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What is attractive...???

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I was out with a friend at a club the other night having a good time and we were up stairs looking down on other people. She commented on how hot this one chick was and that she had really nice breasts.

I made the comment that I didn't really find her attractive all that much. She looked at me like I was crazy and asked me to explain...

I don't find women attractive. I don't find men attractive in the least!!!! I just look at a woman and don't find them attractive to me. I have never looked at a woman in person and said how hot she was or that I'd like to have sex with her or touch her anything... I just don't feel attracted, especially not sexually, attracted to women.

I have never fell for a woman unless I knew her first...knew her as a person. I have never fell DEEP for a woman till I knew her for a long time. My friend looked at me very strange when I told her all of this and said that I was very strange. I guess that I'd take away that part of me if I could...

Anyone else feel this way and want to change it...?

B True
 
Your a sexual...it is common amongst worms and other monotublar invertabrates yet you are the first human I have ever heard of with the condition. U need to get sexed up by a wild Aardvark or Llama.
 
Why would you want to change that about yourself?? I think that is being honest...You take the time to get to know someone for WHO they are on the inside, not what they look like. I think that is a great characteristic to have this day and age.

Just because someone may be attractive on the outside doesnt mean that they are a good person. You can have the hottest body and the prettiest face and your personality can make you look so ugly.
You are a very lucky person if you find someone in this world who is attractive INSIDE and OUT :D
 
No offense but your post sounds like you are homosexual. This is not a flame. Since I don't think this is true I would be a little clearer in your statements.
 
yes.. I understand.. it is called seeing through them. It is somthing most men cannot do.. they get caught in to the nice tits and all that crap. Then they fall for a demon.. soon she has all she wants and breaks their heart.

You have mastered the first step to success!!!

Now what you need to do.. is make them fall in love with you.. then rip their hearts out and brag to the male population on how you are paying them back for all they have done to us.
 
b fold the truth said:
Anyone else feel this way and want to change it...?
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I am the exact opposite. I want to jump every female that is under 150 lbs, younger than 50 and has at least 6 fingers and 1 leg.
 
Crazy shit, B-fold. Considering your ability to gain muscle, you must have quite healthy test levels, which makes it even stranger that you don't see some tight-bodied chick walking down the street and want to bend her over the hood of the nearest car, give 'er the hard cack, then wipe your dick on the nearest tree and leave. Puzzling indeed.
 
dballer said:
yes.. I understand.. it is called seeing through them. It is somthing most men cannot do.. they get caught in to the nice tits and all that crap. Then they fall for a demon.. soon she has all she wants and breaks their heart.
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True, but there's a difference between falling for a gorgeous chick and just wanting to give her the deep dick.
 
I am not gay at all. Never even considered it...ever. Maybe I am just really picky...or maybe I just know that the one thing that really makes someone special is what they have inside...

B True
 
b fold the truth said:
... or maybe I just know that the one thing that really makes someone special is what they have inside...

B True
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Holy hell, B. That is seriously one of the most profound things I have ever heard.

If only more people were like you.

Hell, if only I were like you, I'd be happy.
 
b fold the truth said:
I am not gay at all. Never even considered it...ever. Maybe I am just really picky...or maybe I just know that the one thing that really makes someone special is what they have inside...

B True
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True, but 200 pounds of varicose-veined lard can negate a lot of goodness.:worried:
 
now fold - you called me a sexy bitch - was that to just get a cheap feel??


my 2 cents:

Intelligence and humor are the two biggest turn-ons for me....now add in the ability and taste to drink a beer from a bottle , wear a baseball cap, and hang with the guys, and someone who finds delight in the most trivial(to others) things...


now THAT is a kick-ass woman
 
b fold the truth said:
I am not gay at all. Never even considered it...ever. Maybe I am just really picky...or maybe I just know that the one thing that really makes someone special is what they have inside...

B True
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I think what you are refering to is "maturity". Your thoughts about finding someone attractive or not is from your heart and I know your heart is as big as Texas if not bigger. Listen to what alphaxi said. She hit right on the head. If more people could be like you, this world would be so much more tolerable.

