Well, I called her once desk phone at her office, which I almost never do. I said "Hey Beautiful!" And she asked, "Who is is?".
Then that night I had a horrible dream that I got really sick after chemo and laying on the floor throwing up with my little girl crying. And I looked up at her and asked her to help and she said "I can't I'm seeing someone."
I asked her about the dream the next day and she fessed up.