Your commitment requirements?

[Citruscide]

On the day we got married my husband gave me a wall placque that said, "I don't want you because I need you, I need you because I want you."

On the eventuality that I ever get married... I will present my wife to be with a prenuptual agreement, legally binding in all 50 states... titled "To my loving future wife to be... sign this shit so I don't have to kill you later.... Love, Citruscide"

C-ditty

 

[jesus 2]

i would hate the idea of having to use a prenuptual agreement. but it seems that these days it would be necessary.

do prenuptual agreements only account for properties only accumulated before marriage?


j2da2

 

[PHATchik]

He has to be willing to give as much as he expects from me. He has to be a friend as well as a lover. Someone compassionate and caring. Trustworthy.....I won't put up with lies. Someone I can rely on. Someone that will put up with me being a bitch, but will call me on it. I guess it's hard to really pinpoint everything.

 

[jesus 2]

I guess it's hard to really pinpoint everything.

i think it would be hard to define commitment in this way. it will happen when it happens.


j2da2

 

[PHATchik]

i think it would be hard to define commitment in this way. it will happen when it happens.


j2da2

Exactly.

 

[Frackal]

Velvett along with pink are the most solid women on the board.. ...only two women I know of that if i was dating would not automatically assume they woudl be cheaters.


I think running a relationship like a nazi-ish gestappo is a good method of doing thigns

 

[jesus 2]

i also forgot to mention that commitment is also a mutual concept. this is one of the reasons it will only happen when it happens.


j2da2

 

[grlpwrd]

I've been married to the same guy for 11 years and what keeps us together is that we don't keep each other on a leash and don't treat each other as a ball and chain. I want him to be happy...so I don't hold him back when it comes to his agenda, like moving thousands of miles away to work at a job he loves (he's a contract engineer and has worked in Arkansas, Georgia, and Florida for months at a time without me) or the way he buys a new car for himself and doesn't tell me until he drives up in it. Hmmm..I guess it's all about being married, but living single.

It works both ways, though...

 

[PolishHammer1977]

(1) Physical appearance
(2) Articulation
(3) Mental Toughness
(4) Loyalty
(5) Confidence
I never cared if my woman was into fitness. I care if she is healthy and happy with herself. I will always take a woman who is a few extra pounds over than a skinny rail.

 

[PinK233]

Frackie

There's no perfect person, you just have to find someone you like spending time with, then you can deal with their bad qualities b/c their good qualities make you happy...