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Why are guys such pricks

theoak01

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last nite i woke up to my parents fighting and i hear my dad call my mom a slut,i lost it and grabbed him by his neck and then we wrestled and i fell and hurt my shoulder

i got up and told him he makes me ashamed to me a man

honestly how can any guy justify this behavior,i sure cant


sorry just needed to get anger out,i cant even train now my shoulder joint is so fucked up
 
I'm sorry you had to hear him say it.
That is horrible.
Take care of your mother.
 
I agree he shouldn't be calling you mother names like that. My ex girlfriend is really the only whore anyway. Ill let him meet her and then he will know how lucky he is.
 
Remember this event AND NEVER, EVER repeat it.....

If your gf or wife EVER behaves in such a fashion as to deserve the title.... rise above it, wash your hands and be DONE WITH IT.

Oak you're a good kid and I suspect, will be A FINE MAN. I am willing to wager on it! I have watched you over that past year and you are maturing at the speed of light....

I know that your mother must be very proud... I know I am.

No ass-kissing, just calling it like I see it.
 
he has always treated her like shit and all she does is try her best,i honestly wish they would split up,we all would be happier,most of the reason my dad is this way is because of his anti women friends who use women and shit,i was honestly ready to kill him last nite and suprised i didnt
 
I find it amusing that you are posting this on the chat board where there are so many men that exemplify what you are angry towards.
I'm with you man, you sound like a good guy - as BM said, remember this and don't become another one yourself.
 
I was about to post the same thing that my fav man ho HS just posted. Good advice Bmom
 
The Canadian Oak said:
he has always treated her like shit and all she does is try her best,i honestly wish they would split up,we all would be happier,most of the reason my dad is this way is because of his anti women friends who use women and shit,i was honestly ready to kill him last nite and suprised i didnt
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This is why I decided to divorce my ex... never wanted to hear my girls utter these sentiments.

I gotta say though, I disagree to some extent about your assessment of the sitch. THE MAIN REASON your dad treats your mom that way is BECAUSE SHE ALLOWS IT. I am not passing judgement on her. NOT AT ALL. I can't speak for her and I don't know her personally. But what I DO KNOW is that NO ONE CAN BE TREATED LIKE SHIT UNLESS THEY ALLOW THEMSELVES TO BE TREATED LIKE THAT.

Talk to your mom about this. I bet that if she knew how much it hurt you to see her allow herself to be treated this way and how detrimental it was to you, she may makes some changes. I know that is what did it for me.... to see how disrespectfully my girls began to treat me. And why shouldn't they have? They were only mimicking their father and I WAS ALLOWING IT.

Standing up for yourself DOES NOT MEAN getting a divorce, but IT DOES MEAN NOT TOLERATING SUCH BEHAVIOR. Maybe if your mom begins to change the way she view herself, your dad will also begin to change.

Yes, it is a stretch and DAMNED DIFFICULT.... but I think that it is worth it.

Talk to your mother, Oak. Help her to see how much you love and respect her and how much you want BOTH of your parents to be happy.... Beleive me, your father is EQUALLY miserable. Only a miserable individual can behave that way towards people who they claim to love.
 
thanx bmom i appreciate the help

me and her will definatly be talking since ill have so much time off of work

i dont respect ym father anymore,there has been trouble with them since money started getting tight,he was raised rich and is a miserable cheater,my mother does allow it she tok him back when he cheated on her in the past,i guess she loves me and my sister so much that she couldnt leave
 
lets not all jump on the bandwagon and bad mouth the dad. maybe his mom called the dad something vulgar and his dad was just returning fire.
 
Oak, I am sorry to hear about your dad.. I really am. But none of us are perfect and I guess, when we grow up and see that our parents are just as flawed as everyone else, it is a HYUGE let-down. I know I was VERY LET DOWN by both of my parents on MANY OCCASIONS, but that is ok. They gave me more than most other recieved and that is enough for me. Now I need to look to MYSELF for what I need - ME - NOBODY ELSE..... some scary shit for me and I am not ashamed to admit my frailties and weaknesses, especially if it will help some one out.

I can honestly understand why your mother stayed. Leaving isn't always as people make it out to be. I, myself, struggled with this for nearly two years..... "should I stay for the sake of the children?" Ultimately, I came to see that staying would have been THE WORST THING I could've done FOR EVERYONE - INCLUDING MY EX!

Is leaving difficult?! HELL YES! BUT, IT IS NEVER IMPOSSIBLE.

Both you and your sister talk to your mother and help her to realize that by staying with your dad she is hurting you guys more than helping (This is EVERY MOTHER'S GREATEST CONCERN...at least, it should be.). Tell her to try and get counseling WITH YOUR FATHER. I know that you might not want to hear this, but your father has serious issues and is in a lot of pain. If he wasn't, he would not behave the way he does. Am I excusing his behavior? NO, but I am telling you that life is not always as simple as it may seem to us when we are young. We are all human and we ALL MAKE MISTAKES! See if you guys can go for family counseling..... DIVORCE SHOULD ALWAYS BE THE FINAL COURSE - NOT THE FIRST.

