women...answer me this please

[SAGAT]

could you date a guy in which you see no physical attraction whatsoever? i mean, NONE? a girlfriend of mine has a BUTT-ugly boyfriend, ugly face, fatass, the whole business. i mean, this is not just my opinion, it's a goddamn fact. my friend though, his girlfriend, his abso-fucking-lutely beautiful. i mean the complete opposite of him. total sweetheart too. yet, they're a couple. how in the fuck can this be? they've been together for some time now but it just struck me as completely fucking idiotic today.
i mean come on, there has to be some attraction right? mind you personality-wise he's not exactly prince charming either. not a bad guy, but nothing special.
i don't get it people, fill me in here!

 

[velvett]

Sometimes it's the strangest thing that may attract you to another person.

So, yes I think it's possible to get beyond the whole physical thing.

 

[SAGAT]

well i know that, but there has to be SOMETHING, right?
he also chased her for around a year and she kept rejecting him. a week or so before they got together, she told me there wasn't a chance in hell they'd get together.
i never gave it much thought, but it just baffles me now.

 

[velvett]

Maybe he is remarkable in bed.

Who knows what motivates people - take for example why are you so concerned...

LOL - I know I'm evil, I'm poking fun with you.

 

[Carmen]

he may only be attractive to her if she knows him well.
a person can be beautiful to you from the inside and it makes the outside attractive too.
there's a woman in my town who is.. i don't know how to say it... her face is MESSED UP.
like, something is seriously wrong- huge buck teeth that point OUT. she can't close her lips over them. she doesn't really have a nose, just two nostrils and her eyes look like they've been punched in. like her face is made out of clay.
thin hair, no boobs at all, and WIIIIIIIIIIIIIDE hips.
her husband isn't bad looking.
there's something about her he finds beautiful.

 

[SAGAT]

haha it's okay, it's obvious i want her otherwise i wouldn't be so concerned, i know that oh well...off to sleep..

 

[velvett]

haha it's okay, it's obvious i want her otherwise i wouldn't be so concerned, i know that oh well...off to sleep..

Cute.

Just be you, keep your nose out of her business and see what happens.

 

[SAGAT]

he may only be attractive to her if she knows him well.
a person can be beautiful to you from the inside and it makes the outside attractive too.
there's a woman in my town who is.. i don't know how to say it... her face is MESSED UP.
like, something is seriously wrong- huge buck teeth that point OUT. she can't close her lips over them. she doesn't really have a nose, just two nostrils and her eyes look like they've been punched in. like her face is made out of clay.
thin hair, no boobs at all, and WIIIIIIIIIIIIIDE hips.
her husband isn't bad looking.
there's something about her he finds beautiful.

lol that sounds dreadful. i know what you mean with being beautiful from the inside but she didn't know him well before...see? it just doesnt add up.

 

[velvett]

he may only be attractive to her if she knows him well.
a person can be beautiful to you from the inside and it makes the outside attractive too.
there's a woman in my town who is.. i don't know how to say it... her face is MESSED UP.
like, something is seriously wrong- huge buck teeth that point OUT. she can't close her lips over them. she doesn't really have a nose, just two nostrils and her eyes look like they've been punched in. like her face is made out of clay.
thin hair, no boobs at all, and WIIIIIIIIIIIIIDE hips.
her husband isn't bad looking.
there's something about her he finds beautiful.

This woman, is she a bookkeeper by chance?

 

[SAGAT]

Cute.

Just be you, keep your nose out of her business and see what happens.

i already tried that a couple years ago...crashed and burned
oh well who knows what happens in the future...prolly nothing
i'm really off ta sleep now!

 

[Carmen]

This woman, is she a bookkeeper by chance?

i don't know... her name is kathy.

 

[Carmen]

lol that sounds dreadful. i know what you mean with being beautiful from the inside but she didn't know him well before...see? it just doesnt add up.

looks may not be a factor to her at all. remove that from the equation, or even make it something she doesn't like (i wouldn't like it if a guy looked in the mirror more than me).

 

[strongsmartsexy]

Some people have have reached a level of where they are more interested in the "heart" of the individual than the outside appearance of the individual.

There is a story out (I'm HUGELY paraphrasing) about a beautiful woman who met this ugly man with a hunch back. He talked to her and she wasn't intersted. So he relayed to her a story about how when they were two souls in heaven ready to come to earth the condition was that she had to be ugly and have a hunch back. He couldn't stand the idea of her having to go through life like that so he volunteered to be ugly and have the hunchback instead. The story touched the woman in the depths of her soul and the rest is history...