Thanks for your insight. Maybe some people will learn from it! :)
 
OK, and there are some wonderful, big-hearted (probably literally) women out there who go 300+. I don't see any of them with you guys.
 
casavant said:
OK, and there are some wonderful, big-hearted (probably literally) women out there who go 300+. I don't see any of them with you guys.
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Mine came in a 90 lb package!:p

She's now 98 lbs. after 2 kids. She says she is fat but I keep telling her she is not. My right leg is bigger than she is. :FRlol:
 
I just keep my heart very well hidden...very well hidden. Most people never get to see the real me...not the one that is buried deep inside of me. I protect those feelings and emotions because they are the most dear things that I have...they are actually the ONLY things that I have that can NOT be taken away from me.

I do not share those things with anyone because there are so few genuine people out there in the world. I guess that I have always been so afraid of being hurt that I keep those feelings hidden so deep that people never see them.

I really could care less if a woman is drop dead beautufil...if she doesn't have a heart as pure as gold...what should I waste my time for? I guess that I just see most women that way...MOST...

B True
 
LooksmatterLooksmatterLooksmatterLooksmatterLooksmatterLooksmatterLooksmatterLooksmatterLooksmatterLooksmatter.

:D :)
 
velvett said:
Ya'll just totally missed the point.

B fold...

There's no reason to change.
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Why not?

B True
 
When you are yourself and people don't understand you...it doesn't make you feel much better...just like the strange one...

B True
 
I don't think GAY you're at all. You just seem to have a very low sex drive. I don't really understand how you NEVER looked at a woman and just wanted to do all kinds of un-Godly things to her lol.
 
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I do not have a low sex drive. When I am near someone whom I love...it is very different. The way that I feel about them changes the way that I feel about everything.

I just feel the need to change...to fit in a little more...to be accepted.

B True
 
Fold - why would you want to live up to an "ideal" that soemone else has of you?
 
b fold the truth said:
I am not gay at all. Never even considered it...ever. Maybe I am just really picky...or maybe I just know that the one thing that really makes someone special is what they have inside...

B True
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I know you are not gay. I was pointing out your statements are misleading....kinda cloudy. You are a handsome man and i am sure you will make the lady you fall in love with very lucky.
 
bfold, my wife is the same way. She swears the only man she finds sexually attractive is me. I simply don't understand it, but I love it all the same.

BTW, nice avatar big guy.
 
b fold the truth said:
I really could care less if a woman is drop dead beautufil...if she doesn't have a heart as pure as gold...what should I waste my time for?
B True
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But what if she is butt ugly physically? Butt ugly, but a heart of gold? Would you still be attracted?
 
BFOLD----

your feelings...............are YOUR feelings!!!! that's the way you are wired inside. don't change yourself for anyone, be true to YOU!!!

your words cudda come from my own mind and heart. there is NOTHING wrong with wanting to get to know someone before u boink them.

just like you, if i can't feel it in my heart for someone, it's not going to happen for me .....down below.

there are plenty of guys in this world that share our wiew point, and girls that respect and admire us for it.

keep the faith, brother!!!!!!
 
Pink Space Biscuit said:
Plus what girl wouldn't want a guy that is totally into her and only her.
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seems we run into them.. then they fuck us over...
 
What you are describing brings a few words to mind:
Substance
Character
Soul
Seems to me that perhaps you are just more evolved that most of the species. Meaningless sex causes a good number of problems, be glad you have escaped the temptation.
 
I'm new here and since I've been here I've noticed that you (B) are wholesome and your siggy says it all - B True. Goodness gracious, don't change!! :D

My hubby is very much like you and I can relate to what you're saying. At some point in our lives we focus on what's important to ourselves and we know what we want in a relationship... Doesn't make you're odd at all..just means you're focused or it's not your thing..or it could be how you're raised..or maybe you're just all grown up. :) Whatever the reason, don't change and don't feel odd. You shouldn't have to apologize for feeling the way you do and having your values. Personally, I could never get involved with someone who would want to hump every girl in sight. LOL

Perhaps this can spill into your training. You're focused and intense - make it work to your advantage.
 
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spatts said:
PSB, I agree. I'm turned off by guys that are "codependent." Go out with your friends, go train, get a hobby....it's healthy.
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I agree with that. I want a guy that can go do his own thing, but you really can't mind someone that thinks you are the shit.

