ladies...why do you like assholes?

[t3c]

ladies...a serious question for you. why do girls tend to like guys who are the biggest assholes and have no respect for them? why are you attracted to that?

 

[anabolicmd]

ladies...a serious question for you. why do girls tend to like guys who are the biggest assholes and have no respect for them? why are you attracted to that?

Because we give them the thrill and danger they want but are affraid to talk about...they also like our tough rebellious "dont give a fuck" attitude. And we're great in bed and arent affraid to try the "rough stuff".

 

[louden_swain]

We will never figure out women.

 

[louden_swain]

Women should know that we are easy to figure out. . .

FEED US and FUCK US.

 

[Imakarum_Mirabilis]

It's more about playing on their (women's) glaring insecurities than anything else, as well as a subconscious desire to tame such men.

 

[nvrbuffenuff_girl]

We will never figure out women.

This is true.

 

[trailseeker]

I don't know why we like assholes; perhaps you should ask some of the women you date.

 

[The Red Dragon]

Natural selection, whoever is tamable is not a challenge and is not worthy of passing on his double helix. Think about it, guys wanna spread their genetic code, they can fuck as much as they want...Women are out of commission for 9 months after getting fucked...they're very selective and they would require the best mate possible.

 

[from zero]

Cause they're fucking stupid.

 

[louden_swain]

Tell the dirty bitch to speak into the microphone lol. . .

 

[The Red Dragon]

Short and sweet

 

[WarriorPL]

We just can't udnerstand them, lol.

 

[louden_swain]

I will be serious for a change. . .women who like assholes are typically a few fries short of a happy meal.

 

[Lao Tzu]

could be because the more syncophantic and 'attentive' a man is, the more a woman subconsciously assumes he cannot get a woman and has to latch onto whatever he can get. if he can't get a woman, he must not have much to offer women in general, and therefore little to offer her. I think women operate on a system of assumptions. Treat them like dirt and they probably think you can do better and therefore have something of value. Its probably tied into the fact that women like men who ignore them and don't care about them, they take it to mean that the men can do better

of course i'm just making this shit up, but it makes sense.

 

[2Thick]

This is true.

I am trying to figure out which male member you are.

 

[Tiervexx]

domination and submission.

 

[plornive]

could be because the more syncophantic and 'attentive' a man is, the more a woman subconsciously assumes he cannot get a woman and has to latch onto whatever he can get. if he can't get a woman, he must not have much to offer women in general, and therefore little to offer her. I think women operate on a system of assumptions. Treat them like dirt and they probably think you can do better and therefore have something of value. Its probably tied into the fact that women like men who ignore them and don't care about them, they take it to mean that the men can do better

of course i'm just making this shit up, but it makes sense.

It makes sense to me, too.

But I think you could also think of it another way. Even if a guy is pretty undesireable... as long as he is going out and making the effort to bang as many women as possible, he has the "go get laid" gene and women will have sex with him. The fact that he is trying to get laid and doesn't give a shit about any single woman is desireable itself. It's not just an assumption.

Sometimes, I think there is a component to sex that is a closed system with no direct benefits to anything else. That is why it makes sense to semantically equate many other things to sex, rather than the other way around.

It is my opinion that in a closed room, with no one watching, and no one ever to find out ever, most people will have sex with anyone who is not seriously disgusting.

 

[plornive]

domination and submission.

Control and lack of responsibility. Sadism and masochism. People really get off on this shit.

I can see where I am that asian women are really masochistic relative to anything else I have seen.

 

[Tiervexx]

Control and lack of responsibility. Sadism and masochism. People really get off on this shit.

I can see where I am that asian women are really masochistic relative to anything else I have seen.

Exactly

This really is not a hard question. Women like assholes for the same reason why many men fall in love with heartless bitches that lie to them. Many people feel a deep somewhat subconscious need to be dominated and abused.

Anyone that says this has anything to do with intelligence is only proving how ignorant they are. Such needs are instinctual. All the brain power in the universe could not change them.

 

[buttplug]

Because that's all there is.

 

[Tiervexx]

My husaband's really sweet...the last boyscout. I guess I just abuse myself enough that I don't feel like I need help. lol

LOL

Obviously not everyone has these weird issues with domination and submission, but allot still do.

