Would you date someone who smokes?

[biteme]

Hell no. Disgusting

 

[Cutiebaby]

yes

 

[biteme]

yes

Gross

 

[heatherrae]

Yeah, my guy smokes, but I find it gross. I wish he wouldn't.

 

[biteme]

Yeah, my guy smokes, but I find it gross. I wish he wouldn't.

Then you are breathing second hand smoke and the surgeon general just updated the dangers on second hand smoke. Do you want to die a slow and painful death? He probably will. Why would you be with someone like that? Denial ain't just a river in Egypt.

 

[galaxy]

Yeah....i like it when they smell and taste all dirty.....love it

 

[Huckster]

Women that smoke often times=the naughty,bad girl all grown up.

 

[biteme]

Women that smoke often times=the naughty,bad girl all grown up.

What you mean to say is that you'd fuck them but you wouldn't get serious with them?

 

[blueta2]

Then you are breathing second hand smoke and the surgeon general just updated the dangers on second hand smoke. Do you want to die a slow and painful death? He probably will. Why would you be with someone like that? Denial ain't just a river in Egypt.

smoking is an addiction dude! Not all smokers die a slow and painful death!
When u sit in traffic, u breathe the same shit in! Smoking is gross, but u don't love or unlove someone b/c of it!

 

[Pikaberdot]

Wouldn't enter a serious relationship with a smoker.

 

[heatherrae]

Then you are breathing second hand smoke and the surgeon general just updated the dangers on second hand smoke. Do you want to die a slow and painful death? He probably will. Why would you be with someone like that? Denial ain't just a river in Egypt.

He never smokes in the same room with me.

 

[Huckster]

What you mean to say is that you'd fuck them but you wouldn't get serious with them?

Depends.I tend to go for wild women,so if she and I hit it off,I'd work around the habit the best I could.

 

[biteme]

smoking is an addiction dude! Not all smokers die a slow and painful death!
When u sit in traffic, u breathe the same shit in! Smoking is gross, but u don't love or unlove someone b/c of it!

Most do die a slow and painful death and certainly greatly increase their odds of all kinds of nasty diseases. So, yes, I definitely would choose who I would love (romantically) based on whether or not they smoke. What a ridiculous statement you just made

 

[biteme]

He never smokes in the same room with me.

Ditch him if he doesn't break the habit. Unless you're waiting to collect on a large life insurance policy. I would never put up with it.

 

[Smurfy]

WHen I smoked, I always seeemed to be dating men who didnt smoke. I didnt smoke in my houseor in the car when they were in the car with me. I didnt like the smell of the smoke myself so I could imagine how it must have been to someone who didnt smoke at all. If youre that turned off by smoking, or by people who smoke, then dont date someone who smokes. Seems pretty simple to me.

 

[dutchman063]

What you mean to say is that you'd fuck them but you wouldn't get serious with them?

bingo....generally they're easy pickens though

 

[blueta2]

Most do die a slow and painful death and certainly greatly increase their odds of all kinds of nasty diseases. So, yes, I definitely would choose who I would love (romantically) based on whether or not they smoke. What a ridiculous statement you just made

It's not ridiculous......most of the time we do not choose who we fall in love with. If u meet a great girl, she is everything that you dreamt of, but she smoked, you would dump her?

U ain't making sense to me!

 

[needtogetaas]

Hell no. Disgusting

yes you would.

 

[Smurfy]

It's not ridiculous......most of the time we do not choose who we fall in love with. If u meet a great girl, she is everything that you dreamt of, but she smoked, you would dump her?

U ain't making sense to me!

I think the point Biteme is making is that he would not even bother getting involved with a woman if she smokes. WHich is his right. It's his choice.

 

[biteme]

It's not ridiculous......most of the time we do not choose who we fall in love with. If u meet a great girl, she is everything that you dreamt of, but she smoked, you would dump her?

U ain't making sense to me!

No girl that smokes would ever be a girl of my dreams. Yes, you do choose who you fall in love with if you are smart.

 

[blueta2]

Ditch him if he doesn't break the habit. Unless you're waiting to collect on a large life insurance policy. I would never put up with it.

Sounds to me like you do not have a lot of "life experience"

Ok Heather's convo with her fiance "HUn, I just love you to pc's and u are my whole world, my soul mate buttttttttttttt you're a filthy smoker so I am going to have to end it> I am keeping the ring"

Sounds good!

Dude get off your hgh horse......no one is perfect!

 

[biteme]

Sounds to me like you do not have a lot of "life experience"

Ok Heather's convo with her fiance "HUn, I just love you to pc's and u are my whole world, my soul mate buttttttttttttt you're a filthy smoker so I am going to have to end it> I am keeping the ring"

Sounds good!

