Who do you consider "stalkable"?

[hellorhih2o]

I just had this conversation over PM with someone and it was sort of interesting and I'm wondering what general consensus about it is.

Let's just face it, bodybuilders are known to be, or at least though of as, S-H-A-L-L-O-W bastards (don't argue with me about that one--you'll lose).

But... are you looking for "perfection" when you're looking for a one-night-stand, a date, the love of your life, or whatever? I know I’m not (even though I’m sure some of you will think I’m full of shit when I say that). Sure, there's got to be some kind of physical attraction but I'm really not looking for flawlessness.

I know this is a contradiction in a sense. I'm working my ASS off to look good myself (I'm not denying that for a second, I’m vain alright) but I’m not necessarily looking for that in someone else. I look for personality, intelligence, humor, sweetness AND some kind of physical attraction. But pure flawlessness bores me to tears...

What’s your story? Let’s hear it.

 

[hellorhih2o]

damn, i want some answers! NOW!

(and skip the wise-ass stuff, I really want to know)

 

[strangebrew]

I thought this would be a thread about stalking people. I feel decieved.

 

[sk*]

Honestly, I wouldn't care one bit if my gf gained 20lbs. Hell, I rather she does so no guys hit on her, haha.

So in short, the girl doesn't have to be "perfect", just as long as there is some attraction.

I care more about getting my body to "perfection", then worry about the girl I am dating. Maybe this sounds kinda bad, but that's how I am. And lately, I care way more for strength and function than "the perfect body."

-sk

 

[Liftbig]

attractive is very good. but its not the end-all. i prefer women who are smarter then me(saves me the thinking, lol), have a good sense of humor(i believe thats standard right? something everyone wants), and most importantly they have to be fun to be around, if you enjoy spending time with them, even if you are just staring at a rock laying on the ground, it doesnt matter what they look like.

 

[gotmilk]

I'm about to stalk some donuts...Sugar rush is needed....slowly losing all mental functions...must weretrAE VDFFF VARQWEREW$$

 

[ZKaudio]

I've been stalked b4... it's fun until you realize it doesn't stop when U want it to.

 

[strangebrew]

I've been stalked b4... it's fun until you realize it doesn't stop when U want it to.

where do you live and whats your address?

 

[Taps]

I'd say I'm physically attracted to about 15% of the female population. Looks are what gets me interested...how well our personalities mesh is what keeps me interested.

So for me I'd say 1/2 physical attraction, 1/2 everything else. That being said, what I find attractive may differ from what the next guy finds attractive.

Oh, and I wouldn't stalk anyone either. That's just fucked.

 

[biteme]

I don't consider anyone stalkable. I don't know what I'm looking for, I'll let you know if I find it.

 

[hellorhih2o]

I'd say I'm physically attracted to about 15% of the female population. Looks are what gets me interested...how well our personalities mesh is what keeps me interested.

So for me I'd say 1/2 physical attraction, 1/2 everything else. That being said, what I find attractive may differ from what the next guy finds attractive.

Oh, and I wouldn't stalk anyone either. That's just fucked.

The "stalkable" thing was just a joke, dude...

but... so what does physical attraction mean? gotta be as obsessed as (I assume) you are about your own body?

 

[Taps]

The "stalkable" thing was just a joke, dude...

but... so what does physical attraction mean? gotta be as obsessed as (I assume) you are about your own body?

I'm far from obsessed. lol I look good, and I work hard to maintain it...but honestly, I don't really care if a girl works out or not. As long as she's pretty and not a complete slob, its all good.

Lots of people, men and women, look great without having dieted or touched a weight in thier entire lives. So I suppose you could say physical attraction is just that..purely physical (eyes, hair, skin, body shape, etc.)

I assume you wouln't date a girl you didn't find apealing on a physical level?

 

[Dial_tone]

I don't go for the model types and really never have. Most of the girls I've liked you guys wouldn't give the time of day to. If they got a few extra pounds well bring it on, honey. I like the simple girl next door types, preferably tanning naked in the backyard.

 

[Pamela]

Dial have you been looking in my back yard on the deck?

How are you?

 

[ZKaudio]

Anyone here ever stalked themselves? I tried it, it looked fun from what HI described

 

[Dial_tone]

Dial have you been looking in my back yard on the deck?

How are you?

I would be if I could find it! I'm wondermous; and yourself?