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What would you do if your children...

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...were caught shoplifting?

I saw a couple of 12/13 yr old kids (maybe younger) Shoplifting..

It occured to me what I would do if they were my kids...

What would you do...???
 
digimon7068 said:
we believe in corporal punishment in our house. . .


Exactly what would've happened to me...

HumanTarget... Whip? Not that harsh mister! :)
 
A few options I'd consider:
1. Beat his ass
2. Make him do community service of some kind, maybe work for free at the place he stole from if at all possible
3. Stand on the corner of Georgia and 16th St with a billboard attached to him saying I'M A THIEF.
4. Ground him until his next birthday.
5. Beat his ass
 
My 5 yr old took something the other day.....I took her right back in there and give it to them and tell them she was sorry....don;t think it will happen again
 
See if the cops would put them in a real prison for a weekend. Then pay the people in their Cell to scare the living shit out of them if the cops would.
 
Ilk said:
...were caught shoplifting?

I saw a couple of 12/13 yr old kids (maybe younger) Shoplifting..

It occured to me what I would do if they were my kids...

What would you do...???



I guess they could be having sex and getting pregnant. So easy nowadays. I still would be deeply disappointed if they were shoplifting.
 
Gymgurl said:
My 5 yr old took something the other day.....I took her right back in there and give it to them and tell them she was sorry....don;t think it will happen again
nice. public humiliation. should opted for the more christian like asswhipping. a nice, thin Pierre Cardin belt would suffice....
 
I remember one time my parents caught me stealing something and they marched me back in the store to explain return it and appologize to the cashier. That sucked and cured me of that little bad habbit.
 
Smurfy said:
A few options I'd consider:
1. Beat his ass
2. Make him do community service of some kind, maybe work for free at the place he stole from if at all possible
3. Stand on the corner of Georgia and 16th St with a billboard attached to him saying I'M A THIEF.
4. Ground him until his next birthday.
5. Beat his ass
Hey, I like the way you think.
 
Gymgurl said:
My 5 yr old took something the other day.....I took her right back in there and give it to them and tell them she was sorry....don;t think it will happen again

That's what I was gonna say, I would hope the humiliation would prevent him from doing it agian. He knows and was brought up to believe that there is nothing worst than a liar, a cheater or a theif. All of which are unacceptable.
 
I would
1- make him/her return it to the store and apolojize
2-make him/her work for it! Maybe taking out store garbage or mopping floors.
3-kick the shit out of him/her
4-Have him/her spend day inside of a correctional facility
5-make him/her write a 10 page essay on why it was wrong
6-groundation and removal of television and video games
and finally
7- Kick his/her ass some more!
 
Angel said:
I would
1- make him/her return it to the store and apolojize
2-make him/her work for it! Maybe taking out store garbage or mopping floors.
3-kick the shit out of him/her
4-Have him/her spend day inside of a correctional facility
5-make him/her write a 10 page essay on why it was wrong
6-groundation and removal of television and video games
and finally
7- Kick his/her ass some more!
fucking aye. Chillax...
 
Gymgurl said:
My 5 yr old took something the other day.....I took her right back in there and give it to them and tell them she was sorry....don;t think it will happen again


GG... I can imagine you doing that! :heart:
 
HumorMe said:
I guess they could be having sex and getting pregnant. So easy nowadays. I still would be deeply disappointed if they were shoplifting.

True!

You should see the 11/12yr old girls here... Its crazy.. I didn't even know what sex was then!
 
I believe as a young person we all have the desire to do thing that are not quite right. Its something that we know is wrong yet we still do it... As we mature and grow mentally we know that taking what is not ours is wrong and that a damn 4.00 item isn't worth the hassle.

Now some of us get it and some of us don't

I would hope my son and daughter don't do such a thing, and I pray that I've raised them to know that if they desire something then either A. They work for it... or at least B. They ask me to help them.

I wasn't given the same growing up, and I have done my fair share of taking what I want when I want in my young teenage years.... Ok( I did it maybe twice, lol... im a pussy) We all do things that we regret, and try to make it better for our children.
 
Frisky said:
I believe as a young person we all have the desire to do thing that are not quite right. Its something that we know is wrong yet we still do it... As we mature and grow mentally we know that taking what is not ours is wrong and that a damn 4.00 item isn't worth the hassle.

Now some of us get it and some of us don't

I would hope my son and daughter don't do such a thing, and I pray that I've raised them to know that if they desire something then either A. They work for it... or at least B. They ask me to help them.

I wasn't given the same growing up, and I have done my fair share of taking what I want when I want in my young teenage years.... Ok( I did it maybe twice, lol... im a pussy) We all do things that we regret, and try to make it better for our children.


When I saw these kids taking stuff.. All I thought about was.. Hey Parents! But the kids just laughed and whispered to each other to take more etc.. And they did.. I would've done whhat GG did... Embarrass them!
 
Ilk said:
When I saw these kids taking stuff.. All I thought about was.. Hey Parents! But the kids just laughed and whispered to each other to take more etc.. And they did.. I would've done whhat GG did... Embarrass them!


If I witnessed such, I would have gone up to them, told them what I did see.. then scared the hell out of them, and asked them if really... does that damn tootsie roll mean that much to you? Now, what do you suggest we do right now, return the merchandise or walk out the store... because if you do then there will be security on your ass. Is it worth it... YES ....... NO.... You Think you can outrun security? LOOOK>................ a video camera right there to the right of you, dood... you are busted. take it out of your pocket and walk away, walk away while you can.

