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A serious question (or questions) I have been thinking on this a fair bit I just don’t get it why do so many of you attack others that are clearly happy living there life. Does it make you feel good to attack someone to piss in there cornflakes? All that negative energy and anger can surely be used in a better manner then venting on an elite poster. I have been here nearly 4 years and yes IMO C&C has seen much better days. It is one thing to joke around and kid but so many of you are extremely malicious. So tell me you think the venom that you spew will some how change that posters thought process? Do you truly believe that berating the same posters over and over again is serving to better this site? Is it serving to better you? Negative thoughts and actions feed on negative action it surely spills into your own life in the long run the only person you’re truly hurting is yourself.
 
I know what you're ref. to and all I can say is, people get annoyed hearing the same bullshit over and over. There are times when those that "attack" just cannot stand the bull caca anymore and need to speak up.
Yes it's a waste of energy and hate is not the answer, but there comes a point when the "bullshitters" need to be called out!
Just a thought.........
 
blueta2 said:
I know what you're ref. to and all I can say is, people get annoyed hearing the same bullshit over and over. There are times when those that "attack" just cannot stand the bull caca anymore and need to speak up.
Yes it's a waste of energy and hate is not the answer, but there comes a point when the "bullshitters" need to be called out!
Just a thought.........
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Kind of cop out IMO your just fueling things when you lash back trust me I know it is hard not to do but other wise your just feeding them giving them what they want.

“The best revenge is living well.”
 
superqt4u2nv said:
Kind of cop out IMO your just fueling things when you lash back trust me I know it is hard not to do but other wise your just feeding them giving them what they want.

“The best revenge is living well.”
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I agree....I normally never use up my energy to call someone out, but when I see others do, I feel their frustration
 
blueta2 said:
I agree....I normally never use up my energy to call someone out, but when I see others do, I feel their frustration
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My frustration is not just with the people that retaliate but those who chose to start the war of words. I don’t get it in the least bit many of the perpetrators I know from past experience are better then that.
 
Why make this thread? Why not just take your own advice and ignore the attackers?

Exactly, because you see it as an annoyance/irritation/distraction. Thus you either stand up and say something, or you sit back and have to read it on a daily basis.
 
alien amp pharm said:
Why make this thread? Why not just take your own advice and ignore the attackers?

Exactly, because you see it as an annoyance/irritation/distraction. Thus you either stand up and say something, or you sit back and have to read it on a daily basis.
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I try to ignore it and have been a lot lately but leads me to not posting at all on C&C. If that is what it should be then that is what it will be. I just seemed to enjoy this place a lot more when I could come here and have a few laughs. :)
 
superqt4u2nv said:
I try to ignore it and have been a lot lately but leads me to not posting at all on C&C. If that is what it should be then that is what it will be. I just seemed to enjoy this place a lot more when I could come here and have a few laughs. :)
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Come on, just look at AAP avi....there is a laugh for you right there! ;-)
 
superqt4u2nv said:
I try to ignore it and have been a lot lately but leads me to not posting at all on C&C. If that is what it should be then that is what it will be. I just seemed to enjoy this place a lot more when I could come here and have a few laughs. :)
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I know, C&C sucks anymore. The good ole days of Bullit, Happyscrappy, Natureboy, SG, Project, Massivegunz, etc were the best. I wish we could get back to that.

To answer your karma message, I once had *her* on ignore, but then she quoted me and started crap again (despite knowing I had her on ignore) so I had to either take her off ignore and stand up for myself, or leave her on ignore and allow her to badmouth me while I was blinded.

Don't assume one person is always the aggressor.
 
this shit talking is why i come here, it makes excellent entertainment.
and QT, honestly, these good ole days that everyone so longing refers to are a myth.
it's no different now than it was then
the game never changes, the players do.
 
Gambino said:
this shit talking is why i come here, it makes excellent entertainment.
and QT, honestly, these good ole days that everyone so longing refers to are a myth.
it's no different now than it was then
the game never changes, the players do.
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I tend to agree, it doesn't seem that much different than when I joined in regard to the flaming/hating. However, some interesting people have left.
 
alien amp pharm said:
Don't assume one person is always the aggressor.
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I don't. It is not just about you sweets I seen all kinds people doing it her included. I dunno maybe your right maybe I shouldn't have brought it up at all as clearly it wont be solving anything soon.