 

[Tiervexx]

There's nothing wrong with domination and submission, I just prefer to call it "active recovery."

LAMO! I love you spatts!

if i could i would give you karma again.

 

[Zander1983]

Women should know that we are easy to figure out. . .

FEED US and FUCK US.

My girlfriend has that down to a fine art.

 

[jackangel]

Because that's all there is.

best post of all.

 

[Robert Jan]

buttplug needs to open her eyes

 

[FitFossil]

Not all women like assholes, but many would rather be in a bad relationship than in no relationship. Some women have such low self esteem that they naturally gravitate towards assholes because the poor treatment they get reinforces their negative opinion of themselves.

 

[Nathan]

I don't know why we like assholes; perhaps you should ask some of the women you date.

That was funny. I tried to give karma but I'm out still.

 

[velvett]

ladies...a serious question for you. why do girls tend to like guys who are the biggest assholes and have no respect for them? why are you attracted to that?

Too immature and clueless to know better crossed with the unexplained desire to change him into someone else.




















Fortunately, this clueless disorder is out growable.

 

[velvett]

Not all women like assholes, but many would rather be in a bad relationship than in no relationship. Some women have such low self esteem that they naturally gravitate towards assholes because the poor treatment they get reinforces their negative opinion of themselves.

Frightening how accurate that statement really is and is not limited to women nor romantic relationships it also carries over into friendships and employer/ employee relationships.

 

[anabolicmd]

Because that's all there is.

I toytally agree, 99.999999999 % of all men are assholes, including myself. Fortunately I represent that 0.0000000001 % that single solitary guy in North America who is not an asshole. I really dont know what those guys problem is...

 

[satchboogie]

Re: Re: ladies...why do you like assholes?

Because we give them the thrill and danger they want but are affraid to talk about...they also like our tough rebellious "dont give a fuck" attitude. And we're great in bed and arent affraid to try the "rough stuff".

yep yep.
true that.

 

[jeremys]

it's a big waste of time unless you dont mind some psycho bitch laying you every couple weeks...you just have to put up with her shit

not fucking worth it. i'll wait until i'm about 30-40 to even think about a serious relationship. by then they might be less cold and stupid

 

[Shak]

It's more about playing on their (women's) glaring insecurities than anything else, as well as a subconscious desire to tame such men.

along with velvett, i second that -

once these woman gain some self-respect, they'll go for a nice guy.

 

[rnch]

they're still trying to get back at their parents by dating these hosers.

 

[buttplug]

Nice guys are insecure.

 

[anabolicmd]

Nice guys are insecure.

Why do you say that? Is it something I said? Did someone tell you something about me?

 

[buttplug]

Why do you say that? Is it something I said? Did someone tell you something about me?

Hey you're not supposed to talk to me.

Nice guys are always asking you to make the decision. They don't care as long as you're happy. It's fine, really, nothing bothers them. They are so desperate to please you that they put aside their own desires, and put you on a pedestal. Result? Instead of loving her, they worship the hell out of her. We are only human (despite what we claim) and pedestals are narrow places to be... not to mention the fact that we will fall off of them. You think a F1 champion would spend his entire life on a pedestal, even if it means being the best for his entire life? No. Same applies to us.

Also, nice guys tend to go for neurotic psychotic deranged bitches. What happens? They get manipulated, eventually dumped and they come bitching that girls only like assholes. If you're a nice guy, stay with your kind, don't try to tame the bitch.

 

[PHATchik]

I'm not attracted to that. If a guy can't respect me or treat me the way I deserve to be treated, then he gets thrown to the curb. I used to put up with a lot of shit from guys. Those days are gone. I have expectations now for how I should be treated. In some cases, high expectations are a good thing.

 

[vixenbabe]

It's a phase...Bad boys are fun if you can keep your heart and wits about you.

It's very MUCH like YOU gents who go thru the "slutty girl" phase.

Once the "slutty girl" stage gets boring , you go into the next level/phase of wanting to find a "nice" girl to adore you.

Sooo different..Yet the same!

