It blows my mind. My secretary husband filed on her last week for divorce and a couple days later he called her and was very nice and said his pride was getting in the way of their relationship and both of them decided to give it more time to see if they can work it out. And my secretary's friend was mad at her for not keep it(the divorce proceedings going). I think that was being a lousy friend. A good friend would try all they could to keep the covenate of marriage from being broken. So if any of you or ever thinking of divorce and your friends are sparring you on they are not your friends imo. Thoughts?