cw801
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I had my kiddos in my early 20's......in retrospect, there are good things and bad things about having them younger, as opposed to mid-thirties.....while I had more energy for them and was young enough to have very low-risk pregnancies, we also didn't have a ton of money back then. Yes we provided just fine for them (my ex and I), but the financial issues we had put a huge strain on our marriage/relationship. Plus, I hadn't really had a chance to do all of the things I wanted to do with my life before I had kids......I think if I had them at this point in my life, rather than earlier, I would have been able to provide for them better, and would have been more "settled down" - meaning I would have done a lot of things I had wanted to do already....been more ready for kids. If I were able to do it all over again, I'd probably choose to have them in my 30's.......but, I adore my kids, and I am who I am today because of the way they shaped my life - so......absolutely no regrets in that department!