Now is the time for communication.... express yourself Oak...and help your family to express themselves.
 
I for one am getting tired of assholes mentally, physically etc abusive towards thier women. I have a few on my shitlist right now. They make all guys look bad.

I am not perfect and have said some stupid things to women in the past but there is a line I draw and some of these things people do I will not do nor tolerate.

Anyways props to you for sticking up for your mom.

I think she stays with him because he has beat her self esteem/worth down to nothing so she is probably afraid to kick him to the curb.

Seen it way too many times with women I know to suspect that, let alone kids(My mom beat my self worth down so bad when I was young that it took a long time to throw her ass to the curb, it bothers me sometimes but sometimes you have to cut the ones who are supposed to be your closest blood ties to find happiness)

The best thing you can do is stick up for your mom and just continue treating women with respect. Not much more I can say about this.
 
my mother would not say anything to be called a slut nor do anything to,my dad has cheated not my mom

and bmom i appreciate this help honestly,they tried counselling before but my dad isnt willing to go anymore he says eveyrhthing is ok when we all know it isnt,when i get home from school i will definatly talk to my mom because we cant live like this
 
Well man I've been down this road and the night my dad decided he was moving out I knocked his ass out cause I wasn't going to listen to him anymore try to bully an argument...I felt 20 years or more likely 15 years of aggression suddenly dissapear.

My dad was a shitty father since he never could talk to us. He gave us more then he ever had and I'm thankfull and always will be for the opportunities he gave my sister and I. I have no respect for him as a man because he cheated on my mom while they were seperated and I was the one who had to tell my mom about, to this day he still never admitted to it. He basically pissed away all the values he taught me as I was growing up so I said fuck him. I'm a bit glad that now I'm going into the military I'm off his payroll so to speak...


Not everyone is perfect the best you can do is acknolwedge his faults and move on with your life. You can keep him included in your life or not. I'm including my father very little if for any reason out of pitty for him
 
Reminds me of the time one of my ex lady friends decided to get feisty with me.

We were talking about the usual, botany, when she got all incensed and called me a "freak", to which I replied with a quick upward thrust with my butterfly knife to her chin.

Blood was leaking, and I was dancing in it when she wanted to call 911, so I impaled her chest with the knife about 5 or 6 hundred times, then tore her clothes off and drew a treasure map on her abdomen.
 
Good for you bro. I can't imagine what I would do if someone said that shit to my Mom weather it was my father or not. You sound like a great guy with great respect for women (like me) and that is what I see that lacks in society at times and it is really sad to see

M18
 
Oak, you are one of a rare few that would have the guts to stand up to their father. I can imagine that this was very hard for you to do!! However, you should be proud of yourself--you did the right thing!! Remind your mother that you love her, I am sure she will be very grateful to hear it. I hope all goes well for you and your family in the upcoming days!!

-toga
 
I here ya, my Dad was abusive twords my mom and us. When I was 5, I had to jump on his back to prevent him from beatin my Mom. He threw my into a mirror. Often I would call the Police on him, he would then take me to the police station and tell me "If I
called again he would have me locked up."

Once he tried to take my brother away, and I jumped on the hood of his moveing car. I met his first girlfriend when I was 6. And at 21 I threatned to fight him on a family trip to Mexico, for makeing fun of my MOM.

This is why I treat women like gold, and never cheat. I told all of this 2 my ex, she knew how much it hurt me. "she would look me dead in the eyes and say I feel your pain, I would never hurt you."

Then she cheated on me, and wrote that maby loseing her will finally get me over my problems with my father, cunt


now you know why im going crazy
 
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I find it hard to believe all the people here that whip dads ass at will. You could be sending the man into a meat grinder. I hope my boys never think of coming after me, it'll be messy. My dad is 59 and he wouldn't be fun. Not saying anything good about what he did,its just the I knocked him out shit that always is doubtable. I'm not saying you did't or can't but its a stretch.
Oak, good luck man, it isn't going to be a nice talk, sorry you have to do it. Can she pay the bills without him? Thats a fear that is realistic and might keep her there.
 
dude, mad props that you jumped on your dad like that and helped save your mom...i would do that if my dad was like that...sorry you have to live like that man...keep it up, your a good man

peace
 
not all men are like that.

and don't you think the women do it to themselves a bit (not totally, but partially)? women love assholes. it is a proven fact. every nice guy in this thread (oak, mustang, HI) has gotten his heart broken and is still suffering because of it.

why do you think pimps are so successful with the ladies? aside from their ability to manipulate, they are cruel and can cut someone off at the drop of a hat.

i've seen women (many women) say they prefer bad boys over sensetive joes. so whyyyyyy are men solely at fault (which they are, just not totally). if you don't want to eat raisin bran, stop fucking buying it.

note: this doesn't apply to oak's situation.
 