Dude get off your hgh horse......no one is perfect!

I don't date fat woman either. Because I know once those habits are set, they are unlikely to change. I would never date a smoker in the first place. Totally disgusting.

 

[needtogetaas]

He never smokes in the same room with me.

he is like 60 years old smokes and dosent work out.he is rich........hmmmmmm

 

[heatherrae]

Ditch him if he doesn't break the habit. Unless you're waiting to collect on a large life insurance policy. I would never put up with it.

Different strokes for different folks, sweetie. I don't like it, but it isn't a deal breaker for me.

 

[Testosterone boy]

TB has spaced out 1/2 the hotties he has ever been interested in because he later notes a cancer stick hanging from their lips.

They seem to think they are stylin'.

 

[blueta2]

I don't date fat woman either. Because I know once those habits are set, they are unlikely to change. I would never date a smoker in the first place. Totally disgusting.

aahh that's too bad cause I was going to ask you out on a date!!..hehe!
I see your point! But you never know...you may love a fat smoker one day

;-)

 

[Pikaberdot]

That's even worse if you smoke and you're STILL fat.

I can't respect fat people.

 

[biteme]

aahh that's too bad cause I was going to ask you out on a date!!..hehe!
I see your point! But you never know...you may love a fat smoker one day

;-)

LOL. No, that's something I know for a fact will never happen.

 

[Huckster]

I don't date fat woman either. Because I know once those habits are set, they are unlikely to change. I would never date a smoker in the first place. Totally disgusting.

Gotta say that isn't always true.One of the gals I have become close to was BOTH an EX-smoker,and has lost over a hundred lbs through hard-core diet & excersize.You never know...

 

[biteme]

Different strokes for different folks, sweetie. I don't like it, but it isn't a deal breaker for me.

Tis true. I just don't understand the logic unless it doesn't bother you that your love is more than likely going to die an early death and on top of that there is significant increase in odds of it being a long drawn out death. I can't respect anyone that would put their loves thru that because of their drug addiction.

 

[blueta2]

That's even worse if you smoke and you're STILL fat.

I can't respect fat people.

Don't be so superficial! As you learn in life, u will see it's what's on the inside that matters! Fat or small.....people are people!
Why disrespect them? Cause they do not have the same focus as you?

 

[biteme]

TB has spaced out 1/2 the hotties he has ever been interested in because he later notes a cancer stick hanging from their lips.

They seem to think they are stylin'.

Just another one of God's cruel jokes that it seems the majority of attractive women smoke. Probably keeps them from being fat. Americans are sloths.

 

[blueta2]

Tis true. I just don't understand the logic unless it doesn't bother you that your love is more than likely going to die an early death and on top of that there is significant increase in odds of it being a long drawn out death. I can't respect anyone that would put their loves thru that because of their drug addiction.

Hun, addictions have no rhyme or reason....they just are! People have all sorts of bad addictions! You can chose not to be with one, but respect the person and not their addiction!

 

[blueta2]

LOL. No, that's something I know for a fact will never happen.

I am going to get u to love me! Then you will have to come back to this thread and grovel!

U WILL LOVE ME

 

[Pikaberdot]

Don't be so superficial! As you learn in life, u will see it's what's on the inside that matters! Fat or small.....people are people!
Why disrespect them? Cause they do not have the same focus as you?

I know they are people, and I don't treat them differently, but inside it just disgusts me that people can stand being so grossly overweight. On the other hand, if they are making a TRUE EFFORT to change their body composition, then I have the utmost respect for them.

 

[biteme]

Don't be so superficial! As you learn in life, u will see it's what's on the inside that matters! Fat or small.....people are people!
Why disrespect them? Cause they do not have the same focus as you?

Who said anything about disrespecting them? Well, I didn't anyway.

 

[blueta2]

I know they are people, and I don't treat them differently, but inside it just disgusts me that people can stand being so grossly overweight. On the other hand, if they are making a TRUE EFFORT to change their body composition, then I have the utmost respect for them.

Then you must not respect all alcoholics, drug users etc! For the majority of fat ppl, food is their addiction, their escape! We all have our vises!

 

[blueta2]

Who said anything about disrespecting them? Well, I didn't anyway.

No, u love fat ppl, it's smokers that you dis ;-)

 

[biteme]

I am going to get u to love me! Then you will have to come back to this thread and grovel!

U WILL LOVE ME

Well I'm not a bad guy as far as people are concerned, but I don't think I'm capable of romantic love anymore, not even with a non-smoker, non-obese person. I might be fun to date for someone, but they need to know that I more than likely will not fall in love with them.

 

[needtogetaas]

Don't be so superficial! As you learn in life, u will see it's what's on the inside that matters! Fat or small.....people are people!
Why disrespect them? Cause they do not have the same focus as you?

well I just cant get hard for a fat chick.cant love them if I cant fuck them.

