Frack relax...no one's stealing your identity. Sometimes when you X out of the chat room, it doesn't "take." A lot of people have experienced that problem. I think it's just a glitch in the application somewhere. You might try completely logging off of EF, closing IE, and starting up again.
she is right cause my g/f got into elite and was able to send me a pm to my own account cause of cookies. so someone can access your account if they are there.