I miss the time of Jerkbox, From Zero, Bilestew, Seashell and BigDawg. There are some great peeps still here that making me laugh a lot often you being one of them. :)
 
QT, there is no understanding what drives the air that turns the windmills in some peoples' minds.

I don't know what I find more amusing:

Those that were going to *alert* my REAL LIFE SPOUSE to "just how crazy and what a liar I am".... You know sorta like me emailing Oprah about what a crazy lying sack of shit Steadman is because I read what was written on some discussion board on the web.

or

Those that blame their own actions on someone else.

Case in point....

I put up a thread expressing some sort of happy experience in my real life and suddenly some people are compelled to VOLUNTARILY post up negative nonsense then turn around and blame that compulsion on ME.

Yup chat has certainly seen better times Ms QT.

I know that you know how these rude mindless assholes are like a bad rash, no matter what you do, it always seems to keep coming back. Ignore the itch ad nauseum but ultimately you feel the need to scratch...
 
JavaGuru said:
I tend to agree, it doesn't seem that much different than when I joined in regard to the flaming/hating. However, some interesting people have left.
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and some interesting people have joined, and the cycle continues.
and QT just the other day i saw you flaming InquisitivePhysique
we are all guilty
 
BIKINIMOM said:
QT, there is no understanding what drives the air that turns the windmills in some peoples' minds.

I don't know what I find more amusing:

Those that were going to *alert* my REAL LIFE SPOUSE to "just how crazy and what a liar I am".... You know sorta like me emailing Oprah about what a crazy lying sack of shit Steadman is because I read what was written on some discussion board on the web.

or

Those that blame their own actions on someone else.

Case in point....

I put up a thread expressing some sort of happy experience in my real life and suddenly some people are compelled to VOLUNTARILY post up negative nonsense then turn around and blame that compulsion on ME.

Yup chat has certainly seen better times Ms QT.

I know that you know how these rude mindless assholes are like a bad rash, no matter what you do, it always seems to keep coming back. Ignore the itch ad nauseum but ultimately you feel the need to scratch...
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BM you can't act completely innocent
you throw bombs just as much as the next guy
 
Gambino said:
BM you can't act completely innocent
you throw bombs just as much as the next guy
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It isn't about me being innocent.

Listen to what I said.

When is the last time you saw me post up about ANY board member that "they made me post up something that I otherwise would not have"?
 
Gambino said:
and some interesting people have joined, and the cycle continues.
and QT just the other day i saw you flaming InquisitivePhysique
we are all guilty
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I never flamed her dude. It was a talk about AAS in figure and fitness but never once did I attack her. I merely told her what I know to be true in the pro competitive arena.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
A serious question (or questions) I have been thinking on this a fair bit I just don’t get it why do so many of you attack others that are clearly happy living there life. Does it make you feel good to attack someone to piss in there cornflakes? All that negative energy and anger can surely be used in a better manner then venting on an elite poster. I have been here nearly 4 years and yes IMO C&C has seen much better days. It is one thing to joke around and kid but so many of you are extremely malicious. So tell me you think the venom that you spew will some how change that posters thought process? Do you truly believe that berating the same posters over and over again is serving to better this site? Is it serving to better you? Negative thoughts and actions feed on negative action it surely spills into your own life in the long run the only person you’re truly hurting is yourself.
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You are a truely wise and amazing woman. :heart:

:santa:
 
I have to be positive and upbeat all day, this is the only place I get to be negative, so it is better for me to be negative with healother the perv or youngguns the dick than to be negative with my kids or my students.

Do I make EF better? NO WAY but I paid for the right to do that.

So in conclusion, I trash a couple of people here and leave everybody in my real life alone.

Life shouild not be 110% posotive....it's all about the yin and yang balance. :evil: :D




superqt4u2nv said:
A serious question (or questions) I have been thinking on this a fair bit I just don’t get it why do so many of you attack others that are clearly happy living there life. Does it make you feel good to attack someone to piss in there cornflakes? All that negative energy and anger can surely be used in a better manner then venting on an elite poster. I have been here nearly 4 years and yes IMO C&C has seen much better days. It is one thing to joke around and kid but so many of you are extremely malicious. So tell me you think the venom that you spew will some how change that posters thought process? Do you truly believe that berating the same posters over and over again is serving to better this site? Is it serving to better you? Negative thoughts and actions feed on negative action it surely spills into your own life in the long run the only person you’re truly hurting is yourself.
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Gambino said:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showpost.php?p=7196537&postcount=93
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showpost.php?p=7196472&postcount=89

calling someone naive and saying they talk out of their ass is flaming
lol
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Sorry Gambino, I have to strongly disagree.

