Your words of wisdom are needed.

[MattTheSkywalker]

Hey dude

1. Look at your sig.

2. When I was 20-21 my best friend was a girl in school. I wanted more too but I was afraid to lose the friendship. There was one drunk hookup, but we didn't get involved beyond that.

I was her best friend as she dated a few guys, some not too bad ones, some not so good ones. Likewise I dated a few girls in that period.

As we went through these relationships, we got to be really close. I didn't ask her about anything more because I valued the friendship too much.

Eventually, distance weakened our friendship somewhat - I moved to Seattle from NY and then to Atlanta.

Since then I have dated many many girls. Some quality, some shitty, most somewhere in between. But I have never met one I could be that close with.

Talk to her.

 

[Bikini Mod]

For God's sake man....TELL HER YOU CHEESEHEAD!!!

If she does not return your affection, then you need to move on.

I don't mean to sound harsh here brotha, just smackin' some sense into ya.

 

[The Varnsen]

Someone called?

 

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Tell her how you feel.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

I'm feeling an uncontrollable urge to bump this.

Beezers,

I suggest you reread your signature quote. You can play the what if game all day, or you can do something about it. Life isn't fair -- it may work out, it may not. But while you're sitting here dicking around, what if she meets a mr. right that isn't afraid to tell her how he feels?

Your call bro. I say go for it. Let her read this thread if you can't tell her in person.

Step up to the plate killer. Take the risk that you advocate in your sig. There's a time for action and this is it. Don't be a pussy.