why do I even bother?

[theoak01]

today a friend called said her and her roomie were up to nothing tonight and they wanted me to come over,Im thinking cool,might get laid.

anyway I show up,only my friend no roomie,my friend says she told her roomie she wanted to spend the night alone with me,Im thinking cool as I was kinda into this girl, we grab some thai take out,and rent a movie,shes all cuddly and flirty, then some dude fucking calls,she is gone for like 15 mins on the phone while im chillin watching a movie,then she comes back and starts hinting about when Im gonna leave, now Im a nice guy but im not a fucking idiot,or maybe I am whatever I know the deal so I bounce, and quite frankly Im pissed about it. Im tired of being girls cuddle buddy and my kindness being taken advantage of,what the fuck is with girls these days? just a few weeks ago she was bitching how this guy never called her and she was done with him because he is a skeeze,then she pulls this after Im a gentleman and buy dinner and rent a movie.

fuck this,Im back to bachelorhood for good

 

[nycgirl]

Don't blame the girl. Take a look in the mirror and point the finger at who is standing there.

Find yourself a girl that is totally unavailable. Someone that is not hanging on and going back and forth over a guy.

 

[mrplunkey]

Girls categorize guys into "buddies" and "dates". My advice would be arrogant (but funny arrogant, not dark arrogant) the next time you're around that girl.

The moment she hinted about you leaving, you probably should have said "good deal. I need to meet somebody at 11:15 anyway". If she asks further, just say you have a friend coming-off work about then and want to "just go hang out with her". Nobody hangs-out at 11:15... that's booty-call on a waitress all the way.

 

[theoak01]

Don't blame the girl. Take a look in the mirror and point the finger at who is standing there.

Find yourself a girl that is totally unavailable. Someone that is not hanging on and going back and forth over a guy.

i was lead to believe otherwise or id take the fall

 

[EnderJE]

Don't blame the girl. Take a look in the mirror and point the finger at who is standing there.

Find yourself a girl that is totally unavailable. Someone that is not hanging on and going back and forth over a guy.

NYC is right. You should lust after her.

 

[theoak01]

Girls categorize guys into "buddies" and "dates". My advice would be arrogant (but funny arrogant, not dark arrogant) the next time you're around that girl.

The moment she hinted about you leaving, you probably should have said "good deal. I need to meet somebody at 11:15 anyway". If she asks further, just say you have a friend coming-off work about then and want to "just go hang out with her". Nobody hangs-out at 11:15... that's booty-call on a waitress all the way.

smooth i like that

 

[nycgirl]

i was lead to believe otherwise or id take the fall

I wouldn't pursue her anymore. Move on to something unavailable. And don't look back (i.e., don't give her another chance when she sees you have moved on and all of sudden the bf is gone again).

Plenty of females out there to drive you crazy. Don't waste your time on this one.

 

[theoak01]

im def through with her im not a door mat

 

[awittyusername]

Girls categorize guys into "buddies" and "dates". My advice would be arrogant (but funny arrogant, not dark arrogant) the next time you're around that girl.

The moment she hinted about you leaving, you probably should have said "good deal. I need to meet somebody at 11:15 anyway". If she asks further, just say you have a friend coming-off work about then and want to "just go hang out with her". Nobody hangs-out at 11:15... that's booty-call on a waitress all the way.

exactly!


Oak, I would not be surprised if she used you as a bargaining chip. She wants to see the guy she likes that doesn't call her or see her enough. So, she calls up nice young oak for companionship. But, I bet she called the other guy, or left him a message that you were coming over...to get him to make a move.

Or, the guy who plunky described correctly is the arrogant/funny/wild guy called by coincidence.

Either way...Never see her again. She is not your friend. Don't give her the pleasure of letting her know you were upset. Just tell her you are busy when she wants you to fill her void next time

 

[puddlemonkey]

Treat 'em like shit, works for me!