girls go out and have fun and live in their away from home fantasy world, and forget that their baby daddy back at home with they 2 kids, they like to belive their single while in fantasy land, makes them feel good and so they act the part and hand out #, then they go home and wake up next to baby daddy and the hood rats, their not answering your phone call,their to busy swingin from poles and changing diapers and treating their herpes, its ok bro u aint missin out....