If it got stalker, can't live with you, restraining order crazy, well that's a different story.
 
I once heard a guy say, " If I could find a women who would
watch The Three Stooges and eat viana sausages out of a can
I would marry her."
Is this what your waiting on...??? J?K

You sound like a man who wants more than looks..
You want someone to love the real you; just like
you want someone who is real that you can love.

Pamela
 
Pamela said:
I once heard a guy say, " If I could find a women who would
watch The Three Stooges and eat viana sausages out of a can
I would marry her."
Is this what your waiting on...??? J?K

You sound like a man who wants more than looks..
You want someone to love the real you; just like
you want someone who is real that you can love.

Pamela
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Isn't that what everyone wants??? Someone with more than looks, to love the real you, and someone who is real...

I like women who like beer, sleeping in on occasion, eating pizza, all kinds of music, getting dirty, laughing, playing around, likes my family, loves dogs (especially mine), respects what I do in life (school and strongman), and gives me moral support...

Isn't that what most people want?

B True
 
Also, I think that someone also pointed out that I am talking about making love and not sex...maybe you are right. I do not think that I could ever have sex...but could make love. I have many inhibitions about my body but with the right person I have all the confidence in the world...
 
Just be who you are. You can't be someone you're not, nor can you expect someone else to be someone they are not. When you start trying to be someone you're not, the relationship is over before it gets a chance to start. Maybe you will get hurt or misunderstood along the way, but eventually you find the one person that accepts you and understands you. That makes up for a lot of pain.
 
b fold the truth said:


Isn't that what everyone wants??? Someone with more than looks, to love the real you, and someone who is real...

B True
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Yeah man. All I want is someone that will respect and understand every aspect of my life and myself. Wouldn't hurt to love me too.
 
Aha, this guy is one of those girl´s best friends, the perfect guy, "if every guy was like him..."; OF COURSE, HE DOESN´T GET ANY, SO HE FEELS THE NEED TO BEHAVE DIFFERENTLY FROM THE OTHER GUYS, ALTHOUGH HE´S JUST THE SAME, BUT JUST WITH A DIFFERENT STRATEGY!!!
 
The Varnsen said:
Aha, this guy is one of those girl´s best friends, the perfect guy, "if every guy was like him..."; OF COURSE, HE DOESN´T GET ANY, SO HE FEELS THE NEED TO BEHAVE DIFFERENTLY FROM THE OTHER GUYS, ALTHOUGH HE´S JUST THE SAME, BUT JUST WITH A DIFFERENT STRATEGY!!!
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Maybe...maybe not.

B True
 
The Varnsen said:
Aha, this guy is one of those girl´s best friends, the perfect guy, "if every guy was like him..."; OF COURSE, HE DOESN´T GET ANY, SO HE FEELS THE NEED TO BEHAVE DIFFERENTLY FROM THE OTHER GUYS, ALTHOUGH HE´S JUST THE SAME, BUT JUST WITH A DIFFERENT STRATEGY!!!
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i wouldnt call what hes doing, a strategy for getting PLAY

lol,

duhhh, cant u tell he doesnt want play??

he wants a REAL girl.
 
p60 said:


i wouldnt call what hes doing, a strategy for getting PLAY

lol,

duhhh, cant u tell he doesnt want play??

he wants a REAL girl.
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You are correct. I have met very few women in my life that were REAL women to me. I can actually only think of 2 at the moment...and I dated them both.

If I wanted play I could get it...but it is not what I am looking for. I just really don't understand why I would want anything except for love...

I mean...seriously. People can talk really big from the keyboard about women, how hot they are, what they would do to them, how they would please them, etc... Is it real? Think about that...is it? If you can't really have that person...if you can't have their heart deep inside of them...do you really want them or their body? Seriously...

I just think that a Real Man has nothing to prove...

B True
 
I think most attractive is a personality. I don't mean personality over looks, I mean actually having a personality. lol. I knew this guy that was interested in me, and he was nice looking and all, but the boy had absolutely no personality. He had no concept of sarcasm or anything. Conversations were ummm, interesting to say the least. I want a guy to make me laugh most of all. You make me laugh, we'll get along great. :)
 
b fold the truth said:

Anyone else feel this way and want to change it...?

