people have to find solutions to stupid ass problems, when first living together I would nag when my slopy ass husband left hair on the soap, made me fucking cringe, I'd tell him not to do it, he'd pretend he cared and said he'd stop, then do it all over again, he felt nagged I felt like he didnt give a fuck, after a while I realized we were both pissy and going no where, so I bought him some body wash... end of nagging/story....