Who here stills lives at home with their Parents and Takes Gear?

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good thing im not having kids!

 

[krbn08]

Is that supposed to bother me???

There is an unspoken taboo in our society where if you admit that having kids wasn't quite what you thought it would be and that if you could do it all over again that you would have chosen NOT to have kids, that you are a monster, an evil, despicable monster.

The truth is a large percentage of parents HATE being parents. They will never say it out loud and they can't even admit that to themselves because "only an evil demon" would come to that conclusion, they think.

However, underneath it all, underneath all the B.S. is the truth that we all know:

Children are overrated.

For every precious moment where the little brat does something special, there are 1,000 moments where they drive you crazy.

They literally tear your life upside down. Marriage, sex life, your wives appearance, your social life, the list goes on and on and on.

Oh yeah, the worst part is yet to come - the teenage years. I could write volumes on this subject.

The reason people have children is because of this unwritten societal norm where the standard is to get married and immediately begin to produce offspring because "that's the thing to do".

Here's another fact for you if you're interested in the subject: the highest points of martial satisfaction are: 1) after the kids leave and 2) before the kids were born. Look it up, it's true.

I decided not to have kids or a wife... And haven't regretted it one bit!!! I look at all my sorry faced friends straining to make ends meet, having the endless honey do lists, soccer games, Dr bills, bitching, whinny little brats, debt up their asses!!.....and me....well I focused on work and saving money and have no debt, date all different kinds of women, no strings attached, do roids, train 2x a day, come and go as I please, etc.

Yeah, I may grow up old and have no one but look....most of you will be divorced and so broke after raising kids, alimony, child support, kids college...that you will have nothing to show for it when you are 65 and still have to work till your are dead......sorry thats reality.

My friends have given up asking me if I'll ever get married or have kids. They know better. Then someone always pulls me aside and says, "I would love to have your life".

I think most people end up having kids because 1) They're too stupid to know how to use birth control properly and/or 2) They have an idealistic, completely unrealistic vision of what parenthood entails.
People imagine dressing their daughter in pretty clothes, or playing catch with their son. They don't think about being awoken at 2 a.m. by a sick, screaming kid who just threw up all over the bed, and who doesn't give a shit that you have to get up for work in four hours. They don't think about the mortgage company threatening to foreclose, or the electricity being shut off, because the husband can't pay all the bills on one income.

More people should think about these things, and fewer people should be having children. Parenthood should be left to those few couples who are willing to take the good with the bad.

Many psychologists and family therapists say that the people that would be the best parents are the ones that never have children because they are truly realistic about how involved and time consuming it would be to do it right.

Furthermore, the more I read on this thread the thought of getting a chain saw vasectomy or celibacy sounds better with each dipshit 20 something's post.

Sign off of elitefitness.com.

Then, count from 1 - 10 backwards.

Taking deep breaths in the process.

O yea, make sure to put the chainsaw down.

Stop taking AAS, i think you should of stopped yesterday or in 2006 atleast.

Your really abusing the drugs man, and the keyboard.

You type up a page for each person, so you can ATTACK em!!!!!

Have a nice day, P.S. see a doctor, anger management.

 

[BigCracker]

sound like my uncle bro, mr. know it all, even though he aint got shit to show for it

Aint got shit to show for it??? LMFAO. I'm practically retired at age 40 with a nice home with a pool, 2 luxury cars, a bad ass Hayabusa sportbike w/ tons of mods, and I have plenty of free time every fucking day to enjoy all of these things. Not to mention the physique I still have that most of you can only dream about having. And I had zero help from my relatives aquiring any of these things. Beat that sissyboy!

 

[al420]

Boys live at home

Men live on their own.

I have 4 kids. Have been on my own since I was 17. My Dad, who would do anything for me, knew i had to be forced to become a man b/c with today’s standards some think living at home at 25 is perfectly fine. I made it, and b/c of the things I had to endure will always make it – to be honest I kill it.

Who gives a shit if you’re in Grad school or College – and for that matter you are listening to a Professor – they are the biggest hiders from life ever. Sorry, but every friend I have w/ a PHD stayed in school b/c they were not ready to live a real life – do we need them, sure, but are they productive member of society – not usually. I had dinner 3 nights ago w/ the Dean of the local universitys Law School - complete social handicap - if they were even half way normal they would be making 700+ a year working for a firm, but b/c they can barely form a sentence they can not. Every professor I ever had could only be a professor, period.

Quit hiding from life and get real, get a place, and get a life. Should I move home b/c I just got a 600 unit condo deal - I mean it will dominate my time and I will need tons of family support as I will basically live at work for 6 months. Maybe living rent free would help me cope – “fuck you mommy, make me a sandwich”

My older brother lives w/ our mother – and he is a total asshat. He is 6’1” 260 @ 8%, and he thinks his abs are wicked cool – but his wallet is a joke as is his self esteem. Who in their right mind can feel good about leeching off Daddy’s nut sack?

