why do you guys call or not call???

[supergirl]

ok.. so it has been my theory that guys do what they want when they want to.. for example.. guys call girls only because they want to.. right??? OR do you guys overanalyze as much as we do but just don't admit it... and if you "forget to call" that really means you just didn't feel like it right?? Or if you were too busy to call.. that is bullshit because it takes like what 2 minutes... so i ask the question.. why do guys call or not call??

i have theorized that if a guy is into a girl then he will call and do what he wants because he wants to.. and not call because he doesn't want to.. is this theory accurate???

 

[Anabolicum Mister]

What's your number?

 

[supergirl]

What's your number?

1-800-tuff-girl

 

[macDbol]

a guy doenst forget to call a girl he's trying to get with,,no way in hell

 

[Fonz]

What's your number?

LOL...
Anyways, you hit the nail on the head supergirl.

From my experience(from a guy view-point).

1. We "say" we forgot to call. BULLSHIT. You don't
forget about a girl you're interested in and you told
you'd call.

2. "Too busy" HAHA.....thats the best one.
Its just that some guys think that to be seen
as "cool" they need to make the woman think
they're not particualrly important.

Amazingly, #2 seems to work on some women.
What can you say? Some women just crave
attention and if you play the aloof guy they'll just
get more interested.

Personally, if I say I'm going to call, I call the next day.
Except on a Sat. because I now most people are
like Zombies on Sun.(Well in Uni. anyways)

Fonz

 

[OMEGA]

ok.. so it has been my theory that guys do what they want when they want to.. for example.. guys call girls only because they want to.. right??? OR do you guys overanalyze as much as we do but just don't admit it... and if you "forget to call" that really means you just didn't feel like it right?? Or if you were too busy to call.. that is bullshit because it takes like what 2 minutes... so i ask the question.. why do guys call or not call??

i have theorized that if a guy is into a girl then he will call and do what he wants because he wants to.. and not call because he doesn't want to.. is this theory accurate???

what you said.

 

[supergirl]

ok.. next question for you wonderful elite men...
if you call a guy and he doesn't call you back right away.. what does that mean.. should you call again for a 2nd chance or should it be a one shot deal? if he is interested he will call right back??

 

[Anabolicum Mister]

1-800-tuff-girl

Toll Free? Those types of calls usually cost me $9.99 a minute.

 

[Frackal]

This entire theory rests on whether or not you preform quality oral...I dont know why it rests on that but I do know I like blowjobs...asldfkjas;l

 

[macDbol]

ok.. next question for you wonderful elite men...
if you call a guy and he doesn't call you back right away.. what does that mean.. should you call again for a 2nd chance or should it be a one shot deal? if he is interested he will call right back??

well he could be busy,anyway the number comes up on the cell and the caller id so if he wants to call you back he will

,,but if u really dig this dude give him one more call,,if he does the same shit fuck it then(he could be just screening you out)

but on the other hand this dude could have crazy game and he's playing hard to get

 

[OMEGA]

ok.. next question for you wonderful elite men...
if you call a guy and he doesn't call you back right away.. what does that mean.. should you call again for a 2nd chance or should it be a one shot deal? if he is interested he will call right back??

SUPER NUTS

use the three rule, rule

my father once told me that when your at a bar you buy a guy a drink once, then you buy him a second drink, if he doesn't buy you a drink by the third time, he's an asshole.


I pretty much apply that rule to everything, girls, business interests, ideas, everything.

 

[big4life]

ok.. next question for you wonderful elite men...
if you call a guy and he doesn't call you back right away.. what does that mean.. should you call again for a 2nd chance or should it be a one shot deal? if he is interested he will call right back??

I try to return the call, e-mail, or what ever as soon as possible.
It's a matter of respect for that person. I understand when people get busy they can forget, so I will give people another chance.

I will say that it bothers me when someone does not
promptly reply over and over, it can cause doubts to
creep into your mind about the relationship.

 

[Fonz]

I try to return the call, e-mail, or what ever as soon as possible.
It's a matter of respect for that person. I understand when people get busy they can forget, so I will give people another chance.





Little excerpt here:

I will say that it bothers me when someone does not
promptly reply over and over, it can cause doubts to
creep into your mind about the relationship.

VERY well said.