 

[Anarchist]

once these woman gain some self-respect, they'll go for a nice guy.

you mean, once there tits start to bounce off there ankles right?

women go for nicer guys once they know there shit is going down hill. they dont want to spend there declining years alone. nothing to do with self respect or maturity, its a calculated effort.

i dont see why guys keep going back for more misery. i really dont.

look, not everyone is the GF/wife type. i think alot of you would be wise to accept the notion tat you arent cut out for relationships. do things you love, and get a pet.

why in the hell is everyone fixated on relationships? a woman is never gonna make you whole. instead of conquering women, conquer the world. all the important things in life, you do alone, including dieing. does your life really need any more complications?

 

[gainer_uk]

What I wanna know is why the fuck so many woman alwaaaays fell they have to be in a relationship. You know the girls that always have a boyfriend, they split up with one then get another a week later.

To me thats more slutty than a gil that goes out and pulls 2 different men every week.

 

[zkm]

It's a phase...Bad boys are fun if you can keep your heart and wits about you.

It's very MUCH like YOU gents who go thru the "slutty girl" phase.

Once the "slutty girl" stage gets boring , you go into the next level/phase of wanting to find a "nice" girl to adore you.

Sooo different..Yet the same!

hey ya vixen "nice" girl to bring home to ma? yet still slutty behind closed doors?

 

[gainer_uk]

What I wanna know is why the fuck so many woman alwaaaays feel they have to be in a relationship. You know, the girls that always has to have a boyfriend, they split up with one then get another a week later.

To me thats more slutty than a girl that goes out and pulls 2 different men every week.

 

[b fold the truth]

ladies...a serious question for you. why do girls tend to like guys who are the biggest assholes and have no respect for them? why are you attracted to that?

Ummm...THOSE kind of women are not good women. Good women are not attracted to those types of men.

B True

 

[vixenbabe]

Re: Re: ladies...why do you like assholes?

Ummm...THOSE kind of women are not good women. Good women are not attracted to those types of men.

B True

Hey! Hey! Hey! I'm a good woman( just ask me I'll tell ya) lol

I do NOT know ONE woman who has NEVER been attracted to the bad boy type at least ONCE in her life! Fact!

ZKM- You smelled what I was cooking, huh? It's the truth too, right?

 

[FitFossil]

...why in the hell is everyone fixated on relationships? a woman is never gonna make you whole....

Amen, and neither is a man. It goes for both sexes. If you're not happy with yourself, don't expect another person to make you happy. It's a losing proposition and an unfair burden to put on anyone.

 

[zkm]

Re: Re: Re: ladies...why do you like assholes?

Hey! Hey! Hey! I'm a good woman( just ask me I'll tell ya) lol

I do NOT know ONE woman who has NEVER been attracted to the bad boy type at least ONCE in her life! Fact!

ZKM- You smelled what I was cooking, huh? It's the truth too, right?

 

[anabolicmd]

Re: Re: Re: ladies...why do you like assholes?

Hey! Hey! Hey! I'm a good woman( just ask me I'll tell ya) lol

I do NOT know ONE woman who has NEVER been attracted to the bad boy type at least ONCE in her life! Fact!

ZKM- You smelled what I was cooking, huh? It's the truth too, right?

hmmm...

 

[Frackal]

you mean, once there tits start to bounce off there ankles right?

women go for nicer guys once they know there shit is going down hill. they dont want to spend there declining years alone. nothing to do with self respect or maturity, its a calculated effort.

i dont see why guys keep going back for more misery. i really dont.

look, not everyone is the GF/wife type. i think alot of you would be wise to accept the notion tat you arent cut out for relationships. do things you love, and get a pet.

why in the hell is everyone fixated on relationships? a woman is never gonna make you whole. instead of conquering women, conquer the world. all the important things in life, you do alone, including dieing. does your life really need any more complications?

This pos is completely accurate...the ones who say the women who like jerk types change and go for nice types once they 'gain some self esteem' are completely full of shit. It's precisely how he describes it above.


What I've learned is it's not necessary to try and 'play' nice guy or 'play' asshole. Just be strong, be secure in your expectations and stay in control of your more primal aspects, and you will be fine. Truly the women who are only happy with the extreme assholes are of a lower variety and not worthy of wasting time on.

 

[Generic MALE]

I used to put up with a lot of shit from guys. Those days are gone. .

For some reason I almost expect that these days were "over" 6 months ago more or less.

 

[Cuthbert]

Assholes aren't afraid to assert themselves.

Too many times a 'nice guy' will be afraid of saying the wrong thing, or of offending a girl, or even talking to them.