 

[Robert Jan]

ive never fallen in love with an ugly girl before. im young though. maybe one day ill be like superdave

 

[alien amp pharm]

so you all are saying there's still hope for Bilestew, eh?

 

[Dial_tone]

Some people have have reached a level of where they are more interested in the "heart" of the individual than the outside appearance of the individual.

There is a story out (I'm HUGELY paraphrasing) about a beautiful woman who met this ugly man with a hunch back. He talked to her and she wasn't intersted. So he relayed to her a story about how when they were two souls in heaven ready to come to earth the condition was that she had to be ugly and have a hunch back. He couldn't stand the idea of her having to go through life like that so he volunteered to be ugly and have the hunchback instead. The story touched the woman in the depths of her soul and the rest is history...

that guy had a huge deadlift though.

 

[onebigab]

that guy had a huge deadlift though.

No no no he's got a bigger penis

 

[Subzeero]

I am bored. , i don't know, i just can't get over uglyness. If someone seems ugly to me he/she is always so. Its their uglyness that gives them certain character traits on the first place. Physical appearence has a lot to do with personality. Uglyness may force some people to be descent, kind, hardworking etc etc. Ugly men usually have a lot of appreciation with the pretty women they are with. Maybe he is making her feel special. Maybe he loves her. what dya know??

 

[Pamela]

It doesn't have to be looks to attract me.

But I have to be attracted to something;
maybe his personality or maybe his sense of humor.

 

[SAGAT]

It doesn't have to be looks to attract me.

But I have to be attracted to something;
maybe his personality or maybe his sense of humor.

exactly, there has to be SOMEthing, right...
what's even weirder is that in the beginning, even she said she didn't understand why they were together.

short version: i'll never understand this!

 

[Pamela]

exactly, there has to be SOMEthing, right...
what's even weirder is that in the beginning, even she said she didn't understand why they were together.

short version: i'll never understand this!

Yes I would say "something" there!

 

[Werd]

could you date a guy in which you see no physical attraction whatsoever? i mean, NONE? a girlfriend of mine has a BUTT-ugly boyfriend, ugly face, fatass, the whole business. i mean, this is not just my opinion, it's a goddamn fact. my friend though, his girlfriend, his abso-fucking-lutely beautiful. i mean the complete opposite of him. total sweetheart too. yet, they're a couple. how in the fuck can this be? they've been together for some time now but it just struck me as completely fucking idiotic today.
i mean come on, there has to be some attraction right? mind you personality-wise he's not exactly prince charming either. not a bad guy, but nothing special.
i don't get it people, fill me in here!

It is very easy... once you get tired of being treated like shit by enough guys.

My last guy was old enough to be my father. His idea of a workout was walking up a flight of stairs with a vodka martini and a cigarette. LOL I loved him PASSIONATELY with every cell in my body... I trusted him more than I had ever trusted any man.

He was very tall, had a presence and when he entered a room - he OWNED it. He was smart, charming, charismatic, BEYOND funny... treated me like a porcelain doll. How could I NOT have loved him?

 

[SAGAT]

i can understand that, sure, if that were the case...but it's not with her, i've known her long and well enough to know that.

 

[Werd]

So you are saying this guy has NOTHING to offer her? He isn't funny?... doesnt treat her well? isnt a good friend? Be honest here... Surely there must be SOMETHING.

 

[SAGAT]

that's what i'm trying to find out, really i'm not ragging on anyone here...
it's just that whatever it is...i'm damn sure i've got it as well, and then some.
jealousy is a bitch

 

[Werd]

that's what i'm trying to find out, really i'm not ragging on anyone here...
it's just that whatever it is...i'm damn sure i've got it as well, and then some.
jealousy is a bitch

WERD

I admire your honesty darlin. kudos to ya!

 

[Forge]

that's what i'm trying to find out, really i'm not ragging on anyone here...
it's just that whatever it is...i'm damn sure i've got it as well, and then some.
jealousy is a bitch

Ah, the song "Jesse's Girl" comes to mind.

 

[Werd]

Ah, the song "Jesse's Girl" comes to mind.

LOL

 

[SAGAT]

WERD

I admire your honesty darlin. kudos to ya!

thanks....a lot

 

[SAGAT]

Ah, the song "Jesse's Girl" comes to mind.

thanks a lot man, now that song's playing in my head all the damn time LOL