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This question is directed to ladies only, please, guys answers are irrelivant because I don't think any of us really understand women. Here is my dilema, and I am totally serious about this.
Why do women pretend that they are interested in dating, relationships and marriage, and claim that all men care about is sex when they clearly are not interested in any of the above things and actually are only interested in sex? This has been my experience at least. To date (don't argue please this are my real numbers), I have slept with somewhere between 47 and 50 women, but have only dated 5, and only had one serious girlfriend (and it was a very bizaar relationship to say the least). Tonight if I went out looking, it would be easy to convince an attractive woman to go back to my place and fuck, but if I started looking now, I couldn't have a date by Saturday night if my life depended on it. To date, I have been shot down by women I have asked out about 40 times and have been stood up 17 times by women I had dates planned with. I have had fuck buddies (for those no familiar with the term, it refers to those you have a sexual relationship with, yet do not date or have any other assosication with) that I have actually asked out on dates and been told "no", then had them call me the same week asking if they could come over.
I'll give 3 examples from the summer class I'm currently in. OutlawAF, please do not read this part since you are in this class and you do NOT need to know this. Example #1, a girl at the beginning of the class needed could not understand some of the material from the lab part of the class, so I helped her a some in class. She still couldn't grasp it so I offered to tutor her outside of class, and gave her my phone #. She said she would call, and have me help her that Sunday, two days before the exam. She didn't call, she failed the exam and dropped the class. Example #2, a girl in the class flirts with me, we chat after class a couple of times, so I ask her out. She agrees (a miracle), and when the date comes, she stands me up. The next Monday at class, she chats with me like everything is cool, then when I catch her after class and ask her what happened, she tells me sorry about that, maybe we can go out some other time. Since she already has my phone # I tell her to call me and let me know when she wants to. 2 1/2 weeks later, no call, and nothing said to me in class. Example #3, a girl follows me down the hall after class when no one is looking, grabs me, starts talking to me, then says "you are so fucking hot... I want to fuck your brains out!"
While the guys reading this are either saying, "He is full of shit" or "I don't see the problem", there is a problem. I'm am totally sick of being alone. Honestly all I want to to find someone special, so that after I finish college and am finacially secure, I can settle down and start a family.
Of course a couple of events prompted this. #1, a friend of mine who I am interested in because she is not only attractive, but actually has a mind and a perfect personality, pretty much let me know today that she is graduating in December, isn't going to leave her boyfriend who is back home, and intends to leave this town and forget everyone in it. Plus my ex-girlfriend who I have actually been trying to get involved with again because I'm still in love with her is in surgery right now. She isn't doing well, and isn't interested in being involved with anyone, and let me know two weeks ago she does not want me even comming around until after the surgery. She also said she wants to die and doesn't expect to live long anyways. Wow.
Now, I've come to 3 possibilities. Perhaps I'm not even in the ballpark, but thus far these are the only three conclusions that make sense at this point.
#1, it isn't just me. All women are totally fucked up and are liars about what they really want. In which case I'm doomed to be alone the rest of my life with the exception of one night stands.
#2, its me. I'm incrediably sexy, and women are attracted to me, but I have the personality of a rock and bore them to death. In which case I'm doomed to be alone the rest of my life with the exception of one night stands.
#3, its me. Similar to #2, except there is something so incredably annoying about my personality that women can't stand to be around me for lenthy periods of time where I will have the opportunity to speak. In which case I'm doomed to be alone the rest of my life with the exception of one night stands.
Any information from the ladies on this would be most beneficial. Thank you.
Why do women pretend that they are interested in dating, relationships and marriage, and claim that all men care about is sex when they clearly are not interested in any of the above things and actually are only interested in sex? This has been my experience at least. To date (don't argue please this are my real numbers), I have slept with somewhere between 47 and 50 women, but have only dated 5, and only had one serious girlfriend (and it was a very bizaar relationship to say the least). Tonight if I went out looking, it would be easy to convince an attractive woman to go back to my place and fuck, but if I started looking now, I couldn't have a date by Saturday night if my life depended on it. To date, I have been shot down by women I have asked out about 40 times and have been stood up 17 times by women I had dates planned with. I have had fuck buddies (for those no familiar with the term, it refers to those you have a sexual relationship with, yet do not date or have any other assosication with) that I have actually asked out on dates and been told "no", then had them call me the same week asking if they could come over.
I'll give 3 examples from the summer class I'm currently in. OutlawAF, please do not read this part since you are in this class and you do NOT need to know this. Example #1, a girl at the beginning of the class needed could not understand some of the material from the lab part of the class, so I helped her a some in class. She still couldn't grasp it so I offered to tutor her outside of class, and gave her my phone #. She said she would call, and have me help her that Sunday, two days before the exam. She didn't call, she failed the exam and dropped the class. Example #2, a girl in the class flirts with me, we chat after class a couple of times, so I ask her out. She agrees (a miracle), and when the date comes, she stands me up. The next Monday at class, she chats with me like everything is cool, then when I catch her after class and ask her what happened, she tells me sorry about that, maybe we can go out some other time. Since she already has my phone # I tell her to call me and let me know when she wants to. 2 1/2 weeks later, no call, and nothing said to me in class. Example #3, a girl follows me down the hall after class when no one is looking, grabs me, starts talking to me, then says "you are so fucking hot... I want to fuck your brains out!"