Fonz

 

[supergirl]

VERY well said.

Fonz

ok.. respect is cool.. but what about interest???

 

[KAYNE]

SUPER

FILL ME IN. HAVE YOU MET A KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOR AND ARE EXPECTING HIM TO CALL??? LOL


I OVER ANALYZE, AS YOU PUT IT. I'M ALWAYS WONDERING IF I SHOULD CALL OR NOT. I'M ALSO ALWAYS WONDERING WEIRD SHIT IF SHE DOESNT CALL ME WHEN SHE SAYS OR DOESNT CALL TILL THE NEXT DAY OR SOMETHING.

KAYNE

 

[strongchick]

as I recall, you are attractive.

why would you wait for a guy to call?

I often wonder about this...people always want what they can't have...games aren't necessary, but just don't appear needy. I'm sure you aren't....but I wonder...

 

[KAYNE]

as I recall, you are attractive.

YOU ARE CORRECT SC.

KAYNE

 

[supergirl]

as I recall, you are attractive.

why would you wait for a guy to call?

I often wonder about this...people always want what they can't have...games aren't necessary, but just don't appear needy. I'm sure you aren't....but I wonder...

i agree.. games are bullshit.. but for example.. if you have been talking to a guy and then you call and he doesn't call right back (same day) or has excuses.. i tend to think that he is just not interested.. i really feel guys do what they want when they want to...
and needy.. strong... you couldn't be more incorrect just trying to get guys opinions on the call or not to call reasoning, if there is any

KAYNE: you are my knight

 

[big4life]

ok.. respect is cool.. but what about interest???

If you don't have respect, how can you have interest?

I think the best course of action is to let the person
know, one way or the other. If you're interested or not.

I agree people over analyze everything. Just go with what
you feel, forget all these made up rules, and go with your heart.

 

[supergirl]

If you don't have respect, how can you have interest?

I think the best course of action is to let the person
know, one way or the other. If you're interested or not.

I agree people over analyze everything. Just go with what
you feel, forget all these made up rules, and go with your heart.

the heart lol.. too touchy of a subject.. she stays out of the games now...
but i seriously wonder why guys don't call when they say they will or take a day to call back even after you have been dating awhile... to me that signifies "uninterested" or just really really busy lol

 

[HamsterHider]

ONCE I GAVE A GIRL MY PHONE NUMBER AND TOLD HER TO LET ME KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON A CERTAIN WEEKEND. I NEVER GOT THE CALL SO I MISSED WORK THINKING SHE MIGHT STILL COME INTO TOWN AND NEED TO BE PICKED UP AT THE AIRPORT. NOW I AM SCARED TO TALK TO WOMEN BE IT IN A FRIENDLY MANNER OR A ROMANTIC INTEREST.

 

[supergirl]

ONCE I GAVE A GIRL MY PHONE NUMBER AND TOLD HER TO LET ME KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON A CERTAIN WEEKEND. I NEVER GOT THE CALL SO I MISSED WORK THINKING SHE MIGHT STILL COME INTO TOWN AND NEED TO BE PICKED UP AT THE AIRPORT. NOW I AM SCARED TO TALK TO WOMEN BE IT IN A FRIENDLY MANNER OR A ROMANTIC INTEREST.

oh shut up jerk.. i couldn't fly out there!!! I am sorry, i wish i could of been there... and you had a killer weekend anyway, so stop your complaining!!!

 

[HighIntensity]

if we like well call

 

[HamsterHider]

OK I WILL CALL A TRUCE IF YOU CAN FIND ME A ITALIAN WOMAN FROM JERSEY TO MOVE OUT HERE AND LOVE ME LONG TIME. HAIR COLOR IS NOT IMPORTANT. BUT SHE MUST BE A GOOD COOK.

 

[Kahn]

Everybody is different. Some play, some are honest(the guys anyway), and some don't care. Some don't remember, some don't think it matters, some think they got played. Everybody is different supergirl, want to call me?

 

[supergirl]

Everybody is different. Some play, some are honest(the guys anyway), and some don't care. Some don't remember, some don't think it matters, some think they got played. Everybody is different supergirl, want to call me?

but there has to be a general rule of thumb.. and i am really trying to rule out the "guys are dicks" answer lol

so if i call you, you will always call me back promptly??

