Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

[samoth]

what is WRONG WITH YOU that you don't want people to discuss shit???

I don't know, I guess I'm wierd and sick

[Sub-Zero]

ok.. what about jerking off in front of another woman?

what if its over the internet?

What if you just type to someone and jerk off as they type back... and it ends up being a dude?

if your doing anything sexual or with a sexual thought and ur with someone else its cheating. even daydreaming about someone else is a form of cheating in my opinion, even tho that definately wouldnt stop me. i see lapdances and stripclubs like looking at porn, ur doing it cause u find it erotic but with no real bond with the people

one could say u dont have a bond during the massage or if ur with a hooker, but if someone else causes u to bust then ur cheating

[slickdadd]

Yeah dude. If you do anything sexual with someone else behind your s.o.'s back, that is cheating. There are some forms of cheating that are worse than others of course (kissing a girl at a bar verses banging your gf's sister on your anniversary) but it's all cheating. That is something intimate you should only share with your partner unless you have already mutually agreed to allow such things. It's not that complicated.

[chewyxrage]

LOL @ the amount of people who checked "kissing is cheating" and didn't check "lap dance till climax"

[needtogrow]

Ask yourself if you would want your chick doing what you may be thinking about doing, and if the answer is no I would not, then you better put willie the one eyed wonder back in his cage and head for the door.

[H_T_]

lmao, a guy from the gym i'm at went to one, he said they were all off the boat 40+ asian women. and as for the "happy ending" the chick who did him asked "you wan juk?" and did the universal sign for handjob.

[JayC9]

Not in my eyes.

My girl would much rather I take any of those options than start messing around with another chick behind her back. She accepts it as long as I'm not building a relationship with another woman and I'm not rubbing it in her face.

[Phaded]

fucking is the only real cheat

[Lestat]

if your doing anything sexual or with a sexual thought and ur with someone else its cheating. even daydreaming about someone else is a form of cheating in my opinion, even tho that definately wouldnt stop me. i see lapdances and stripclubs like looking at porn, ur doing it cause u find it erotic but with no real bond with the people

one could say u dont have a bond during the massage or if ur with a hooker, but if someone else causes u to bust then ur cheating

I'm sorry, but FANTASY is NOT cheating.. no fucking way no how.. if so, then masturbating and not thinking about your wife or girlfriend would be cheating.. that is just wrong dude.

I think Phaded has it right

[Mr. dB]

It's only cheating if you're stupid enough to tell her about it, or if she finds out anyway.