LOL
 
I think for some though it isn't always about up bringing. I remember being scared to death of my dad..he once beat my ass with a cut piece of 2x4. Bruises for days and friend even had child enforcement come to my school, but nother story, and I yet still managed to get myself into trouble. I grew up in an apartment complex and all the kids where older than me it I was always feeling like I had to prove myself to fit in. I did the things they did and finally got caught stealing candy and I remember being so embarrased and ashamed of MYSELF that it never happened agian.

Glad most of you don't personally know me because other wise I may not have told this story.
 
Frisky said:
If I witnessed such, I would have gone up to them, told them what I did see.. then scared the hell out of them, and asked them if really... does that damn tootsie roll mean that much to you? Now, what do you suggest we do right now, return the merchandise or walk out the store... because if you do then there will be security on your ass. Is it worth it... YES ....... NO.... You Think you can outrun security? LOOOK>................ a video camera right there to the right of you, dood... you are busted. take it out of your pocket and walk away, walk away while you can.

LOL


LOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!! Well before I went into the supermarket.. They asked me if I could buy them alcohol.. I said "NO, You're too young" He asked me for ÂŁ1, I said NO...

They saw me looking at them taking stuff.... They didn't really care.. I smelt of smoke, Clothing was awful.. I felt for them. Cos its the parents fault IMO! School day, they're walking around being pest's! Noone else to blame apart from who they belong to...
 
Ilk said:
LOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!! Well before I went into the supermarket.. They asked me if I could buy them alcohol.. I said "NO, You're too young" He asked me for ÂŁ1, I said NO...

They saw me looking at them taking stuff.... They didn't really care.. I smelt of smoke, Clothing was awful.. I felt for them. Cos its the parents fault IMO! School day, they're walking around being pest's! Noone else to blame apart from who they belong to...

Honestly, parenting (unless you haven't been there ) is not so damn easy. Kids are devious and lie and cheat and steal, Right to your face sometimes. No matter how you INTEND to bring them up, society can sometimes over rule your rules. Its not an easy thing. I've been friends with a few gals that had great Church going parents, very strict but gave her just enough rope to hang herself ..... and of course she did. It wasn't about how they raised her, because she was taught proper... but about rebelling against what they wanted and doing the total opposite.

Now, these were parents I would have died for, she had everything she desired, they loved her and she never did without. Still, she lied over and over to them. They trusted her and she betrayed that. I don't blame them for that a all.
 
Frisky said:
Honestly, parenting (unless you haven't been there ) is not so damn easy. Kids are devious and lie and cheat and steal, Right to your face sometimes. No matter how you INTEND to bring them up, society can sometimes over rule your rules. Its not an easy thing. I've been friends with a few gals that had great Church going parents, very strict but gave her just enough rope to hang herself ..... and of course she did. It wasn't about how they raised her, because she was taught proper... but about rebelling against what they wanted and doing the total opposite.

Now, these were parents I would have died for, she had everything she desired, they loved her and she never did without. Still, she lied over and over to them. They trusted her and she betrayed that. I don't blame them for that a all.

I agree with you there.. Thats abit too full on... Mine are like my best friends.. they were so strict but I didn't betray them in any way... If I wanted something.. they'd know.. We always got amazing rewards for being respectful.. But times have changed now..

The way yr child reacted to that rude biach was total respect.. You did the right thing in that situation...

Respect for that... Everyone learns from mistakes.. Life huh!

:heart: YOU!!!
 
Smurfy said:
A few options I'd consider:
1. Beat his ass
2. Make him do community service of some kind, maybe work for free at the place he stole from if at all possible
3. Stand on the corner of Georgia and 16th St with a billboard attached to him saying I'M A THIEF.
4. Ground him until his next birthday.
5. Beat his ass
I concur, perfect punishment plan. :D
 
id make it seem like someone stole something very important to them,and then see how they like it. after about a month id tell them I hide it to teach them a lesson
 
Frisky said:
Honestly, parenting (unless you haven't been there ) is not so damn easy. Kids are devious and lie and cheat and steal, Right to your face sometimes. No matter how you INTEND to bring them up, society can sometimes over rule your rules. Its not an easy thing. I've been friends with a few gals that had great Church going parents, very strict but gave her just enough rope to hang herself ..... and of course she did. It wasn't about how they raised her, because she was taught proper... but about rebelling against what they wanted and doing the total opposite.

Now, these were parents I would have died for, she had everything she desired, they loved her and she never did without. Still, she lied over and over to them. They trusted her and she betrayed that. I don't blame them for that a all.


Good post Frisky, I TOTALLY agree with you. Being a good responsible parent, and doing a respectful job of raising your kids to be considerate, upstanding and respectful AT home, gives no guarantee to what they will do away from you, or away from home. In most cases I do believe the impact a parent has on their kids will carry over, but when kids are put into certain social situations with other kids... you betcha, they WILL fuck up at one time or another. Kids test limits, themselves, eachother and they will test their parents often. Usually the good kids have a conciousness of wrong doing and wont last long, but they do go thru phases.
 
i got caught stealing my neighbors car and then at target when i was 15, cops drove me home from the station and uncuffed me right in front of my place and neighbors it was embarrassing, reason i stole when i as younger cuz i liked the rush i got from it have the shit i stole was useless to me
 
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