's input/opinion.

It took me nearly THREE FUCKING YEARS to procure the divorce from my ex. He broke our marital covenant and he didn't have to screw someone to do it. Once I kicked him out, WE WERE DONE.

You may be a tomato soup eater, but there's nothing in this post I can argue with. K to you.

 

[shrimp poboy]

Smurf is your kid gonna witness all this?If so he or she may be scarred with these images for life PLEASE THINK OF YOUR CHILD!!

 

[Bikini Mod]

You may be a tomato soup eater, but there's nothing in this post I can argue with. K to you.

Well neither of you asked for input so who are we to give it?

I am not condoning, but I am not judging. I say this straight up - to your e-faces. I don't do the whole "nicey-nice" out in the open and "rip you to shreds on the PM" or on other boards shit... never have, never will.

I know what it's like to be in a miserable marriage. I also know what it's like to go through an INSANE separation. People do all sortsa stuff that when they look back on it they say, "What THE HELL was I thinking?" It's understandable when your life is in turmoil as both of your lives now are based on the circumstances. Reaching out and connecting to another human being is not a sin.

Smurfy is legally separated from her husband so all bets are off. She isn't doing anything that is *wrong* or will *put her marriage at risk*. The marriage was over when she left and she is obviously not concerned about a reconciliation and though I've not seen/heard her badmouth Lumberg I have a pretty fair idea of how it went down. Not siding with one or the other but when a woman is *doing it all* why does she NEED her man? What value does he bring to the relationship? ...and I am not talking money. I am talking partnership here. When one feels like they are bearing most of the burden in the relationship the other party becomes a burden and is best shed if they don't change.

Maybe I am waaaaaaaaay off base, but hey, since this is elite I get to bump my gums too. LOL

Being that you are still co-habitating with your wife this puts Smurfy at considerable risk. But as I said you are both adults who have seen some life and I doubt ya'll are thinking that a weekend of human closeness is going to solve any of the problems ya'll are experiencing in your lives that are separate from the other.

I hope that you both gain some comfort and direction. I mean that sincerely.

 

[Smurfy]

Smurf is your kid gonna witness all this?If so he or she may be scarred with these images for life PLEASE THINK OF YOUR CHILD!!

no he's not. he's leaving for the weekend.

but thank the SWEET LORD i have you here, Shrimp, to lead me through life

 

[shrimp poboy]

I really hope they reconsider for the sake of chris's wife and smurfs child.

 

[chris302001]

Well neither of you asked for input so who are we to give it?

I am not condoning, but I am not judging. I say this straight up - to your e-faces. I don't do the whole "nicey-nice" out in the open and "rip you to shreds on the PM" or on other boards shit... never have, never will.

I know what it's like to be in a miserable marriage. I also know what it's like to go through an INSANE separation. People do all sortsa stuff that when they look back on it they say, "What THE HELL was I thinking?" It's understandable when your life is in turmoil as both of your lives now are based on the circumstances. Reaching out and connecting to another human being is not a sin.

Smurfy is legally separated from her husband so all bets are off. She isn't doing anything that is *wrong* or will *put her marriage at risk*. The marriage was over when she left and she is obviously not concerned about a reconciliation and though I've not seen/heard her badmouth Lumberg I have a pretty fair idea of how it went down. Not siding with one or the other but when a woman is *doing it all* why does she NEED her man? What value does he bring to the relationship? ...and I am not talking money. I am talking partnership here. When one feels like they are bearing most of the burden in the relationship the other party becomes a burden and is best shed if they don't change.

Maybe I am waaaaaaaaay off base, but hey, since this is elite I get to bump my gums too. LOL

Being that you are still co-habitating with your wife this puts Smurfy at considerable risk. But as I said you are both adults who have seen some life and I doubt ya'll are thinking that a weekend of human closeness is going to solve any of the problems ya'll are experiencing in your lives that are separate from the other.

I hope that you both gain some comfort and direction. I mean that sincerely.

Papers were filled out earlier this week, our shits been divided up, etc etc. Again, because it is nobody's business, I havent chosen to tell everyone this until now. It's still nobody's business, but I'm just making a point.