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VballPlayer
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Okay , so I am having this moral dilemma going on right now. I am trying to find a new roommate. In the past I have only lived with straight guys. Since, I moved away from Boston for college I have had close to 15 different roommates. All of them were straight…..well the jury is out on one of them. I have never hit on one of my roommates, never tried to fool around with anyone of them, never tried to do shit to any of them. I would prefer to live with a straight guy than a gay guy, because I just relate better to straight people because I am more like them than gay people.
I have a great place, it is a 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom, with a back yard, walking distance to like 12 bars and clubs, 30 restaurants, shops and about 4 blocks to one of the best beaches in Southern California and it is pretty inexpensive compared to most places in my neighborhood. I have had like 5 guys all straight, say they were interested in the place and wanted to move in. They were all gung ho to move in. I then had to tell them I was gay because I thought they should know and make sure they were all cool with it. (And just to let you know I have never brought anyone back to my place for a one-night stand and I have never had sex with anyone in the house when another person was home. I am very uncomfortable showing public displays of affection, I get uncomfortable and I know a straight guy would get uncomfortable about it too, so I don’t do it) All 5 guys who were all gung ho about moving in, who all said that the place was perfect and it was exactly what they needed, they all said they could not find anything decent all of a sudden found the perfect place the next day and all said they did not want to move in. My current roommate, who is straight says that is just a coincidence I am not to sure about that. I think they were not comfortable living with a gay guy, I can understand that.
My dilemma I am in is should I continue to tell the next person who wants to move in or should I just not say a word and wait till they move in. I am not that sexually active and I do not bring guys back to my place so I can hide it for a while till he gets to know me as a person. I have not had one friend or acquaintance reject me because of my sexual orientation because I am very nice human being and everyone that knows about me sees that and does not care who I sleep with. What should I do? I need a roommate but I also do not want to deceive anyone? Please try and be cool and limit your FAGS SHOULD BE BURNED COMMENTS! Thanks, (Sorry for the long post)
I have a great place, it is a 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom, with a back yard, walking distance to like 12 bars and clubs, 30 restaurants, shops and about 4 blocks to one of the best beaches in Southern California and it is pretty inexpensive compared to most places in my neighborhood. I have had like 5 guys all straight, say they were interested in the place and wanted to move in. They were all gung ho to move in. I then had to tell them I was gay because I thought they should know and make sure they were all cool with it. (And just to let you know I have never brought anyone back to my place for a one-night stand and I have never had sex with anyone in the house when another person was home. I am very uncomfortable showing public displays of affection, I get uncomfortable and I know a straight guy would get uncomfortable about it too, so I don’t do it) All 5 guys who were all gung ho about moving in, who all said that the place was perfect and it was exactly what they needed, they all said they could not find anything decent all of a sudden found the perfect place the next day and all said they did not want to move in. My current roommate, who is straight says that is just a coincidence I am not to sure about that. I think they were not comfortable living with a gay guy, I can understand that.
My dilemma I am in is should I continue to tell the next person who wants to move in or should I just not say a word and wait till they move in. I am not that sexually active and I do not bring guys back to my place so I can hide it for a while till he gets to know me as a person. I have not had one friend or acquaintance reject me because of my sexual orientation because I am very nice human being and everyone that knows about me sees that and does not care who I sleep with. What should I do? I need a roommate but I also do not want to deceive anyone? Please try and be cool and limit your FAGS SHOULD BE BURNED COMMENTS! Thanks, (Sorry for the long post)