Not on were QT's responses DEAD ON and polite, but they were actually mirroring the language of the original poster.

To call someone naive is NOT a flame. It is an accurate statement when it comes from someone who is experienced first hand to someone who lacks such experience.
 
Gambino said:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showpost.php?p=7196537&postcount=93
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showpost.php?p=7196472&postcount=89

calling someone naive and saying they talk out of their ass is flaming
lol
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Calling someone naive is not an insult. If someone told me I was niave about the world of nuclear physic. I would be like dam straight I am talk to Samoth about that please cause I don’t have clue.

Enough spliting hairs I am talking about all out personal attacks on peope. I am sure you can see the diffrence in what I said to her and what other are saying around here.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Sorry Gambino, I have to strongly disagree.

Not on were QT's responses DEAD ON and polite, but they were actually mirroring the language of the original poster.

To call someone naive is NOT a flame. It is an accurate statement when it comes from someone who is experienced first hand to someone who lacks such experience.
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so talking out of your ass is a niceity?
and calling someone naive is a diss...it's one ego thinking it knows more than the other. predictably, upon the recipient hearing that he/she has been called naive, they will feel offended and strike back...
 
heavy_duty said:
I have to be positive and upbeat all day, this is the only place I get to be negative, so it is better for me to be negative with healother the perv or youngguns the dick than to be negative with my kids or my students.

Do I make EF better? NO WAY but I paid for the right to do that.

So in conclusion, I trash a couple of people here and leave everybody in my real life alone.

Life shouild not be 110% posotive....it's all about the yin and yang balance. :evil: :D
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Why does there need to be anything negative in your life?
 
mightymouse69 said:
fags, just fags...cuz its the internet and in real life they would get real consequences.
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I wouldn't put it like that but I see the merrit in what your driving at.
 
Gambino said:
so talking out of your ass is a niceity?
and calling someone naive is a diss...it's one ego thinking it knows more than the other. predictably, upon the recipient hearing that he/she has been called naive, they will feel offended and strike back...
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Honestly splitting hairs if I was wrong I will admit it no problem there at all. Now point out where there was personal attack where I beat her dam down because I really don't see it. Please compare and apple to an apple not an orange.
 
JavaGuru said:
I'm a Gold Medalist :lmao:
http://i176.photobucket.com/albums/w192/dadrew117/738989711_l.jpg

Many people don't understand that I often enjoy the "sport" of argumentation. Hell, I'll argue a position contrary to what I actually believe if it leads to a good debate. :)
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Well, now that coming from you makes sense....... I am a tall black man with dreadlocks. The earth is flat and you think that is a sport. My goodness.

:santa:
 
superqt4u2nv said:
Nothing wrong with a good clean debate I take issue with personal attacks and a true malice that some people show.
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ever notice how some people are never wrong? there's no debate....they are just giant know-it-alls, talking out of their fat asses....making zero sense time and time again.....and they wonder why they get flamed.
 
I've been hanging in the wimmin's forum. Very positive atmosphere in there. I don't post much in chat anymore because:

1. I'm too busy
2. Heatherrae annoys the shit out of me and all I see are posts by her


:)
 
just like in real life people who go out of their way to attack or bring down others are usually bitter and unhappy at their own lives. Sad really.
 
Gambino said:
so talking out of your ass is a niceity?
and calling someone naive is a diss...it's one ego thinking it knows more than the other. predictably, upon the recipient hearing that he/she has been called naive, they will feel offended and strike back...
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It was IP that used the expression about talking out of one's ass first, so QT responded in kind. Totally fair.

And as for naive - I humbly disagree. I don't get offended is someone calls me naive. It is actually part of my personal makeup. And I do acquiese that there have been MANY times where I have been naive. Case in point, voluntarily posting up painfull personal experiences in the hopes that it will help people who might be going through the same thing... trusting that the good of just one other person (that my sharing my experiences will have helped or comforted in some way) will outweigh the negativity that countless hate-filled strangers may or may not feel compelled to spew at me.

