i work 11am-2pm 6 days a week, and from 4 or 5pm to 8 or 9pm 7 nights a week. i just w/o before my first job from 9:30-10:30. as for the lady, well all the working and working out.....added to my shitty attitude.........that may be why i piss them all off!
I work and go to college. I don't have a lady right now, and don't know if I would be able to maintane my workouts if I did. Honestly though I think if you enjoy the sport enough, you will make time for it.