Why are people so negative?

[chazk]

Every human wants to be accpeted into social settings be it in a bar,at a church or on website such as elite.

So someone takes the time to upload a picture of themselves sure enough
crowds of vulchers come to pic the guy apart.

squwalk squwalk your to fat squwalk squwalk your not big enough squwalk
your to big squwalk squwalk.


you vulchers start rambling about how you did this or how you did that and why he should look like you do .

then you fly away to go rip apart the next person.

What the fuck ever happened to "nice work" "great progress" "getting their"
"I can see the effort i working and paying off " "keep it up".

I swear it seems like you vulchers take some kind of pleasure in try to insult or belittle people to make your selfs feel better.
saying shit like " chicks like my abs, you need abs"
its your way if saying " i'm liked by more people then you "
maybe the guy is married with 4 kids and does not give fuck about "chicks like abs"

or "I am more ripped people like me becuase I'm more ripped "
You just make yourself look like a fucking rooster sticking out its chest and kicking sand in everyone elses face trying to be mr macho.

We all are in the gym we all work out we should all have a little more respect for each other and try to motivate each other

alot of you guys are inspirational and do motivate each other
this thread is really only pointed at the " mr negatives " in the forum

 

[mattdan]

So your jealous of me?

Good post bro.

 

[CremasterBlaster]

Seriously good post bro.

Everyone seeks validation at some point......and for the guys that do post pics it takes a lot of balls, especially for someone just starting out.

I am sure if we stripped away the anonymity of the forum and all met face to face we would just laugh all fucking night at how deep misconceptions really form.

 

[magico]

Nice post. It's sad that so many people feel so competative or think so low of themselves that they feel it's neccessary to tear others down. Weight training is'nt about competition with others; the only competition is with yourself to reach personal goals. The truly sad part is that this negativity, being an aas board first and foremost, drives athletes away when they may be seeking information that could save their health or, in extreme cases, life. They leave frustrated, shooting crap gear under unsanitary conditions, because no one would give them the information they needed.

 

[magico]

btw it's not just this board because this board IMHO is a lot better about it than a lot of others out there.

 

[BigCracker]

I think you look awesome bro, but you spell like old people fuck. Vulchers??? Vulture-which is basically an American Eagle-go figure??? lol

Yep, nothing is more satisfying than pointing out the shortcomings of others. Elevating yourself at other people's expense rules too.

I'll be the 1st to admit I'm much bigger of an asshole online than in person. If I was like this 24/7 I'd have been shot dead years ago.

 

[holy ghost]

i am here to help
but i have tough love

 

[Mrpumped]

I think you look awesome bro, but you spell like old people fuck. Vulchers??? Vulture-which is basically an American Eagle-go figure??? lol

Yep, nothing is more satisfying than pointing out the shortcomings of others. Elevating yourself at other people's expense rules too.

I'll be the 1st to admit I'm much bigger of an asshole online than in person. If I was like this 24/7 I'd have been shot dead years ago.

Internet tough guy.

 

[taureauchien]

i need a hug

 

[nydj66]

I agree with you, Chazk

 

[Svengali]

Vulchers??? Vulture-which is basically an American Eagle-go figure??? lol
.

Bro, if you think that a Vulture is basically an American eagle, you have been in the desert way too long. Time to venture out to Cali for the weekend.

 

[MichaelScott]

agree man, it takes balls to post pics up here, i always give k for doin it

 

[enacer420nj]

Every human wants to be accpeted into social settings be it in a bar,at a church or on website such as elite.

So someone takes the time to upload a picture of themselves sure enough
crowds of vulchers come to pic the guy apart.

squwalk squwalk your to fat squwalk squwalk your not big enough squwalk
your to big squwalk squwalk.


you vulchers start rambling about how you did this or how you did that and why he should look like you do .

then you fly away to go rip apart the next person.

What the fuck ever happened to "nice work" "great progress" "getting their"
"I can see the effort i working and paying off " "keep it up".

I swear it seems like you vulchers take some kind of pleasure in try to insult or belittle people to make your selfs feel better.
saying shit like " chicks like my abs, you need abs"
its your way if saying " i'm liked by more people then you "
maybe the guy is married with 4 kids and does not give fuck about "chicks like abs"

or "I am more ripped people like me becuase I'm more ripped "
You just make yourself look like a fucking rooster sticking out its chest and kicking sand in everyone elses face trying to be mr macho.

We all are in the gym we all work out we should all have a little more respect for each other and try to motivate each other

alot of you guys are inspirational and do motivate each other
this thread is really only pointed at the " mr negatives " in the forum

I agree with some things you say...I dont agree with ripping people apart for no reason BUT this is a place for criticism, so if you cant take it dont post pics or ask for advice. If people come on here to post pics just to here "hey great work" sounds like they have self esteem issues postings pics on the internet to get a "pat on the back". Part of bodybuilding for me is always trying to improve something about myself, I got stuck in a position where I was always picking myself apart but its also what makes me effective at changing my body to what I want. Im 5'9 and i fluctuate between 183-190 with very low BF. For me this is good, im not gonna be like "i need to be 220 and press more than the guy next to me" I did a cycle I gained 10-15lbs and lowered bodyfat so im happy with myself. People dont need to be dicks and be like hey your fat, you can simply say your BF is high you need cardio or diff diet ETC.

 

[searay]

a vulture is an american eagle ? wow, you learn something everyday ! Thanks for the valuable info. Was that positive enough ? Dont all get your panties in a bunch now, just clownin.........

 

[702daswoll1]

Check it out.. If someone posts up a pic and says "what do you guys think" and the guy is 20 percent bf and looks like shit Im gonna call it like I see it and tell dude whats up.

 

[hard2handle]

Dood, it takes a lot of balls to tell a 155lb 18 year old kid with low confidence, that he looks like a sissy.

K awarded

 

[holy ghost]

thats not what hes talking about.

 

[layinback]

well in real life i am a big intimidating guy.6'4 240lb solid. my personality is equal to or surpasses my physical presentation. i am a highly proficient fighter with 30 years of martial arts. i own my biz and i am clearly the boss. when i get slammed on ef its kinda new experience for me. refreshing actually. thats just me. i do not engage in belittling other people but some ppl need a swift kick in the ass to move them in the right direction. plenty of dudes to do that here. the UNNECESSARY flaming of the ignorant is uncalled for. i reckon it is all about MOTIVE. just recently someone on ef tried to bully me for no reason.....no no no. wrong fuckin guy. i can take criticism but not bullying. bullies are pussy boys and they aint hard to read. i think all the smart folk know the difference.

 

[hard2handle]

very well stated.
-indeed 'MOTIVE'

 

[hard2handle]

I think it needs to be said. The original title 'why are people so negative?' I'm all for a swift kick in the ass, some people need it, including me. But I believe it can be done in a positive manner. The people asking the dumbest questions are the ones who need the most help.