No, it isn't. What pisses me off to no end is that people who were born well to do, or at least to families who could put food on the table and weren't emotionally/physically dysfunctional and abusive, don't seem to understand that they have a leg up on the rest of us who started out in poverty and got the shit kicked out of us to boot. When you start out at the very bottom, living on food stamps, wearing Goodwill clothes, thinking you're worthless before you even start kindergarten, it makes achieving "the American dream" g'damned difficult.