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StickFigure

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Newly seperated and soon to be divorced, I am absolutley frazzled. So far my soon to be ex isn't asking for much in the way of money so I have somewhat of an abundance of money to play with.

What would you do if you were in my shoes:

Vacation
Spoil myself with gifts
Join a gym
???????
 
join a gym. global gym
 
StickFigure said:
Newly seperated and soon to be divorced, I am absolutley frazzled. So far my soon to be ex isn't asking for much in the way of money so I have somewhat of an abundance of money to play with.

What would you do if you were in my shoes:

Vacation
Spoil myself with gifts
Join a gym
???????

Just my .02

But I'd take that abundance and save it. Even though she isn't asking doesn't mean she isn't needing (I did the same thing with my X) I only took what was needed for my kids... But for the most part, I do the providing.

Don't go nuts just yet... Women get all wacky sometimes (though I never even after a year asked for anything) she may.. LOL

But if you MUST do something go and spoil yourself with a gym membership. Something that will be rewarding in the end.
 
StickFigure said:
Newly seperated and soon to be divorced, I am absolutley frazzled. So far my soon to be ex isn't asking for much in the way of money so I have somewhat of an abundance of money to play with.

What would you do if you were in my shoes:

Vacation
Spoil myself with gifts
Join a gym
???????

You don't have a gym membership?

Where do you workout, homegym?

I think you should spend alot of it on stocking up on gear.

Seriously, nugga......that way you are the master of your own cycles and can determine when and how much and how long and not be constricted by money or supply.




DIV
 
Frisky said:
Just my .02

But I'd take that abundance and save it. Even though she isn't asking doesn't mean she isn't needing (I did the same thing with my X) I only took what was needed for my kids... But for the most part, I do the providing.

Don't go nuts just yet... Women get all wacky sometimes (though I never even after a year asked for anything) she may.. LOL

But if you MUST do something go and spoil yourself with a gym membership. Something that will be rewarding in the end.

I'm not planning on blowing every penny. I've learned a few financial lessons in the last 34 years but I would like to play a bit.

I know there's always the possibility she'll hit me with child support and allimony payments and I will do what's necessary to make sure my kids are taken care of, but she is the type of woman who has the attitude of, "I can take care of myself, I am woman hear me roar, I don't need you or your money!" And I'm not trying to be a cold hearted ass when I say that, it's really the way it is.

I'm thinking about buying a new motorcycle. She never agreed with me having on 'cause it was too "dangerous"
 
StickFigure said:
I'm not planning on blowing every penny. I've learned a few financial lessons in the last 34 years but I would like to play a bit.

I know there's always the possibility she'll hit me with child support and allimony payments and I will do what's necessary to make sure my kids are taken care of, but she is the type of woman who has the attitude of, "I can take care of myself, I am woman hear me roar, I don't need you or your money!" And I'm not trying to be a cold hearted ass when I say that, it's really the way it is.

I'm thinking about buying a new motorcycle. She never agreed with me having on 'cause it was too "dangerous"

Well then make the Check out to "Frisky" :qt:

I'm sorry to hear things didn't work darlin.. Its a hard thing to deal with. Still a year later the waters haven't completely settled on my end. The best of luck to you..

And I want pics of that Bike ;)
 
DIVISION said:
You don't have a gym membership?

Where do you workout, homegym?

I think you should spend alot of it on stocking up on gear.

Seriously, nugga......that way you are the master of your own cycles and can determine when and how much and how long and not be constricted by money or supply.




DIV

I manage a high end fitness equipment store so really I have just about everything I need right here, but I miss the gym atmosphere. Plus I already spend 6 days a week 10-12 hours a day here, so I have a tendency to get burned out being here all the time.

And as far as the gear, I have already taken that into account. It's time to go FREAK-A-ZOID!!
 
StickFigure said:
Maybe if I get it I'll ride down there and give you a ride instead. ;)

;)

Sounds like a plan! Bring an extra helmet.. my damn X took mine...... grrr!
 
nycgirl said:
Open up an account overseas. She may decide to come after it when PMS hits.

LOL! Funny you should say that. I already have some contingency plans to "disappear" if it comes to that.
 
StickFigure said:
And as far as the gear, I have already taken that into account. It's time to go FREAK-A-ZOID!!

Do it, nugga!

DO IT!!!!!



Can you hook me up with a dip bar?



DIV
 
StickFigure said:
We only carry full sizr dip machines or combo pieces like vertical knee raise/chin/dip stations.

OU...

do ya'll carry acessories..? I need an assortment of bars for my new 'Gym Frisky' ;)
 
StickFigure said:
We only carry full sizr dip machines or combo pieces like vertical knee raise/chin/dip stations.

I see.......

I still think you should stock up on gear.....for your own good.




DIV
 
StickFigure said:
Thanks. Like I said I want to have some fun but I am prepared for the worst.