B True
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Why in the world would you want to change that? THAT kind of genuine attitude is rare these days, i think woman appreciates someone who can see past their tits, or their asses.

I hear ya too, im sort of that way too, i was raised in a way to always so the upmost respect to everyone. However the diff. between you and i is, i always have lustful thoughts when i see a beautiful girl:)

all im saying is that their are very few guys these days that think with their heads and not their dick, consider yourself a lucky for being a deeper person.
 
I agree with Phatchick (i laugh every time i see your name on here).

For me, there needs to be some sort of visual attraction, i can't deny that, but whether i want to spend time with that person or not will wholely depend on their personality and heart. In my books there's no such thing as a person who is universally attractive, we are all attractive in our own way.

What i don't like is society steretyping good looking people as being heartless and materialistic and so called 'average' looking people as having great personalities and kindness. We are all unique.
 
vinylgroover said:
I agree with Phatchick (i laugh every time i see your name on here).

For me, there needs to be some sort of visual attraction, i can't deny that, but whether i want to spend time with that person or not will wholely depend on their personality and heart. In my books there's no such thing as a person who is universally attractive, we are all attractive in our own way.

What i don't like is society steretyping good looking people as being heartless and materialistic and so called 'average' looking people as having great personalities and kindness. We are all unique.
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Lol. I had fun with my name, what can I say?

And you're right, everyone has something attractive about them. Sometimes, it's not totally on the surface.
 
Every time i see your name, i'm thinking you are REALLY fat, but then i think nah, and have this image of an absolute babe behind the name.

Whichever it is, you've got a great personality:)
 
lol. Thanks. I think the same thing about you. And I thought it would be nice to have a play on words for a screenname on a fitness board. I'm just quirky like that. :)
 
When you are yourself and people don't understand you...it doesn't make you feel much better...just like the strange one...
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Bfold, look at yourself. You eat more in a day than most people eat in a week. You weigh a solid 285? pounds. You can probably bench press more than four normal men combined. You will always be the "strange one." YOU will never be normal. You have set your sights way beyond that. Why would this aspect of your life be any different? Any time you doubt this just go out in public and look at the "normal" people--then thank God that you are strange. While I don't completely share the same outlook on women as you, I think I understand where you are coming from. You seem to be one of the most sincere people on this board. Don't even think about changing. Strange, in your case, is a good thing.


Tater
 
Sometimes life hands us strange situations that cause us to reaccess our values: is it THEM or ME?

From what I know about you Bfold, you don't need to change not one bit. And I mean that sincerely. If I thought you needed to make "adjustments" I would be the first one to shake my one finger while my other hand was on my hip,"Listen......blah, blah, blah" (What can I say? I am a mom! LOL)

I know it hurts when life doesn't turn out the way that you thought it would, ESPECIALLY when you think you did EVERYTHING RIGHT. But you know there is this saying, "Do you want to be RIGHT?.... Or do you want to be HAPPY?!"

Don't question what is on your inside B - it is genuine and truly rare. Look at what life is handing you and think instead, "What lesson is the universe trying to teach me? Should I change what is within because I don't like what is going on in the world around me? Or do I simply need to accept that no matter how wonderful I AM, sometimes that same feeling and treatment will NOT be returned."

When this happens you have one of two choices: Lock who you TRULY ARE away even more deeply so that maybe NO ONE will ever revel in it. OR pick yourself up, dust yourself off, grow stronger and have faith that this was a life lesson that was painful, yes... but well worth learning.

There is a reason for everything.... We just don't always know what that is while we are in the midst of a situation. Take a step back, and a deep breath... focus on your training, school, anything else that brings you happiness. Remember B, no matter how remarkable another person is - THEY ARE NEVER SOLELY RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR PERSONAL HAPPINESS!

You are a good man, kind, decent, generous and capable of tremendous love. Please don't keep that from the world... THAT WOULD BE TRAGIC.

Look at my signature strong man....

Our most tragic decisions are based on fear. Something that I repeat aloud myself sometimes when I get really frightened. And I have had more than one or two of those moments in the past 2 years.... and will have a few more before this difficult chapter in my life is closed.

You're a good man, B - you've no reason to fear.
 
bikinimom said:
Sometimes life hands us strange situations that cause us to reaccess our values: is it THEM or ME?