It is all about perception.

QT is a competitor with a greater degree of personal real life knowledge experienced in that world in comparison to IP's limited, second-hand, "watered-down so as not to offend the masses" experience. So yes, IP is indeed naive.

That is NOT a personal attack.
 
Grumpy Old Man said:
Well, now that coming from you makes sense....... I am a tall black man with dreadlocks. The earth is flat and you think that is a sport. My goodness.

:santa:
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A good debate requires a defensible position supported by evidence. :)
 
Grumpy Old Man said:
Well, now that coming from you makes sense....... I am a tall black man with dreadlocks. The earth is flat and you think that is a sport. My goodness.

:santa:
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A good debate requires a defensible position supported by evidence on both sides. :)
 
jerkbox said:
ever notice how some people are never wrong? there's no debate....they are just giant know-it-alls, talking out of their fat asses....making zero sense time and time again.....and they wonder why they get flamed.
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Lestat said:
just like in real life people who go out of their way to attack or bring down others are usually bitter and unhappy at their own lives. Sad really.
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Two opposing examples of what drives some to post.

I choose to lend more value to Lestat's point of view as I am generally a happy person that gets no pleasure in the misery of others.

But then again, that is only me.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Two opposing examples of what drives some to post.

I choose to lend more value to Lestat's point of view as I am generally a happy person that gets no pleasure in the misery of others.

But then again, that is only me.
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I am like a few others here. The only reason I post is to stalk you!
:santa:
 
superqt4u2nv said:
Kind of cop out IMO your just fueling things when you lash back trust me I know it is hard not to do but other wise your just feeding them giving them what they want.

“The best revenge is living well.”
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this is SO true.

people who bash, lash, degrade, attack.....they are at a loss for their own lack of substance, success, happiness, and fulfillment in their own life.

i can't begin to count the number of times i've experienced this in my life. it's really sad.
 
habitualhealth said:
i can't begin to count the number of times i've experienced this in my life. it's really sad.
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Strong, independent beautiful successful people will always get bashed by the weak.
Dont let it get you sad, let it motivate you to work harder.
:heart:
 
i have no problem with those that express annoyance. i say this because i do that on a regular basis, and my own attitudes are the center of the universe.

however, there is an enormous difference between someone who criticizes another once, or just once in a while (annoyance builds up and periodically spills over into the "need" to say something), versus someone who post-stalks and heaps negativity on another at every opportunity.

the line, as always, is not easily-determined. on the other hand, you can probably tell the difference between someone speaking his mind versus someone who is constantly trashing another.

i spend too much time on EF, don't have much of a life, and can be pretty miserable. i'm a perfect example of someone who might spend his days attacking others. because of this, i do criticize some on a regular basis, such as healother...but that dude is just over the top. releasing negativity does feel good in the short term.

but it isn't in my nature to take it past a certain point. i don't hate anyone, and i don't like being mired in pettiness and negativity. i think constantly about my attitudes and behaviour. i try to see things clearly, not letting the rush of emotion unduly cloud my judgement. i want to be better.

others don't care about any of that. if someone gets enjoyment out of bashing another, recognizes that, and makes no apologies for it...so be it. i don't agree with it, but as long as i understand another's motivation (i.e. heavy_duty's), i can probably accept it.

i talk too much.
 
some people just don't like to hear the truth, AND some people have a holier than though attitiude and they DON'T realize they do the EXACT SAME THINGS.



all in all....it's entertaining.
 
jackangel said:
i have no problem with those that express annoyance. i say this because i do that on a regular basis, and my own attitudes are the center of the universe.

however, there is an enormous difference between someone who criticizes another once, or just once in a while (annoyance builds up and periodically spills over into the "need" to say something), versus someone who post-stalks and heaps negativity on another at every opportunity.

the line, as always, is not easily-determined. on the other hand, you can probably tell the difference between someone speaking his mind versus someone who is constantly trashing another.

i spend too much time on EF, don't have much of a life, and can be pretty miserable. i'm a perfect example of someone who might spend his days attacking others. because of this, i do criticize some on a regular basis, such as healother...but that dude is just over the top. releasing negativity does feel good in the short term.

but it isn't in my nature to take it past a certain point. i don't hate anyone, and i don't like being mired in pettiness and negativity. i think constantly about my attitudes and behaviour. i try to see things clearly, not letting the rush of emotion unduly cloud my judgement. i want to be better.

others don't care about any of that. if someone gets enjoyment out of bashing another, recognizes that, and makes no apologies for it...so be it. i don't agree with it, but as long as i understand another's motivation (i.e. heavy_duty's), i can probably accept it.

i talk too much.
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See now... the sad part of this post is that it is lost for those that need it most as their mental capacity and attention spans clearly demonstrate.