 

[Pikaberdot]

Then you must not respect all alcoholics, drug users etc! For the majority of fat ppl, food is their addiction, their escape! We all have our vises!

Alcoholics pay my bills (still don't have to respect them - if something has a negative impact on your life, or the lives around you - STOP doing it).

Drug users aren't all addicted to drugs (and no, I don't respect drug addicts).

So eat healthy food instead of shit, and maybe you won't be fat? If you're that addicted to food, then become addicted to working out.

 

[Miss24k]

No I wouldn't date a smoker, it's a major turn-off for me.

 

[blueta2]

Well I'm not a bad guy as far as people are concerned, but I don't think I'm capable of romantic love anymore, not even with a non-smoker, non-obese person. I might be fun to date for someone, but they need to know that I more than likely will not fall in love with them.

Sounds like you've been hurt! It's common! You need to date a hard core smoker...this way, when they die a horrible death, you would be sick of them by then anyways, and poof, they are gone!

by the way, I smoke 3 cigs a day (stil 3 too many) and I cannot stand the smell of smoke. I know weird, but it's my only nasty habit!

 

[blueta2]

Alcoholics pay my bills (still don't have to respect them - if something has a negative impact on your life, or the lives around you - STOP doing it).

Drug users aren't all addicted to drugs (and no, I don't respect drug addicts).

So eat healthy food instead of shit, and maybe you won't be fat? If you're that addicted to food, then become addicted to working out.

It does seem like it should be that easy, but the dynamics of addiction are not so simple! If they were, then fewer ppl who have addictions!

Being addicted to anything, including working out, is unhealhty!

 

[biteme]

Sounds like you've been hurt! It's common! You need to date a hard core smoker...this way, when they die a horrible death, you would be sick of them by then anyways, and poof, they are gone!

by the way, I smoke 3 cigs a day (stil 3 too many) and I cannot stand the smell of smoke. I know weird, but it's my only nasty habit!

WHen I said fat women, I meant real obese. A little fat doesn't bother me. Just not too much. Although I eat a very strict diet, so even dating people is a pain in the butt for me because most people don't and it makes them feel bad around me or they just don't like the fact that I eat real strict.

 

[Pikaberdot]

It does seem like it should be that easy, but the dynamics of addiction are not so simple! If they were, then fewer ppl who have addictions!

Being addicted to anything, including working out, is unhealhty!

How is working out an unhealthy addiction? It doesn't hurt my body, in helps it (inside and out).

If for some reason I absolutely couldn't work out, I would not get withdrawls. I might be slightly irritable, and more impatient.... but that's it.

 

[reno240]

If she sucks my cock with regularity - then hell yeah

 

[theoak01]

before I thought I could but if I really think about it no, my pops smokes and it disgusts me.

I smoke a few cigars a year on big weekends or outings but not everyday and I wouldnt expect my girl to kiss me after ive been sucking those back

 

[musclemom]

Hell no. Disgusting

I'm a former smoker who's a hard core nicotine addict (as in, roll out of bed, stick ciggy in mouth, light ciggy as you achieve verticality ...)

Hubby is a former smoker who is what I call an "OP" smoker, meaning, he'll smoke a butt or two if someone he likes offers him a cig. and he's in the mood. After three+ hard quits as an addict I'm finally pretty much in that department, I can have a couple of cigarettes, say, at a bar, then walk away from them until the next time.

Having said that, would I date a smoker??? FUCK NO!!! Could I live with a nonsmoker and have the once in a blue moon butt, yes. Could I live with a smoker and be exposed to that shit DAY in and DAY out and not succumb ...

... uh, NO ... I am not superhuman ...

 

[HiDnGoD]

I prolly would because the smell, sometimes, is comforting. As long as it's no more than 1/2 pack a day. My parents smoked, & My wife has smoked for 27 yrs.

 

[blueta2]

How is working out an unhealthy addiction? It doesn't hurt my body, in helps it (inside and out).

If for some reason I absolutely couldn't work out, I would not get withdrawls. I might be slightly irritable, and more impatient.... but that's it.

working out is not unhealthy, being addicted to it is!
Comparable to work addicts......too much of anything is not good!

 

[reno240]

working out is not unhealthy, being addicted to it is!
Comparable to work addicts......too much of anything is not good!

Agreed - too much of anything is a bad thing....

Like my grammer there? oh yeah - I speak good english!!

 

[biteme]

working out is not unhealthy, being addicted to it is!
Comparable to work addicts......too much of anything is not good!

You can't have to much sex! LOL

 

[jenscats5]

No I wouldn't date a smoker, it's a major turn-off for me.

Same here........can't stand being around smokers.....