What's the fuckin point?

[addickt]

People are seriously fucked up.

Ever completely open yourself up to someone and have them totally turn their backs on you when you needed them?

I seriously dont understand how some people can even call themselves human sometimes.

What is the point of trying to do good in your life, help them and make people happy when they will just fuck you over when the get a chance?

Why love someone if you will just turn your back on them when they need you?

Who the fuck taught people that behavior like this was alright?

How can people be so fucking selfish? I cannot fathom looking into someones eyes that I supposedly love and basically telling them that i dont care that they hurt.

I fuckin hate people

 

[3Vandoo]

I think we know the same people

 

[the nature boy]

well this is going to sound old fashioned but I'd have to say the person who you're referring to wasn't raised right to act that way.

 

[Austin316]

my new motto is fuck the world, fuck everything, evrything can burn in hell, from here on out I want to think about me, and with the excpetion of a few people, only me...Im sick of always being forced to take everything on my shoulders to spare sopmeone else, I think Im going to be done with that

as for life, i could give a shit less if I died, Im not going to kill myself, but I just do not fucking care anymore

 

[rudedawg]

my new motto is fuck the world, fuck everything, evrything can burn in hell, from here on out I want to think about me, and with the excpetion of a few people, only me...Im sick of always being forced to take everything on my shoulders to spare sopmeone else, I think Im going to be done with that

as for life, i could give a shit less if I died, Im not going to kill myself, but I just do not fucking care anymore

Tragic at such a young age.

 

[addickt]

my new motto is fuck the world, fuck everything, evrything can burn in hell, from here on out I want to think about me, and with the excpetion of a few people, only me...Im sick of always being forced to take everything on my shoulders to spare sopmeone else, I think Im going to be done with that

as for life, i could give a shit less if I died, Im not going to kill myself, but I just do not fucking care anymore

AMEN mothafucka.

People are shit..

Why even lie to yourself and pretend that you care if you are just gonna fuck over people that love you.. Save the breath.

I might be fucked up but at least I have a heart.

 

[Austin316]

THere is no point, there really is no point to anything at all, why should I try my ass off to achieve my goals, or get my hopes up about something when I always fail or have it yanked away from me...Why should I even bother anymore

 

[addickt]

well this is going to sound old fashioned but I'd have to say the person who you're referring to wasn't raised right to act that way.

I want to hurt people

 

[addickt]

THere is no point, there really is no point to anything at all, why should I try my ass off to achieve my goals, or get my hopes up about something when I always fail or have it yanked away from me...Why should I even bother anymore

I think if you killed everyone in your state you would feel better.

 

[Austin316]

I want to hurt people

I found myself strming around the mega mall today just waiting for someone to say something to me, one fucking word and I would of lost it....As of 2 weeks Im bacl on AAS if I can control anything in life it WILL BE the physical aspect

 

[OMEGA]

well this is going to sound old fashioned but I'd have to say the person who you're referring to wasn't raised right to act that way.

yep! your right on the mulla

hey nice to see you Nature

 

[addickt]

yep! your right on the mulla

hey nice to see you Nature

Here is the best thing.....

I am bawling on the verge of death because of angst..

Her retort.... "Sorry... I need to be selfish right now"..

NICE.

 

[the nature boy]

OMEGA: How you doing bro?

Addict: How do you know this person?

 

[vinylgroover]

Her retort.... "Sorry... I need to be selfish right now"..

NICE.

That's so outrageous it's almost funny. KILL THE SLUT

 

[addickt]

OMEGA: How you doing bro?

Addict: How do you know this person?

She was supposedly my "best friend"

Fuck it.. I should have known better.

 

[havoc]

Its my opinion that some in this thread are taking the wrong approach. Just understand that others sometimes do not. If a person has treated you improper, in whatever fashion, just learn from it in respects to that you would never want to make another feel what you are feeling. Peoples mistakes help you learn. May a bowl of high grade herb be a part of your day Addickt. peace

 

[havoc]

And I knew this thread was coming sooner or later. peace

 

[addickt]

Ouch.

We've all been there Addickt. It sucks. It hurts. It doesn't go away. It is the WORST.


