Whats proper protocall for a breakup?!

[LiLady11]

As some of you may know, I am single again, for almost a week now... and yet, nothing has changed between him and i besides the lack of titles and sex. We still talk each and every day, kiss, say I love you. Perhaps he is only doing these things to make me happy. He says he doesn't know how to handle the situation. He doesn't want to stop talking to me as a friend, but he also doesn't want to be in a relationship right now because of things going wrong in his life. I'm losing my mind over this!!

And guys, please no comments like, he just wants some ass... spare me and my feelings

 

[68GT350]

Here's some advice from being just broken up. Cut all ties. It's absolutely the most difficult thing but if you are officially single and you two are still fooling around, their will stlil be feelings. So, eventually, because you have NO committment, one of you will find another person. Then, all hell with break loose. The single person will feel betrayed and conflicted because they wanted to be exclusive but they had no committment. It'll just turn ugly. If you two can manage to NOT fool around and that means no sex, no kissing, no LOVE, then you two can remain friends but in most cases, that won't work.

Cut your loses and move on. If you guys are still gonna kiss, fuck, and whisper sweet nothings, make a committment and try again. No half-assed stuff, now. It's just too complicated since you two have history.

 

[danielson]

yeah....boach is on the money

don;t kiss, and say how much u love each other unless its platonic style (pecks and in a friendly way) and even then its way to soon

if he did break up with u because of other stuff in his life it sounds like he may conciously not want u in hat way but unconciously/subconciously he still does, especially if u see each other everyday.....

u know him better than anyone else, i;d go with he's to messed up in the head to know what he wants and needs some growing but if he has some traumatic shit in his life it may be understandable.

either way, cut down your talking with him, maybe just by telling him u still wanna be friends, u still have feelings for him, but if he wants to end it it has to be ended, its unfair to you to behave in that way to you, and tht maybe yu should become more platonic and scale down meeting with one another

if he does wanna break up he'll comply,. if he still wants you he;ll revert back to flirting/kissing etc. and you;d have to judge the type of guy he is to see whether its a 'keeping you on the sweet' move or 'still cares for you'.....only you can tell that

 

[Taps]

Yep, like Boach said...break all contact. It sucks, but it's what ya gotta' do.

 

[HappyScrappy]

if they have any pets, you are gonna need to go ahead and kill them.

also, key the dude's car.

 

[argent]

I say you nned to take some time away from each othe rtotally to really get back on your feet personally. Talking to each other everyday is only going to prolong the painful situation. There are exceptions though.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Clean break heals best. Get over it and do something for yourself.

 

[HighIntensity]

 

[madbomber31]

there is more to it than a clean break... whatever you do, do NOT try and date someone or hook up with someone else to get over him... it will just bite you on the ass (in a bad way) 6 months or a year down the line.. you will end up where you started, trust me...

deal with it, he is no longer yours... allow yourself the time to grieve... cry, hit, scream, LIFT... whatever you gotta do to get him out of your system... for each day he is in your life he's still in your heart far too much.... let go and then suddenly one day all will be well and you wont even know when or how it got better...

 

[ROLGOR]

People are often afraid to let go of the familiar. It's common to prolong the agony in an effort to lessen the pain. I have remained friends with a lot of my ex's but only after a good bit of time apart to allow the healing to begin. Best wishes.