WOW, something I realized this weekend...

[snacky cake]

I hired a babysitter and went to a scrapbooking project class. Of course it was all women sitting together working on these mini-albums we were doing. We talked about our kids, our challenges at work, at home, with the kids, with men, etc. I was actually shocked that I had things in common with other people. I'm so used to being sort of the odd person out on here...lol. Also, not one person yelled "show me your tits", "he's cheating on you", or "useless without pics." I almost don't know how to have normal conversations anymore.

 

[Humble Pride]

yes you do........

 

[snacky cake]

yes you do........

 

[stilleto]

are you friendly with anyone at work? (or do you work in a very small office? i got that impression)

My closest friend in work is a 22 year old skin head. His gf is a high school senior.

 

[snacky cake]

are you friendly with anyone at work? (or do you work in a very small office? i got that impression)

My closest friend in work is a 22 year old skin head. His gf is a high school senior.

Our ohio office is large, but we are only 2 attorneys and 3 employees. I'm friendly with the employees but I don't hang out with them after work. I'm starting to attend scrapbooking things once per week now. Hopefully, I'll meet some other women here in town to talk to. I've been here a year and haven't been out to make any friends yet. I spend all my time with my son, which I used to think was healthy. Now I think it might be a bit loopy and overboard. LOL.

 

[Cardinal Slin]

Show me your tits because he's cheating on you and it's useless showing those tits without pics...

No, Seriously

Enjoy

 

[stilleto]

Our ohio office is large, but we are only 2 attorneys and 3 employees. I'm friendly with the employees but I don't hang out with them after work. I'm starting to attend scrapbooking things once per week now. Hopefully, I'll meet some other women here in town to talk to. I've been here a year and haven't been out to make any friends yet. I spend all my time with my son, which I used to think was healthy. Now I think it might be a bit loopy and overboard. LOL.

it's an easy trap to fall into. and it's difficult to get out and sometimes seems like more trouble than it's worth, but it is good for both of you. He needs socialization as much as you do.

 

[snacky cake]

Show me your tits because he's cheating on you and it's useless showing those tits without pics...

No, Seriously

Enjoy

hahahaha...you got em all in there.

I kept finding myself thinking of doofy replies when women said things. I had to remind myself that "LOL" is not a proper response to something IRL. Also, I kept wanting to post a smilie...lol

 

[Cardinal Slin]

Yeah, I have started doing that - I use some sayings like 'he's straight' and that's so geigh IRL and people look at me like 'wtf'

 

[snacky cake]

it's an easy trap to fall into. and it's difficult to get out and sometimes seems like more trouble than it's worth, but it is good for both of you. He needs socialization as much as you do.

I find myself thinking that it is a lot of trouble most of the time. Just getting us both ready and presentable and the diaper bags packed and toys, etc. is so much work.

I'm the same way about dating. I wear a ring so that no one even looks at me. I find myself going out and trying to be invisible. It seems like so much trouble to even look presentable these days.