But WE heart you anyway!

*tee hee*
 
jackangel said:
i have no problem with those that express annoyance. i say this because i do that on a regular basis, and my own attitudes are the center of the universe.

however, there is an enormous difference between someone who criticizes another once, or just once in a while (annoyance builds up and periodically spills over into the "need" to say something), versus someone who post-stalks and heaps negativity on another at every opportunity.

the line, as always, is not easily-determined. on the other hand, you can probably tell the difference between someone speaking his mind versus someone who is constantly trashing another.

i spend too much time on EF, don't have much of a life, and can be pretty miserable. i'm a perfect example of someone who might spend his days attacking others. because of this, i do criticize some on a regular basis, such as healother...but that dude is just over the top. releasing negativity does feel good in the short term.

but it isn't in my nature to take it past a certain point. i don't hate anyone, and i don't like being mired in pettiness and negativity. i think constantly about my attitudes and behaviour. i try to see things clearly, not letting the rush of emotion unduly cloud my judgement. i want to be better.

others don't care about any of that. if someone gets enjoyment out of bashing another, recognizes that, and makes no apologies for it...so be it. i don't agree with it, but as long as i understand another's motivation (i.e. heavy_duty's), i can probably accept it.

i talk too much.
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Great post and you talk just enough :heart:
 
superqt4u2nv said:
Great post and you talk just enough :heart:
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Puh-lease... we ALL KNOW that he is talking about of his asshole.

THE REAL MEN are just bringing the attenwhoring, empty-headed scandalous bitches back down to THEIR level....


Or are at least embarrassing themselves quite nicely while giving it the ole cromagnun try! :lmao:
 
jackangel said:
i have no problem with those that express annoyance. i say this because i do that on a regular basis, and my own attitudes are the center of the universe.

however, there is an enormous difference between someone who criticizes another once, or just once in a while (annoyance builds up and periodically spills over into the "need" to say something), versus someone who post-stalks and heaps negativity on another at every opportunity.

the line, as always, is not easily-determined. on the other hand, you can probably tell the difference between someone speaking his mind versus someone who is constantly trashing another.

i spend too much time on EF, don't have much of a life, and can be pretty miserable. i'm a perfect example of someone who might spend his days attacking others. because of this, i do criticize some on a regular basis, such as healother...but that dude is just over the top. releasing negativity does feel good in the short term.

but it isn't in my nature to take it past a certain point. i don't hate anyone, and i don't like being mired in pettiness and negativity. i think constantly about my attitudes and behaviour. i try to see things clearly, not letting the rush of emotion unduly cloud my judgement. i want to be better.

others don't care about any of that. if someone gets enjoyment out of bashing another, recognizes that, and makes no apologies for it...so be it. i don't agree with it, but as long as i understand another's motivation (i.e. heavy_duty's), i can probably accept it.

i talk too much.
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wow, did you just leave a therapy session?! I think I like you a little now ;-)
 
JA must have just finished up a huge party bowl of Kona..

SuperQTipAss, eat something damn you.
I like my woman strong n soft, not 14 yr old skinny ..
 
fruitcat.jpg
 
jerkbox said:
take that damn sock off already
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Check out that little blue critter laying beside her staring at her coochie with a huge grin on his face

...He thinks he just found a new cave to explore.
 
alien amp pharm said:
Check out that little blue critter laying beside her staring at her coochie with a huge grin on his face

...He thinks he just found a new cave to explore.
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Okay that was funny...only because I had to go back to see what you were talking about......

BUT we need a place where ego's can be checked in before loggin in....
 
habitualhealth said:
you better have been bowing while you were typing that.
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DAMN I need three hands to do everything I was thinking about doin!!

:santa: as I bow and type and alternate tasks....
 
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