Without trying to sound like an asshole, perception possibly? But most of the time it's because we all have shit that sucks in our lives from time to time. Some more than others, but then again some deal with their issues better/or in a more possitive way than others. I bet if you asked everyone on here to tell you how rough or easy their life has been up to this point you would have a new found respect for your own situation. I know I would. And as I said earlier Pick, I only offer my advice and thoughts, if they do not meet your demands than simply say thanks, but no thanks. B.