is it ok for your spouse to (smurf and chris need not apply)

[shirlene29]

LOLOL....holy shit...I never said my spouse was snooping in my shit

reread the title

 

[smurf2]

Then who are you referring to?

 

[bigbassturd]

Nice trust issues stemming from both of your past indescretions life

 

[shirlene29]

it was a question that came up between me and a friend
Greg has all of my user names and passwords because he is insecure and as a show of good faith i gave em all to him quite some time ago
the friend thought that was crazy and a huge invasion of privacy. We got on this conversation because his girlfriend went through his computer...so I was curious as to what everyones take on it was

and before I get jumped on for the friend being a "he" ..hes a very close friend to my entire family including Greg. Greg talks to him almost as much as I do and has zero problems with him..

 

[theoak01]

Im not ok with snooping, and if anything I should be the one creeping her shit, especially since she was stupid enough to have some inappropriate emails with some dude using out joint email account.

 

[shirlene29]

so theres a point where if its justified its ok

what constitutes as justification?
illegal business ventures/or purchases?..I'll say AAS use because its this crowd
talking to the opposite sex?..at what level? professionally , friendly?
flirting with the opposite sex?.. when is it flirting? is it "hey that xyz looks good on you" or is it "hey there sexy"
kiddy porn suspicions? (yeah ok, that ones dramatic..I'd snoop)


wheres the line

 

[wootoom]

Hell fucking no...maybe on some things but I think everyone has to have a little of their own privacy...I would never go through my girlfriends phone..why would I? I have no reason to. I think the only time you start snooping is when a trust issue broken. And yes, from personal experience

 

[ppgfreak]

No it is not ok in my opinion. If there is trust in the relationship there won't be any snooping.

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[shirlene29]

I guess thats what I was getting at above...whats a trust breaker? at which point does it make it ok

like...I don't go through Gregs shit because a. I dont want to know and b. if hes gonna screw around he's gonna do it whether I find out or not..Id find out after the fact via snooping wouldn't I?

so if you refer back to a. I dont want to know
what purpose does it have?

 

[shirlene29]

Hell fucking no...maybe on some things but I think everyone has to have a little of their own privacy...I would never go through my girlfriends phone..why would I? I have no reason to. I think the only time you start snooping is when a trust issue broken. And yes, from personal experience

shes cheating on you bro