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which girl do i go for.. and how do i do it??

decem

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ok.. sorry for the long post.. but y'all gotta give me some insight..

seems as though my luck has change for the better.. here's the deal.. i got three possibilities on the breezies.. and gotta decide to do with each one

here's a description of the girl and the situation:

GIRL #1

2 weeks ago.. i'm in a club up in the city... i see this girl that i went to school with.. the same girl that was friends with my neighbor.. the same girl that has a crush on me and i on her since school.. the same girl i cheated on my ex with on time when i came home for christmas..

so i see her.. she gives me a big hug.. and we're talkin a little bit.. and she's like "shit".. i'm like "what?.. you're here with someone aren't you?".. she's like "sorta".. well just then her boyfriend walks up and is staring at me. so i'm like.. "hey.. how are ya. i'm so-and-so.. went to school with her".. shook his hand (thinkin to myself "i'm gonna be boning your girlfriend in about a week") she's like.. "ok.. i gotta go.. then whispers in my ear.. "i'm coming home next week" (i live about 45min-1hr out of the city..) i'm like "alright"..

so a few days later.. i tried callin my neighbor who was friends with her to get her number.. she didn't have it cuz the girl just moved.. so she calls her mom, her mom won't give her number out.. she leaves a message.. the girl calls the neighbor back.. won't give her number to me.. but wants my number..

that friday.. none of my friends went out.. i was in bed by 11pm.. (i had school the next day).. and i wake up sat to see that she called about 11:30 wantin me to meet her out..

she never called again and i don't have a number to get in touch with her.. but i know that if i see her out.. or whenever she's home... we'd hang out, be cool.. and probably shag.
 
GIRL #2

ok.. girl number two is girl number one's friend (in fact.. when girl#1 called me last friday... she was using girl#2's cell phone). she also went to school with me.. she's actually babysitted my lil siblings (who are quite a bit younger than i, at ages 14,13, 10, + 8 - while i'm 25)..

well.. since i've been home.. i don't know if it's because i have looked so desperate and people are offering their hand at getting me out of such a state.. or just because it's a small town.. they know i'm single... and they know who she is and that she's looking good.. but anyway.. so far.. out of the blue.. without my saying anything about the girl.. my friend.. has said.. "hey, what about girl#2.. she is looking GOOD.. and she's single".. then my stepdad says "hey.. i saw girl#2 at the restaurant the other day.. she's a little hottie.. why don't you go after her".. .then my sister says to my stepdad.. "you know who he should go after.. girl#2.. she's nice and good looking"..

wtf.. 3 people out of nowhere mention this gal to me..

anyway.. i've never really gotten to know girl#2 real well... but i know she's not easy.. she's smart.. she's good looking.. she lives right by me.. she works right by me..

so i see her in the bar on tuesday.. strike up a conversation.. we talk for a while.. she asked certain questions that show interest "i.e. - how come i never see you out.. do you go out.. where ya livin.. etc.." (i know those are definitive signs.. but she's somewhat shy/reserved anyway.. and there were other signs.. but she wasn't giving me those "fuck-me" eyes or anything either.. (like girl#1))..

so i get her phone number.. and ask if she's goin out friday.. and if i could meet up her (i might have said "you guys" though - maybe implying that i want to meet girl#1 out also).. she says "yeah.. i get off work at 9pm.." i'm like "well i won't be home til 8pm from work anyhow".. she's like "oh.. well that works out good then"..

then we went back to the people we were in the bar with originally.. and she leaves about 10 minutes later...


onto girl#3
 
Which one do you go for?

Here's my theory (or my OLD theory since I am currently and will be playing one-on-one)... it's called "The Baseball Team Theory"

On a baseball team, you have NINE (9) players... some, are more important than others... the pitcher... your infield... and so on...
-- apply this to dating... you have 9 available spots on your team... you can move players around to different positions and when you have a full team, your game is on... time to play ball. Of course, sometimes players might not make the cut, and have to get sent down to the farm league for further development... so you can bring up new and hopeful prospects into the "big leagues" for a shot at the "big show"...

I had close to a full team when I met my girl... henceforth, i have cut them all, cancelled all contracts and am happy with my current situation...

The baseball theory has worked well for me through out the years... use it my son... and may the force be with you!

C
 
GIRL #3

ok.. girl #3 is a long shot.. but this one that i go after while simultaneously persuing one of the other two...

girl#3 i didn't see until tuesday at the gym.. this girl is BAD.. i mean bad..