While the guys reading this are either saying, "He is full of shit" or "I don't see the problem", there is a problem. I'm am totally sick of being alone. Honestly all I want to to find someone special, so that after I finish college and am finacially secure, I can settle down and start a family.
Of course a couple of events prompted this. #1, a friend of mine who I am interested in because she is not only attractive, but actually has a mind and a perfect personality, pretty much let me know today that she is graduating in December, isn't going to leave her boyfriend who is back home, and intends to leave this town and forget everyone in it. Plus my ex-girlfriend who I have actually been trying to get involved with again because I'm still in love with her is in surgery right now. She isn't doing well, and isn't interested in being involved with anyone, and let me know two weeks ago she does not want me even comming around until after the surgery. She also said she wants to die and doesn't expect to live long anyways. Wow.
Now, I've come to 3 possibilities. Perhaps I'm not even in the ballpark, but thus far these are the only three conclusions that make sense at this point.
#1, it isn't just me. All women are totally fucked up and are liars about what they really want. In which case I'm doomed to be alone the rest of my life with the exception of one night stands.
#2, its me. I'm incrediably sexy, and women are attracted to me, but I have the personality of a rock and bore them to death. In which case I'm doomed to be alone the rest of my life with the exception of one night stands.
#3, its me. Similar to #2, except there is something so incredably annoying about my personality that women can't stand to be around me for lenthy periods of time where I will have the opportunity to speak. In which case I'm doomed to be alone the rest of my life with the exception of one night stands.
Any information from the ladies on this would be most beneficial. Thank you.
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HighIntensity said:
What's wrong with my avatar?
lamamacita2
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Maybe women are intimidated by you?
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There is nothing wrong with your personality. If you are anything in real life, like you are here, then you are fine.
Girl #1-doesn't give a crap about anything. Flunked out of school. Needs to get her shit together. Get over her.
Girl #2-has a boyfriend. Was curious, but realized that it's not a good idea, or she was using you to make her boyfriend jealous
Girl #3-is a prostitute. Ill, seriously, why the hell would you want to be involved with someone like that. I know you say that you are incredibly sexy, but really, do you honestly think your irresistable(sp)?
Here's the buttom line, you are looking in the wrong places for these girls. How old are they? How old are you? Is this a 4 year college or a community college? Trust me it makes a difference.
I am so sorry about your gf. If that's what she wants than let her be. She's probably experiencing some type of depression. If you love her, then maybe give yourself time to deal with the fact that the two of you will never get back together.
Now this may sound weird, but did you ever think of trying dating services like match.com? This is a great way to meet girls who want the same things as you. It's a great way to weed out people based on your expectations. You have to really give it a chance though. Go on a lot of dates. Even if the girls may turn out to be trolls, you never know, you may find a good one.
Oh, you don't go around talking about how sexy you are to women do you? That's a huge turn off.
Girl #1-doesn't give a crap about anything. Flunked out of school. Needs to get her shit together. Get over her.
Girl #2-has a boyfriend. Was curious, but realized that it's not a good idea, or she was using you to make her boyfriend jealous
Girl #3-is a prostitute. Ill, seriously, why the hell would you want to be involved with someone like that. I know you say that you are incredibly sexy, but really, do you honestly think your irresistable(sp)?
Here's the buttom line, you are looking in the wrong places for these girls. How old are they? How old are you? Is this a 4 year college or a community college? Trust me it makes a difference.
I am so sorry about your gf. If that's what she wants than let her be. She's probably experiencing some type of depression. If you love her, then maybe give yourself time to deal with the fact that the two of you will never get back together.
Now this may sound weird, but did you ever think of trying dating services like match.com? This is a great way to meet girls who want the same things as you. It's a great way to weed out people based on your expectations. You have to really give it a chance though. Go on a lot of dates. Even if the girls may turn out to be trolls, you never know, you may find a good one.
Oh, you don't go around talking about how sexy you are to women do you? That's a huge turn off.
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Relax BBF, you are doing better than me. I have concluded that the only mentally secure way to get through this life is to keep 10 feet away from women.
I used to date a lot and almost all of the women just wanted to fuck, I was looking for a partner at the time.
They are insane, deal with it.
I used to date a lot and almost all of the women just wanted to fuck, I was looking for a partner at the time.
They are insane, deal with it.
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NO I don't go around talking about how sexy I am! Give me some credit flexy. In those 3 examples btw I was not interested in #3, just included to show the trend. Yeah, you already know about my ex-gf though from chatting in pm's. God, I wish I had never dumped her now.
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