I have always found that staying busy (going out, gym, friends,vacation) and time are the only things that help.

Thanks KJ..

This is about my only escape right now because mostly I am just seething about opening myself up to such a person.

 

[vinylgroover]

Been there done that. That's why i firmly believe that guys and girls can never really be best mates. A guy can give unconditional friendship, a girl always needs to be the centre of the universe, always needs attention whether it's friendship or in a relationship.

You can be friends, but reserve 'best friend' status for your male mates.

 

[addickt]

And I knew this thread was coming sooner or later. peace

the sad thing is that I did too.... I still couldnt avoid it.

Thanks for the advice guys..

So far what I am gathering from your responses is that i should do drugs and kill people right?


JUST KIDDING..

I will pry do a lot of drugs to forget about it but I am far too lazy to actually kill someone.

 

[addickt]

Been there done that. That's why i firmly believe that guys and girls can never really be best mates. A guy can give unconditional friendship, a girl always needs to be the centre of the universe, always needs attention whether it's friendship or in a relationship.

You can be friends, but reserve 'best friend' status for your male mates.

THAT IS THE FUCKIN TRUTH!

I will never trust another woman like that again.. Women are always looking for "the better deal"

They are tricky little bitches though. They make you believe there bullshit after a while.

 

[Warik]

People are seriously fucked up.

Old news.

Ever completely open yourself up to someone and have them totally turn their backs on you when you needed them?

Yep.

I seriously dont understand how some people can even call themselves human sometimes.

These negative qualities you have mentioned are exactly that which make them human. I'd be more surprised to hear of a nice person calling himself human.

What is the point of trying to do good in your life, help them and make people happy when they will just fuck you over when the get a chance?

Because it's the right thing to do.

You can't be the richest man in the world.
You can't be the best looking man in the world.
You can't be the smartest man in the world.

The one thing you can do is be the man who always does the right thing, which is quite possibly the only thing that in your heart and in your mind can allow you to say with confidence: "I am the superior one. They are beneath me."

Why love someone if you will just turn your back on them when they need you?

Because to not do so would be to deny one's humanity.

Who the fuck taught people that behavior like this was alright?

Not who - what. The 20th century did. All of that stuff on TV and in everyday life that Warik finds disgusting and everyone thinks he's a l0s3r for it is what made everyone think it's acceptable. "Oh, this seems wrong, but it happens on TV all the time and my friends do it, so it must be OK!"

How can people be so fucking selfish? I cannot fathom looking into someones eyes that I supposedly love and basically telling them that i dont care that they hurt.

Then perhaps I've found another like me. The next stage of evolution, perhaps?

I fuckin hate people

Good karma en route.

-Warik

 

[Frackal]

Damn addickt.....you sound JUST like me after the kartchick fiasco...I don't know the whole story so I will reserve judgement but I agree fucking women are crazy as hell.....I know how low you can feel after you get your heart ripped out... fuck it now I'm in a real pissy mood. I'll be back lat4er

 

[HighIntensity]

I posted this before but I feel it is pertinent in regards to your situation.....

This is a little thread for all the fellas out there and also a good read for the ladies. We see it every day in life and read about it daily on Elite daily. The devastation of having a BF/GF leave you, cheat or in some way violate your trust. This leads to a complete loss of security and often depression and irrational thoughts can and will follow. I know this because I have been there, I have sat with my head buried in my hands crying over the loss of a once perfect love.

But it is important to always remember outside of this relationship, you are still a single human being with your own mind and dreams. The worst thing you can do is possibly harm yourself, your future and that loved one that devastated you so badly. Your best chance for a healthy recovery is to forgive that person and attempt to learn and better yourself for future relationships. Neglecting your studies, work or human needs will only hurt you more in the long run. We all must have the ability to find comfort in ourselves and live in happiness regardless if we have a current romantic partner or not.


Sure we all yearn for the days when we were the light in someone else’s eyes, when we could taste another human being daily and go to sleep knowing that we were a fixture in someone else’s dreams. But for whatever reason that person was not the one, and the only way to find love again is to love you. Smile daily and enjoy what life has to offer outside of sex and romance, and I guarantee people will be drawn to your positive vibe and happiness will follow daily.