20-22 y/o.. body just kicking.. implants i think.. flat stomach.. nice hair.. wearing a skimpy black leotard type outfit that screams "look at me".. and lifting like a man.. (she had 3plates and a quarter on each side of the leg press and was wrapping her knees).. she's a 10 - body and looks wise anyhow.. she might be dumb as a doornail.. (but who cares)

so anyway.. i was kinda dragging my sets out so that i could offer to help her take the weights of the machine when she was done.. but it got to the point that i was fucking wore out.. and starting to look like i was dragging my sets out to kill time.. so i finally said fuck it and left..

but.. she was giving me some looks while i was there.. not directly.. but when i was lifting.. i could see her out the corner of my eye checking me out..

well.. i'm not real big on hittin on girls in gyms.. really i'm not big on hittin on anyone.. cause i'm kinda shy when it comes down to it... unless of course i'm in a relationship.. and then i find it easy to talk to any woman.. so i'm not gonna hit on her.. but i thought it'd be good if i helped her with her weights.. then just either walked away... or maybe introduced myself and then walked away.. just to break the ice and open up other interactions later.. but it didn't work out that way..

so i talk to the guy who owns the gym the next day and ask what her story is.. he says she young.. goes to ksu.. speaks a few diff languages.. moved here from lebanon or one of those countries.. doesn't think she's seeing anyone.. and doesn't know much else about her.. but he'll introduce me to her next we're both there at same time..
 
the summary and figures

girl#1 - is in the bag if i see her.. she's cool.. we get along good and never have a problem making conversation.. but she has a man and lives an hour away

girl#2 - better looking than girl#1.. little harder to talk to.. more reserved.. may take a while to get in the sack.. dont' know if i want to put forth that much effort.. but if i were "looking" for someone to date.. she'd be the one.. but that's not what i need right now.. but she lives 5 minutes away.. is girl#1's close friend..

girl#3 - a fucking knockout.. a swear.. she's a TEN.. and judging by the outfit she had on.. i think she may take longer to get under the sheets than girl#1.. but will take far less time to "get to know" than girl#2..



ok.. so now what? who do i go after? how do i talk to the girl in the gym? do i ask her out right away or just make casual converation for a few weeks?

what about girl#2.. do i call her today or wait until tomorrow like i said? or do i stop by her work today and ask if she wants to grab a coffee and go study with me at borders.. or go grab a beer?

girl#1.. well this one i kinda just gotta wait and see what happens since i aint got her number.. but i'm sure that girl#2 will tell her that i'm going out on friday and that she'll drive down just to go out and to see me.. which means i get play when i see her.. but the times i see her would be infrequent.. and then i never know if when she does come to see me if she'd just had her mouth on someone else's package and didn't brush her teeth..
 
Here's my thoughts:

Girl #1, if she has a man, is probably not after you to date exclusively. Nothing wrong with that, if that's what you want.

Girl #2 sounds like the best option to me because she sounds like a "nice" girl. BUT, the fact that she's friends with Girl #1 could cause you some headaches. Y'know, that whole dating a friend of a girl I've dated thing.

Girl #3, while hotter than donut grease, is the biggest enigma. You may get to know her and find you can't stand her.

Are you looking for a girl to date, or just to get some? That could change the equation...
 
decem said:

Then go with girl #2. I think she sounds like the best bet, long term.

Or like other guys said: go for 'em all if you want. See who you can get. Just hope it doesn't blow up in your face! :D
 
no really.. i want a few to date.. and few to just get some from...

so............. both..


i'm gonna have to see what happens this weekend.. if old girl comes down from the city and i can't contain myself.. then i'll just have to let girl#2 go..

and either way i'm gonna take my chances with the lebanese girl at the gym..

if i hadn't just got out of a relationship and i was wanting to actually "date" someone... then i'd definitely be going after girl#2.. in a heartbeat.. but i did just get out of one and now i'm gonna screw her friend, ruin my chances with her, and end up regretting it 6 months from now..


damn it. :mad:
 
This was more like Decem a while back. Next thing you know, he gets married and then posts up about how he just doesn't seem to feel emotion about things anymore. Then he starts posting in his current style.

Right or wrong, Decem?
 
casavant said:
This was more like Decem a while back. Next thing you know, he gets married and then posts up about how he just doesn't seem to feel emotion about things anymore. Then he starts posting in his current style.

Right or wrong, Decem?


both.. there's no "constant" in anything.. ESPECIALLY in my moods and behaviors...
 
LiLady11 said:
Yeah, thats what I wanna know Nicole!!

Did you marry any of them?? Which one??

You're the only one who has me on their buddy list. LOL. Just thought I'd let you know. Thanks.:)
 
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