lolol who said anything about banning you?
The shit you are taking right now is entirely your own doing because you announced someone here was fitting all your holes. if you don't want to have to deal with it, do what most here who who start seeing someone from the board: Don't talk about it at ALL until both parties are ready to be open about it.
Right off the bat, you probably didn't get a fair shake. I honestly didn't really pay attention, but I always recommend new women stay to the women's forum or fitness forums for legitimate questions. This is chat, where people BS. Rules on conduct in fitness forums are a LOT tighter.
Also, you put your body in your avatar. I'm not saying you shouldn't do it, but with any positive attention inevitably comes negative attention. If you don't want negative attention, don't do things that are blatant attempts to draw attention your way.
Just a couple of suggestions - ones I followed myself as a new poster, and as a result caught almost no ribbing. If you constantly respond to aggression with aggression, attitude with attitude, it's only going to get worse.