What would you do

[nuh_mizer]

So I'm down in mex doing a buddy (we'll refer to him as dickhead) a favor last weekend. When I get back home, I see dickhead at the gym yesterday and he's working out with my most recent ex-girlfriend. I confront him about it and he says "that doen't bug you does it?". What dickhead's not telling me is they've been "hanging out" for some time behind my back. So while I'm doing him favors, he's doinkin my ex. I've always felt that ex-gf's are off limits. I never mess with my friends ex-gf's. I got pissed off at him and told him to fuck off. Am I wrong? Her and I are over and all but it's only been about 2 months. I know she is doing it just to get under my skin.

Sorry this is off topic.

 

[can i drink winny?]

imo, he broke the unwritten rule.

 

[gilly6993]

fuck 'em....tell him to get his shit somewhere else

 

[Boulder257]

there are plenty of women out their but few true friends. Like winny said, he broke the unspoken rule. If he is willing to do that, how do you know he won't screw you over in other ways, especially if you are doing him favors in mex. Get rid of him.

 

[THEEGAME2544]

Ex's are a touchy subject. But from experience let me tell you that I lost the best friend I ever had do to a similar situation. Even though ex's should be off limits with friends, you can't ignore the fact that a lot of guys think with their smaller head before their big one. Most guys will say that "well if he did that he truelly isn't a friend" But go back to the previous statement about thinking with the small head and not the big one. Getting with a friend's ex is not a nice thing to do, but if you've got a good friendship with this guy, meaning a good friend and not some acquiantance, don't let this girl ruin it. Everyone has to try things out for themselves.....he'll come around eventually and realize that it was not a good thing to do. My friend came around and appologized to me later on, but that was too little too late as our friendship had already drifted far apart. But think about it, it's your call.......I know this is the opposite of what most will say, but it's from my experience.

 

[Ganryu]

there are plenty of women out their but few true friends. Like winny said, he broke the unspoken rule. If he is willing to do that, how do you know he won't screw you over in other ways, especially if you are doing him favors in mex. Get rid of him.

Couldn't agree more on all counts.

 

[nuh_mizer]

Thanks for the validation guys. Like Boulder said, he might screw me over in other ways. I'm sure it's not his intention to screw me over, he just broke up with his ex about 3 months ago and he's looking for attention and she's playing it. Perfect opportunity for my ex to get under my skin. I've still got his "presents" and I feel like smashing them in front of him. I know that she knows it pisses me off and I'm sure she's laughing about it. I don't want her back anymore, but it still pisses me off.

 

[satchboogie]

pretty fucked up.. although i believe that its all fair game.

i mean.. if they have good chemistry and wanna spend time together whats the big deal?

you're over her, right?
clean and mutual break up?

 

[nuh_mizer]

i mean.. if they have good chemistry and wanna spend time together whats the big deal?
I think she's just using him.


you're over her, right?

We were going to get married.


clean and mutual break up?

Not really.

 

[Boulder257]

the last few questions don't matter. How many women are out there??? A friend should be able to pass up a piece because his friendship means more to him. I don't care what head your thinking with: A friend's ex is OFF LIMITS!

 

[T-Biggs]

No your not wrong ex-girls are off limits..........unless you gave him or he asked for approval.
He is not to much of a friend to do something like that behind your back a true friend would have come right out and said it.

Friends last forever.........bitches come and go-he should know this!!!

 

[satchboogie]

i guess that sucks then.. and your buddy is a scumbag.

 

[Ganryu]

Friends last forever.........bitches come and go-he should know this!!!

How is it that some people just don't get this? Isn't this common sense when it comes to friends? I guess I have been very fortunate with some of the friends I have made.

 

[THEEGAME2544]

Were going to get married???? EEK Yeah, I guess that is off limits.....If it was that serious, ignore my last answer.

 

[liftsiron]

So I'm down in mex doing a buddy (we'll refer to him as dickhead) a favor last weekend. When I get back home, I see dickhead at the gym yesterday and he's working out with my most recent ex-girlfriend. I confront him about it and he says "that doen't bug you does it?". What dickhead's not telling me is they've been "hanging out" for some time behind my back. So while I'm doing him favors, he's doinkin my ex. I've always felt that ex-gf's are off limits. I never mess with my friends ex-gf's. I got pissed off at him and told him to fuck off. Am I wrong? Her and I are over and all but it's only been about 2 months. I know she is doing it just to get under my skin.

Sorry this is off topic.

You did say EX so it shouldn't bother you. Although I would be a little pissed myself, screw his mother and see how he likes it.

 

[BigB_79]

A true friend would know that would bother you and should have more respect for you than that. This just shows that he doesn't respect you. I wont tolerate a friend unless they show me some respect. Whatever you got for him in mexico, either overcharge the shit out of him or keep it for yourself and tell him to fuck off.