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Whats wrong with Kids nowadays?

something i keep lamenting is that children these days lack empathy for some reason.
 
Arabian said:
http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/03/29/homeless.attack/index.html

This couldnt be a parenting problem, ohhhh nooo.. bs...WTF

If my kids are made to stay with their spermdonor... You'll probably be reading similar headlines only bearing the name(s) of any number of my kids.

Either that or some random board member will post pics of some young girl gone wild that they cut/pasted from utube or myspace or some such place and will be (as I said before) any number of my girls.

I hope to God that I can get to them and parent them properly before they fuck their lives up irrepairably.
 
heatherrae said:
something i keep lamenting is that children these days lack empathy for some reason.

?

It is because they grew up without proper parental guidance and discipline.

Discipline comes from the word disciple.

If there be no one to teach and care for a child then how can anyone be shocked when they grow up to be like that?
 
blueta2 said:
Video games..plain and simple!


okay blueta...you know I love ya but I have to totally disagree with this. My son is 14 and we play video games all the time. He has a huge heart and I just can't ever see him being so cruel like this. NEVER! I don't know what in the hell is going on in these damn kids head....they act like they don't give a shit for human life and could care less of any consequences they may face, or stupid enough to think nothing will happen to them. It can be some of parenting but I think alot is from outside influences...the kids you hang around.
 
ksharp01 said:
okay blueta...you know I love ya but I have to totally disagree with this. My son is 14 and we play video games all the time. He has a huge heart and I just can't ever see him being so cruel like this. NEVER! I don't know what in the hell is going on in these damn kids head....they act like they don't give a shit for human life and could care less of any consequences they may face, or stupid enough to think nothing will happen to them. It can be some of parenting but I think alot is from outside influences...the kids you hang around.


..or lack thereof.

It's not THAT complicated people.
 
ksharp01 said:
okay blueta...you know I love ya but I have to totally disagree with this. My son is 14 and we play video games all the time. He has a huge heart and I just can't ever see him being so cruel like this. NEVER! I don't know what in the hell is going on in these damn kids head....they act like they don't give a shit for human life and could care less of any consequences they may face, or stupid enough to think nothing will happen to them. It can be some of parenting but I think alot is from outside influences...the kids you hang around.

That is because your son is a good soul to begin with. The evil little children, who play these fucked up killing video games, are enthralled with it. They learn to DEVALUE life by playing these games.
You're a good mom and have taught your son to respect. The parents who are shitheads who teach their kids squat, well these are the kids that are influenced by the video games, because the game in their only teacher.
There is NO other explanation for why kids are so violent today! NONE!

by the way, I am turned on when you disagree with me :-)
 
blueta2 said:
That is because your son is a good soul to begin with. The evil little children, who play these fucked up killing video games, are enthralled with it. They learn to DEVALUE life by playing these games.
You're a good mom and have taught your son to respect. The parents who are shitheads who teach their kids squat, well these are the kids that are influenced by the video games, because the game in their only teacher.
There is NO other explanation for why kids are so violent today! NONE!

by the way, I am turned on when you disagree with me :-)

I guess I need to disagree with you more often then lol :kiss:


and yes, I am very proud of my son...he is so protective though. It's sweet. I came home the other day and he told me I should let him take a picture...he knows I hate pictures....I said why? He said, I'm saying you look good today. awww that was so sweet! :qt:
Now, don't get me wrong, he has his moments where I wanna smack him but that's that age
 
BIKINIMOM said:
?

It is because they grew up without proper parental guidance and discipline.

Discipline comes from the word disciple.

If there be no one to teach and care for a child then how can anyone be shocked when they grow up to be like that?
I honestly don't know why. I wish that I did. When we were kids, the girls played mommie with dolls and both boys and girls had pets for which they were responsible. I think those things teach empathy. Maybe not so much discipline as teaching kids the soft side. I think having road rage in front of the kids or otherwise being angry jerks. ???? I really don't know. It perplexes me how someone could just beat a person for nothing and not feel bad for them. I just can't grasp that.
 
Wow, children have to sympathy these days. It is sickening.
I think that the verge to be cool (peer pressure) keeps on attacking children each year at younger ages. Shouldnt these kids be outside with other 10 yr olds playing hop scotch..What the hell were they doing with a 17 year old? That shit would not fly in my house!
 
heatherrae said:
I honestly don't know why. I wish that I did. When we were kids, the girls played mommie with dolls and both boys and girls had pets for which they were responsible. I think those things teach empathy. Maybe not so much discipline as teaching kids the soft side. I think having road rage in front of the kids or otherwise being angry jerks. ???? I really don't know. It perplexes me how someone could just beat a person for nothing and not feel bad for them. I just can't grasp that.

I think that it is a combination of things... the fact that the government is in places where it shouldn't be is one. Another is the fact that it seems that as more and more people become better educated, the less they seem to be able to understand that children need attention and love and guidance and not for mommy and daddy to both work extra just so that they can fill the already overflowing toybox with more plastic junk in addition to their matching BMW's and to be house poor to keep up with the Joneses. TV has become a TOTALLY unacceptable babysitter. Sex, drugs, violence, the internet - so many terrible paths to trip up otherwise good kids because:

THEIR PARENTS ARE EITHER TOO SELF-ABSORBED OR TOO STUPID TO REALIZE THAT THEIR KIDS NEAR ATTENTION FROM THEM.
 
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