Assholes make the chicks live in THEIR world; the nice guy lives in the chick's world.

 

[Lift Chief]

This pos is completely accurate...the ones who say the women who like jerk types change and go for nice types once they 'gain some self esteem' are completely full of shit. It's precisely how he describes it above.


What I've learned is it's not necessary to try and 'play' nice guy or 'play' asshole. Just be strong, be secure in your expectations and stay in control of your more primal aspects, and you will be fine. Truly the women who are only happy with the extreme assholes are of a lower variety and not worthy of wasting time on.

This is a good post.

It isn't necessary to treat a girl poorly... you just have to make sure you don't dote on them or cave to what they want to do. Be strong and secure in yourself and what you want... and if they ever do anything that shows a lack of respect you tell thim in no uncertain terms that if that ever happens again they're gone. It really comes down to respect and control.

The person who cares least (or appears to care least) is in control. When you like someone that you think doesn't like you back you like them much more. I've noticed that i may not like a girl when she likes me, but if i feel that she may not like me i'm all about her. Women are this exact same way and therefore the best way to be in a good position in a relationship is to appear to not need them.

All this needs to have a disclaimer that this is for late teenage/early twenty something girls... as they get older, well, hopefully these games don't continue forever.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

Not all women like assholes, but many would rather be in a bad relationship than in no relationship. Some women have such low self esteem that they naturally gravitate towards assholes because the poor treatment they get reinforces their negative opinion of themselves.

the biggest place that ive seen that manifest itself is in the Greek system. anybody who was in a fraternity will know this about a huge chunk (although im not saying its absolute) of the females who are greek,

the ass-jerk-player-probably has chlaymidia more often than not-been around for 6 years-can play the guitar kind of-boisterous-outgoing-over confident-dominant-territorial-womanizing member of the fraternity usually ends up with a good looking (naive/young/homesick) female greek.

 

[rsnoble]

It's a phase...Bad boys are fun if you can keep your heart and wits about you.

It's very MUCH like YOU gents who go thru the "slutty girl" phase.

Once the "slutty girl" stage gets boring , you go into the next level/phase of wanting to find a "nice" girl to adore you.

Sooo different..Yet the same!

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[calveless wonder]

Lift chief is right........

Its about control. Women always say they want a nice guy blah blah blah but women arent supposed to be logical. So what they SAY is never what they mean. They go based on what they FEEL. So anything that women have responded with more or less on this thread is completely invalid or untrue. The EXCEPTION being that typically when women want to settle down and get married they'll opt for that "nice guy".

The subconcious of a woman wants an alpha male. Theres a difference between being an "asshole" and being assertive and not taking any shit. Theres no attractiveness in being a spineless pussy.

Its just simpler in society to label things into black and white and say one guys an "asshole" and the other is a "nice guy".

Women want a man who can dominate them and tell them what to do, very simply even though they'll never admit. Its not that complicated but people have to come ot the realization that women, logically, dont make sense. That whole being swept off their feet fantasy has been implanted in their subconcious since they were little girls, and thats not something that can be done by someone who's uncertain of himself, predictable, and not a challenge.

 

[Lao Tzu]

Theres no attractiveness in being a spineless pussy.

That whole being swept off their feet fantasy has been implanted in their subconcious since they were little girls, and thats not something that can be done by someone who's uncertain of himself, predictable, and not a challenge.

True. i think people confuse 'nice guy' with 'boring, predictable, passive, unchallenging' guy.

 

[Warpath]

Natural selection, whoever is tamable is not a challenge and is not worthy of passing on his double helix. Think about it, guys wanna spread their genetic code, they can fuck as much as they want...Women are out of commission for 9 months after getting fucked...they're very selective and they would require the best mate possible.

You are totally correct, the tamable guys are the ones with low testosterone. Women try to trap one of these guys and then screw around, get pregnant with the untamable guys offspring and then have the tame sucker raise the other guys kid. Be warned guys, dont fall for the trap.

 

[Pamela]

I don't!

 

[msaffliction09]

most women have it all wrong. that's why the relationship timespan is less than 2 years. We are a world of serial monogomists...Well, most of us.

 

[pdaddyII]

illegal bumpage!

 

[puddlemonkey]

Women want a man who can dominate them and tell them what to do

Then why do you continue to act like a SWV around them?