From what I know about you Bfold, you don't need to change not one bit. And I mean that sincerely. If I thought you needed to make "adjustments" I would be the first one to shake my one finger while my other hand was on my hip,"Listen......blah, blah, blah" (What can I say? I am a mom! LOL)

I know it hurts when life doesn't turn out the way that you thought it would, ESPECIALLY when you think you did EVERYTHING RIGHT. But you know there is this saying, "Do you want to be RIGHT?.... Or do you want to be HAPPY?!"

Don't question what is on your inside B - it is genuine and truly rare. Look at what life is handing you and think instead, "What lesson is the universe trying to teach me? Should I change what is within because I don't like what is going on in the world around me? Or do I simply need to accept that no matter how wonderful I AM, sometimes that same feeling and treatment will NOT be returned."

When this happens you have one of two choices: Lock who you TRULY ARE away even more deeply so that maybe NO ONE will ever revel in it. OR pick yourself up, dust yourself off, grow stronger and have faith that this was a life lesson that was painful, yes... but well worth learning.

There is a reason for everything.... We just don't always know what that is while we are in the midst of a situation. Take a step back, and a deep breath... focus on your training, school, anything else that brings you happiness. Remember B, no matter how remarkable another person is - THEY ARE NEVER SOLELY RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR PERSONAL HAPPINESS!

You are a good man, kind, decent, generous and capable of tremendous love. Please don't keep that from the world... THAT WOULD BE TRAGIC.

Look at my signature strong man....

Our most tragic decisions are based on fear. Something that I repeat aloud myself sometimes when I get really frightened. And I have had more than one or two of those moments in the past 2 years.... and will have a few more before this difficult chapter in my life is closed.

You're a good man, B - you've no reason to fear.
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Japanese machine: Thanks...I just long to be me and for being ME to be ok with everyone else. It is ok though...I can't change who I am...

dick tater: I am not normal. I do not know what is different about me or what kind of gift/curse I have been given. I met a beautiful woman last year. I remember walking out over the ocean after a $100 meal (a lot for a poor kid like me) at midnight with a beautiful blonde. Waves crashing, stars around, and all dressed up. I will never forget her taking me in her arms and telling me that I had the most scary and pure eyes she has ever seen in her life. She said that she was actually scared to look into my eyes because she had never seen eyes like mine before...not a pair of eyes that she could see straight to their soul..till she met me... THAT was scary about me...to her. I do not like that...
 
bikinimom: I am me and I can not change it. You know me. I have spoken with you numerous times. You have heard me when I was embarassed, when I was happy, when I was laughing, when I was joking, and when I was crying...

I am me and I can not change it. I just went out tonight after I lifted to a nice little bar. School started today. I see all of the women in there and several of them hadn't seen me in a while and came over to say hello. My buddy kept commenting on a few of them and how attractive that they were...I guess I hadn't really noticed. Made me feel strange...

I guess that I just want someone to see inside of me...just as I do them.

B True
 
Why on earth would you want to change for anyone? YOU are who you are....and you should ALWAYS be proud of that. ALWAYS. You have the largest heart of any man I have ever met...and you are so very wonderful to me...every aspect of me.

Do not change because you fear not being accepted. Do not change because everyone else wants you to. You have no need to change...at all. You are who you are...and I have always respected that about you.

Get your chin up and realize what kind of a person you are. You are amazing and have so much faith. Where is the faith in yourself? It's there...deep inside you like your heart was not too long ago.

You are wonderful....and you should never....ever change. Remember that.
 
b fold the truth said:


I have never fell for a woman unless I knew her first...knew her as a person. I have never fell DEEP for a woman till I knew her for a long time. My friend looked at me very strange when I told her all of this and said that I was very strange.

B True
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Im the same way bro.

Why would you want to change it though? How can you fall for someone you don't truly know?? Love at first sight?? Yeah you love her appearance but real Love is beyond that. It comes from seeing the person inside and out and taking them for the good and the bad. Accepting them for who they are and not what you want them to be. How can u fall DEEP for someone unless you know them? To me it just doesn't exist and for those few lucky cases that the people who supposedly fell in love at first sight ended up happily ever after then good for you that it worked out. It was good that you like there appearance and that certain aura
that person carried with them and that you eventually got to know them and liked them as well but for the most part in general, love at first sight is for hopeless romantics. Key word "hopeless." Just my 2 cents coming from a young guy so what would I know anyway ehhh....
 