Sorry - but a spade is a spade, and a pussy is a pussy. If you live at home, and don't pay them for food or rent, and buy juice (with your allowance…lol) you are a thief and selfish.

Your parents don’t owe you anything - you were born - favors should end there. Helping your kids is one thing, but enabling them to be douchebags is another.

 

[newbiebynature]

i was talking about parenting...you give more than .02 cents even though you have no experience whatsoever

 

[al420]

i was talking about parenting...you give more than .02 cents even though you have no experience whatsoever

How many kids do you have? Ages? Successes in life so far?

Where is your .02?

 

[newbiebynature]

im not trying to hand out advice like some assholes around here, i never said i had experience i just said my mother didnt neglect the tit as a baby thats all...some of you EF'ers are real faggots, have to keep feeding on drama. The end. im done here, gonna go do something while u lamos jerk off to this thread some more

 

[BigCracker]

Sign off of elitefitness.com.

Then, count from 1 - 10 backwards.

Taking deep breaths in the process.

O yea, make sure to put the chainsaw down.

Stop taking AAS, i think you should of stopped yesterday or in 2006 atleast.

Your really abusing the drugs man, and the keyboard.

You type up a page for each person, so you can ATTACK em!!!!!

Have a nice day, P.S. see a doctor, anger management.

I was just talking to my friend yesterday and I figured out my past year's Rx bill was under $2000 total-and none of my gear was UG cheapo shit. And I still look better than most of the guys on this board that spend $1000 on gear/gh a month-so stfu. It's fucking 103 degreees outside today so I'm enjoying this heated debate with you young retards in the comfort of my AC set at 72 degrees. Maybe after I train I'll have couple 20 something hos over to go swimming and fuck me in my pool? Yep. I'm an angry mofo. My life just sucks sooooo bad. I can't take it much longer. I wish I had some spoiled brats around to mooch off me like you guys. My life would be so much more rewarding. Not!

 

[BigCracker]

im not trying to hand out advice like some assholes around here, i never said i had experience i just said my mother didnt neglect the tit as a baby thats all...some of you EF'ers are real faggots, have to keep feeding on drama. The end. im done here, gonna go do something while u lamos jerk off to this thread some more

Typical chick-like response. They can't listen to reason so the spit a few insults and say talk to the hand. This is precisely the feminized male I spoke oif earlier. If I was this guy's father I'd feel like a failure.

 

[musclemom]

Boys live at home

Men live on their own.

I have 4 kids. Have been on my own since I was 17. My Dad, who would do anything for me, knew i had to be forced to become a man b/c with today’s standards some think living at home at 25 is perfectly fine. I made it, and b/c of the things I had to endure will always make it – to be honest I kill it.

Who gives a shit if you’re in Grad school or College – and for that matter you are listening to a Professor – they are the biggest hiders from life ever. Sorry, but every friend I have w/ a PHD stayed in school b/c they were not ready to live a real life – do we need them, sure, but are they productive member of society – not usually. I had dinner 3 nights ago w/ the Dean of the local universitys Law School - complete social handicap - if they were even half way normal they would be making 700+ a year working for a firm, but b/c they can barely form a sentence they can not. Every professor I ever had could only be a professor, period.

Quit hiding from life and get real, get a place, and get a life. Should I move home b/c I just got a 600 unit condo deal - I mean it will dominate my time and I will need tons of family support as I will basically live at work for 6 months. Maybe living rent free would help me cope – “fuck you mommy, make me a sandwich”

My older brother lives w/ our mother – and he is a total asshat. He is 6’1” 260 @ 8%, and he thinks his abs are wicked cool – but his wallet is a joke as is his self esteem. Who in their right mind can feel good about leeching off Daddy’s nut sack?

Sorry - but a spade is a spade, and a pussy is a pussy. If you live at home, and don't pay them for food or rent, and buy juice (with your allowance…lol) you are a thief and selfish.

Your parents don’t owe you anything - you were born - favors should end there. Helping your kids is one thing, but enabling them to be douchebags is another.

Sounded so nice it needs to be said twice For any y'all that are living at home with very little gumption to get up and go, re-read this post ^^^

Boys, what I'm TRYING to say and you're not hearing, is that I love my son dearly. I love him enough to realize that I'm not doing him any favors by being his mommy forever. The last step into adulthood is taking control of your own life.

What you don't realize is that there is a very SELFISH (even though it may be subconscious) side to parents who allow you to be leaches and live off their goodwill (even if they're hurting themselves financially): As long as their baby is still home and under their thumb they get to put off facing the inevitable, themselves and postpone that next step towards old age.

The day your child moves out is the day you realize just how short life really is. The longer they live with you the longer you can avoid facing that reality.