Eh StickNugga.....

I don't mean to sound insensitive, but is this your 2nd or 3rd marriage?

Is it the women you choose or just bad luck?



DIV
 
DIVISION said:
Eh StickNugga.....

I don't mean to sound insensitive, but is this your 2nd or 3rd marriage?

Is it the women you choose or just bad luck?



DIV

This was my second. My first was a mistake that lasted about 8 months. I was right out of high school, headed off to Basic Training. I hooked up with an ex-girlfriend and got laid for the first time. Mistake was I took the feelings from losing my virginity for love and asked her to marry me. :rolleyes:

As far as if it's the women or bad luck or me, it's too long of a story to tell for anyone to determine that.
 
Hire 3 Doo-wop girls (you know the ones that sing in the background on albums) to follow you around all day about 3 steps behind you. Everytime you say something, they chime in with "Doooowaaahhh" or some equally backup-singer-cooing-sound.

"Give me a bacon double cheesburger." (Doooowahhhh)
"Got change for a 50?" (Dooooooowahhhhh)
"Hey Bob! You seen the Stevens file?" (Doooowahhhhh)


etc.

That would be so cool!
 
Griz1 said:
Hire 3 Doo-wop girls (you know the ones that sing in the background on albums) to follow you around all day about 3 steps behind you. Everytime you say something, they chime in with "Doooowaaahhh" or some equally backup-singer-cooing-sound.

"Give me a bacon double cheesburger." (Doooowahhhh)
"Got change for a 50?" (Dooooooowahhhhh)
"Hey Bob! You seen the Stevens file?" (Doooowahhhhh)


etc.

That would be so cool!

Yeah! That would be kick ass! Especially while I bangin' a chic and every time I said, "Who's yer daddy?!?!" They'd chime in withthe Dooooowahhh!!
 
USMC fighter said:
get about a thousand bucks all in singles, about a half ounce of cocaine and head for the nearest titty bar lol jk

Been there, done that when I was in my early 20's. But thanks.
 
Start by setting a new home for yourself, move your stuff, use some of your money to take a holiday and open up a savings account for your children.

:rose:
 
EnderJE said:
Are you happy about it or still a little sad? I would go on a vacation and hire a bunch of hookers.

No, I'm not happy about it at all. But in a way I feel a sort of relief. Probably because she has been hanging this threat over my head for the last year. But every time I think about my kids the pain is brutal!
 
_HERA_ said:
Start by setting a new home for yourself, move your stuff, use some of your money to take a holiday and open up a savings account for your children.

:rose:

Working on a place to live, don't have much to move, will most likley take a vacation and the kids are already well taken care of.

But where should I vacation?

Hawaii
Vegas
Florida
Bahamas
??????
 
StickFigure said:
Working on a place to live, don't have much to move, will most likley take a vacation and the kids are already well taken care of.

But where should I vacation?

Hawaii
Vegas
Florida
Bahamas
??????

I think it's painfully obvious what you should do.

Take a vacation to Australia to visit a certain someone and show her a good time......or let her show you a good time.




DIV
 
DIVISION said:
I think it's painfully obvious what you should do.

Take a vacation to Australia to visit a certain someone and show her a good time......or let her show you a good time.




DIV

I think I probably need an invite first. She's been avoiding me latley.
 
StickFigure said:
I think I probably need an invite first. She's been avoiding me latley.

Look, bromayne.

If I was in your situation I'd just go right out and ask her.

Be real with her, she's human and she's reasonable.

As long as you don't place demands over her head she won't feel uncomfortable with the situation.

Communication is key.





DIV
 
DIVISION said:
Look, bromayne.

If I was in your situation I'd just go right out and ask her.

Be real with her, she's human and she's reasonable.

As long as you don't place demands over her head she won't feel uncomfortable with the situation.

Communication is key.





DIV

I've tried to be real but for some reason she thinks I'm an alter and doesn't know how to take my honesty.
 
StickFigure said:
I've tried to be real but for some reason she thinks I'm an alter and doesn't know how to take my honesty.

Would you like me to intervene on your behalf?



DIV
 
StickFigure said:
Nah. But I appreciate the offer nugga. If she can't take my word for it I guess it what it is.

She trusts me.......there's a good chance that I can set things up for you.




DIV
 
DIVISION said:
She trusts me.......there's a good chance that I can set things up for you.




DIV

Thanks, but I've always been about working for myself. Even back in grade school, while most everyone I knew was passing notes or asking someone else to hook 'em with so & so, I was hittin' 'em straight up. I didn't tap dance then and I don't now.
 
StickFigure said:
Thanks, but I've always been about working for myself. Even back in grade school, while most everyone I knew was passing notes or asking someone else to hook 'em with so & so, I was hittin' 'em straight up. I didn't tap dance then and I don't now.

Fair enough, just tryin' to help.



DIV
 
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