HAMSTERHIDER: i can't cook for shit.... but i will place an ad in the italian dating service for ya lol

 

[HamsterHider]

ALRIGHT PLACE IT CAUSE I AM BEGINNING TO THINK WOMEN ARE THE DEVIL'S WORK. MAYBE SOME NICE ITALLIAN WOMAN FROM OUT EAST IS MOVING HERE AND NEEDS SOME LOVING. I BAKE A KILLER PUMPKIN PIE. HEY SERIOUSLY YOU KNOW A WEB ADDRESS FOR ITALLIAN DATING SERVICE. HA MAYBE I SHOULD SPELL ITALIAN RIGHT FIRST.
BY THE WAY THAT MUSCLE MANIA SHOW IS A NATURAL COMPETITION THINK IT WOULD STILL BE WORTH GOING TO ? IF SO I AM GOING TO GET A TICKET NEXT WEEK.

 

[Kahn]

There is a catch to me calling you back promptly. I will call back promptly, but it will be promptly after I get your message if I am not home at the time of your original call. See, there could be the problem of you thinking I could have been a dick. Ask the dude why he did what he did. fuck calling, come on over.

 

[supergirl]

There is a catch to me calling you back promptly. I will call back promptly, but it will be promptly after I get your message if I am not home at the time of your original call. See, there could be the problem of you thinking I could have been a dick. Ask the dude why he did what he did. fuck calling, come on over.

okok.. good arguement.. BUT.. if i haven't called you, wouldn't you think to call me with out me having to call you.. it is called reciprocity.. or plain old thinking bout the other person... so if i leave a mesg and you don't call promptly.. ok.. but shouldn't you just call anyway even w/o hearing the mesg because you are thinking of me???

see... back to what highintensity spelled out perfectly...
"if we like, we'll call" period.. i think it is an open and shut case!!

so how far is MI/MD?? lol

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

If I like a guy, I will call him......end of story.

If I'm sort of interested, I might call him if I'm board......end of story

If I'm truly not interested at all, I won't call, and if he calls me, the conversation is short

So, if a guy is not returning my calls---he obviously dosn't want to

I will call twice, and thats it.....if I leave a message I will call once, if he dosn't return my call with in 2 days or so, I start to loose interest because I can only figure he's not interested, and why would I want to chase someone who dosn't dig me enough to call back.

 

[supergirl]

If I like a guy, I will call him......end of story.

If I DON'T like a guy, I might call him if I'm board......end of story

If I'm truly not interested at all, I won't call, and if he calls me, the conversation is short

So, if a guy is not returning my calls---he obviously dosn't want to

I will call twice, and thats it.....if I leave a message I will call once, if he dosn't return my call with in 2 days or so, I start to loose interest because I can only figure he's not interested, and why would I want to chase someone who dosn't dig me enough to call back.

amen to that jen LOL that is how i operate.. just wondering where the guys all stood on the subject.. i can only think i know guys as well as i do, so i like to hear their opinions from time to time lol

 

[natasan]

Personally, if I say I'm going to call, I call the next day.

It depends on when I met the person. If I haven't called yet, I'll probably wait a two-three days, or maybe the following weekend.

If I'm really into her, maybe Wednesday (assuming I met her the previous weekend) to get a lunch date before the coming weekend.

If I haven't called in a weeks time, then I probably won't.

 

[Your_Moms_Kneepads]

ok.. so it has been my theory that guys do what they want when they want to.. for example.. guys call girls only because they want to.. right??? OR do you guys overanalyze as much as we do but just don't admit it... and if you "forget to call" that really means you just didn't feel like it right?? Or if you were too busy to call.. that is bullshit because it takes like what 2 minutes... so i ask the question.. why do guys call or not call??

i have theorized that if a guy is into a girl then he will call and do what he wants because he wants to.. and not call because he doesn't want to.. is this theory accurate???

1) Guys (players and assholes excluded): Think that if they call too soon-like the next day that they seem desperate.

2) Forgetting to call is BULLSHIT: Unless the guy is a player and has alot of women lined up like bowling pins then he will call unless he is hellaciously busy.

3)Lots of times I got #'s and the broad gives the cold shoulder when I called so I didn't call back. Then the chick would complain that you "treated her like shit".