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why do we become the people we hate?

saint808

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is it a case of grass is greener on the other side? or is there something more that i am missing?
 
Maybe the question should be without the "we" part, a bit too broad. This question does not apply to me and I'm sure many others can relate.
Live by this and know your enemy, which are the following:
Compromise, Conformity, Assimilation, Submission, Ignorance, Hypocrisy, Brutality, the Elite, all of which are American Dreams.
 
saint808 said:
is it a case of grass is greener on the other side? or is there something more that i am missing?

It is either one of two things in my opinion....

1) Yeah the grass is greener on the other side type thing. A person is so envious/jealous of what the hated person has/does/etc. that they can not help to try and become them.

2) They just get on there nerves for one reason or another and they do it so often that they hate them eventually.

Just my opinion on the question.

barnes3
 
I don't know but if it is true that we become the people we hate, this board is going to be full of black homosexuals by this summer.
 
Anal AssPlorer said:
I don't know but if it is true that we become the people we hate, this board is going to be full of black homosexuals by this summer.

At least black homosexual wanna be's for those of us that aren't black but will try to be through tanning too much... :)

barnes3
 
Not saying that I am trying to do that though...

barnes3
 
saint808 said:
is it a case of grass is greener on the other side? or is there something more that i am missing?

Get ready for a short bit of psycho-babble....

Maybe the reason we hate some people is because we see in them some things we hate in ourselves....so you don't actually become the people you hate...you're already them!!
 
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TN MuscleBear said:


Get ready for a short bit of psycho-babble....

Maybe the reason we hate some people is because we see in them some things we hate in ourselves....so you don't actually become the people you hate...you're already them!!

Seems logical... looks logical... it is logical that could be the answer.

barnes3
 
Re: Re: why do we become the people we hate?

TN MuscleBear said:


Get ready for a short bit of psycho-babble....

Maybe the reason we hate some people is because we see in them some things we hate in ourselves....so you don't actually become the people you hate...you're already them!!

between you and havoc i am totally mind fucked right now...
 
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saint808 said:


between you and havoc i am totally mind fucked right now...

In my best Freudian voice:

"So...why don't you tell me about your mother...."




note:certainly NOT any kind of dig on your mother.
 
Re: Re: why do we become the people we hate?

TN MuscleBear said:


Get ready for a short bit of psycho-babble....

Maybe the reason we hate some people is because we see in them some things we hate in ourselves....so you don't actually become the people you hate...you're already them!!

Another way of putting it. I was trying to be sarcastic about it.
 
Re: Re: why do we become the people we hate?

TN MuscleBear said:


Get ready for a short bit of psycho-babble....

Maybe the reason we hate some people is because we see in them some things we hate in ourselves....so you don't actually become the people you hate...you're already them!!

I think you hit right on the head, and some people are so envelpoed in the hatred they never see why they hate the person or people.
 
havoc said:
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Live by this and know your enemy, which are the following:
Compromise, Conformity, Assimilation, Submission, Ignorance, Hypocrisy, Brutality, the Elite, all of which are American Dreams.

Awesome
 
We really don't become them, it goes back to a point in your life where you were repressed by those people in some way or form. Therefore you either pick a mate with those traits or pick them up yourself in order to finally correct those mistakes and bring closure.

Strange thing is you really never change anyone or yourself.
 
Ther person I hate the most sometimes is myself. I've come to realize what type of person I am, and I don't like myself sometimes, and I don't like the way I think sometimes... I don't like feeling uncontrolled at times... unable to control my emotions...

It sucks... Sometimes I wish I was an android.

C
 
I'm with the other guys on this one, chances are you dont hate a person but a certain quality, and you probably hate it because deep down inside you know that an integral part of yourself is consumed by that quality. We fear what we don't understand and we hate what we fear, its the basic human condition my friend, when you face what you fear, you will no longer hate it, that is what truly separates real men from little boys in a man's body.
 
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