HI-

 

[spongebob]

yo, addickt. people fuck up, thats reality. i think people have to high of expectations of people sometimes. people make mistakes and for you to demand that they are perfect is kind of selfish on your part IMO. some people just simply cant be the perfect human that everyone else wants them to be. not everyone has the same qualities. you have two choices, forgive or forget, either way learn from it and keep your spirits high. always keep your spirits high.

 

[CrimsonKing]

Amen, High Intensity.. I could not agree with you more....

Addickt.. man, i know you are hurting, that is natural. You need to learn something positive from this experience, put it in perspective, learn to feel comfortable with yourself, not be defined by how someone else feels about you.

While humans are social animals, and we all need positive relationships to flourish, we also need the 'failed' relationships to learn from. You cannot learn anything if everything you endoeavor to do comes to frution.. failure is the best tool for growth. embrace it, learn from it, and grow from it.

Addickt, i wish you well and hope you can put this behind you as soon as possible. in the mean time, realize the sometimes expressiing your frustration and anger only feeds the fire inside and doesn't mean it will solve the issue.. even if you get alot of 'at a boys' from fellow ef members 'feeling your pain'..

peace,

-CK

 

[Austin316]

Alls i know is that I just wnted to fucking WORK OUT tonight but my fucking partner can't so we have to push it till tomorrow and Im not going by myself because Im in too fucking bad a mood to talk to any stranger in there and I want to be able to fucking push myself.....

As for being best friends with a girl, no fucking way can u be someones best friend and let them know everything about you without some minor feelings as a result, can be best of friends but I don't think a guy and a girl can be true "best friends" witghout soemthing like that happening sooner or later

Fuck everything, Im done with this post

 

[CrimsonKing]

austin - i disagree with you my best friend from college was a girl. we NEVER has more than a friendship. It was/is a very close relationship. Sure, we teased each other, but NEVER did we cross the line..

peace,

-ck

 

[Stan O'Zolol]

This is all such bullshit. Enough with the peptalks. No one has an answer for why any person can do this. Some people (and apparently many women from what I see) are just that way. Selfish. The hurt may or may not dull, but will never go away. I would generally agree that if you look happy and fun to be around it will lead to better things. But that is easier said than done. Happiness is hard to fake. All you can do now is survive it, one day at a time.

Good luck bro.

 

[addickt]

yo, addickt. people fuck up, thats reality. i think people have to high of expectations of people sometimes. people make mistakes and for you to demand that they are perfect is kind of selfish on your part IMO. some people just simply cant be the perfect human that everyone else wants them to be. not everyone has the same qualities. you have two choices, forgive or forget, either way learn from it and keep your spirits high. always keep your spirits high.

I dont demand perfection Sponge. I simply expect friends not to lie to me and then turn their backs on me when i need them most.

I cannot forgive people like that.. I will do my best to forget them. I will not forgive though.

 

[Austin316]

when it comes to who you really have in life, Ill quote Godsmack

"I STAND ALONE" its a simple as that, in the end the only person you ever truly have is yourself, if u lose that u are left with complete nothingness

 

[starfish]

What happenned?



Sorry, whatever it was..

 

[spongebob]

I dont demand perfection Sponge. I simply expect friends not to lie to me and then turn their backs on me when i need them most.

I cannot forgive people like that.. I will do my best to forget them. I will not forgive though.

hate to say this but maybe you should expect it, people are not all the same and we all have different faults. and if you cant forgive then forget. just learn from it and dont let it eat at you to long. there are some good people out there.

my first wife ripped my heart out and put it on the george foreman lean mean fat reducing grilling machine. fuck me up, but i turned around and walked away and never looked back. to this day i thank god that dude fucked her cause she is one fucked up bitch now. funny how things work out.

 

[georgie24]

there is little to no hope in this thread...jeez im outta here

 

[fistfullofsteel]

She was supposedly my "best friend"

Fuck it.. I should have known better.

ummm, what's the whole story? we need more info.