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im bigger and stronger then my dad so its not unrealistic

i feel i did what i had to

my mom said they had a talk and things are ok and i called bullshit and said its him or me gone because im not living like this anymore,its been this way pretty much since i was 7 or 8 now its just going to a new level and im big and strong enough that i wont stand by like a dummie and take it anymore


and i dont see how women make men pricks,living with someone shouldnt do this,if your unhappy leave dont sit there and be a asshole towards those around you and hurt them
 
You showed more restraint than I would have. Good job.

Unfortunetly a lot of the women I know put up with far too much shit from the assholes they date.

Stupid? Yes. But mostly just sad.
 
Sounds like you're already on the path to being a man, Oak. Good for you. Don't forget what is going on right now, ever.
 
Damn Oak fighting with your dad ? What are his stats ? Hope he's not one big mofo otherwise......:p
 
Definitly something I've seen before and I'll tell you one thing:

This type of family situation makes or breaks the children. The children in this type of situation will either become better people for having been exposed to this or become the terrible type of person that their father or mother were or are.

Good luck with your situation OAK and I can see that this will only help you become a better man and build character by the way your handling it and seeing it.

Best wishes,
WRJ

Maybe you can still work things out with your father by getting him some professional help. I wish my dad would have :(
 
If you have the size advantage then it's possible

when I hit my dad I was just under 260lbs at 6ft 1

my father was about 235lbs at 5ft 10...When I started yelling at him he walked right into my swing and was only about 2.5ft away when I hit him in the chin I would say he felt the full force of my swing. He dropped like a brick and thats all their was to it. I got extremely lucky cause had he fought back it would have been nasty and I probably would have tried to taken his life.

I hope no one has to go through what I did. I didn't talk to my dad for about 4-5 months after that. Though I dont talk with him much he doesn't treat me like a child any longer and is alot more respectfull
 
K2_Exotech said:
I wish my dad would beat my mom.
That bitch deserves a good fuckin slap.
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your as fucking idiot get off my thread





my dad is about 185 of fat ,a little shorter then me,he has big arms but he isnt strong and half cripple due to back injury


all and all he is a cock sucking asshole who i wish would just die or leave
 
Im with you man (about a lot of guys), thats some messed up shit and Im sorry you and your mom have to put up with it.
 
Hey C oak what about the Woman out there...? come on buddy

Im sorry to here what happened 2 your mom, maby you read above in the post what crap I had 2 deal with, my pops.

But damn there be a lot of fd up woman out there, trust me
the pain my ex has caused me, is like putting a gun 2 my head.
Don't know if I will ever have the same trust for a woman,
 
People in general do fucked up things, it just sux that the ones you love the most are the ones who can hurt you the most
 
oh i definatly knwo hwo you feel,there are crazy women to and not very many good ones,its also very hard for me to trust women to thats why im taking it slow with the girl im after now,hopefully she dont break my heart,if she does i think ill take a break from women for a while,man if you need anyone to talk to ill be here
 
If my dad called my mom a slut, after he kicked his ass i would kill him.



OAK, i like you bro, i would have done the same thing.
 
You are a good son to your mother.

Youth has beautiful traits: It is sincere, faithful, honest, pure, trusting, devoted, loyal, generous, grateful. As you grow older try to preserve the virtues of youth, even after you have lost its illusions; become a man and remain a youth.

It is in accordance with this law that a fine nature is developed and a great heart formed. Enthusiasm is at the bottom of true wisdom. The wise man does not grow old, but ripens.

Bikinimon is so right, learn from these episodes, and try to calmly communicate through the anger, as best you can, given your position and opportunity.
 
Stand by your mom like you're doing now Oak. You will never believe how much she appreciates you. Like Kahn said she might think you guys need the financial support, or just to have 2 parents around. She'll come around but in the meantime be good to her don't just be mad.
 
I don't know what to really say that hasn't been said, except that I think you did the right thing.
 
Dammit it hurts so much to read about shit like this. It sounds like your family is under a lot of strain right now, and your dad needs some work on his ability to deal.

Props to ya Oak, you're going through a lot of emotion for someone your age. Good man.
 
The Canadian Oak said:


your as fucking idiot get off my thread





my dad is about 185 of fat ,a little shorter then me,he has big arms but he isnt strong and half cripple due to back injury


all and all he is a cock sucking asshole who i wish would just die or leave
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Your dad probably needs help. This shit has a cure. Good luck :)
 
thanx guys your all very great,we are hanging in there ok for the time being

im talking to my mom now ill let ya's know
 
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