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Why on earth would you want to change for anyone? YOU are who you are....and you should ALWAYS be proud of that. ALWAYS. You have the largest heart of any man I have ever met...and you are so very wonderful to me...every aspect of me.

Do not change because you fear not being accepted. Do not change because everyone else wants you to. You have no need to change...at all. You are who you are...and I have always respected that about you.

Get your chin up and realize what kind of a person you are. You are amazing and have so much faith. Where is the faith in yourself? It's there...deep inside you like your heart was not too long ago.

You are wonderful....and you should never....ever change. Remember that.
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I am proud of who I am...I just hate to be looked at differently and be thought of as strange. Ever feel that way?

I have always been wonderful to you...every aspect of you...because I saw in your heart the moment I first saw you...that you were as pure as gold inside. Anyone that ever doubts that...will have to face ME to answer...

My chin is up higher today than it has been in a long time. Maybe it is the beer talking...I don't know. But it is high. Today I woke up a new person I feel...with a new start on life completely. I have a contest to win, school to graduate from, and to make my family proud. Beyond that I don't know what I have...but I know I have that.

You know my heart as a person and have seen my eyes. Do they really see people for who they are or do they just see the good deep inside of them that they NEVER show to anyone? I just meet people and begin to wonder if there is anyone else like me in the world. A woman who does not care about the size of my biceps or how strong my deadlift is...but about my heart and what they see in my eyes...

It isn't about if I want to change...because I do...I just can't.

B True
 
I can relate. A few years ago all I cared about was a nice pair of tits -- I'd follow a girl to hell and back if she had a nice rack. These days I need a nice ass to complete the package. If she doesn't have the booty, I ain't interested.

As you get older, your priorites change. It's all about maturity.













:D
 
Taps said:
I can relate. A few years ago all I cared about was a nice pair of tits -- I'd follow a girl to hell and back if she had a nice rack. These days I need a nice ass to complete the package. If she doesn't have the booty, I ain't interested.

As you get older, your priorites change. It's all about maturity.
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bahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bfold, it is sounds like you are confusing unique with strange. Just because someone says you are not the usual doesn't mean they are saying you are weird. I take it as a compliment anytime someone says I am different!
 
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Fold - remember our phone conversation a few nights ago...we are SO very much alike....I have been with all of two women in my life...and I wouldn't change that even if I could...it's about losing your insecurities and letting yourself be vunerable...the right woman will love you not in spite of your flaws...but because of them.
 
b fold the truth said:
I was out with a friend at a club the other night having a good time and we were up stairs looking down on other people. She commented on how hot this one chick was and that she had really nice breasts.

I made the comment that I didn't really find her attractive all that much. She looked at me like I was crazy and asked me to explain...

I don't find women attractive. I don't find men attractive in the least!!!! I just look at a woman and don't find them attractive to me. I have never looked at a woman in person and said how hot she was or that I'd like to have sex with her or touch her anything... I just don't feel attracted, especially not sexually, attracted to women.

I have never fell for a woman unless I knew her first...knew her as a person. I have never fell DEEP for a woman till I knew her for a long time. My friend looked at me very strange when I told her all of this and said that I was very strange. I guess that I'd take away that part of me if I could...

Anyone else feel this way and want to change it...?

B True
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must be all the tren pellets you have been inserting into your rectum......

Ref. Green Goblin.

JC
 
b fold the truth said:
I do not have a low sex drive. When I am near someone whom I love...it is very different. The way that I feel about them changes the way that I feel about everything.

I just feel the need to change...to fit in a little more...to be accepted.

B True
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Several options here:

1) Wait. Age will mellow you and you will accept yourself and not worry so much about fitting in

2) Recognize the fact that truly great people are not like "the rest" and will never "fit in." Recognize your true greatness and proceed.

3) Use that insecurity/psychic pain/whatever to fuel your drive to excel and exceed. I have a feeling you do that already.

I also have a feeling the truth will lie in a combination of the three.
 
The last guy I was with was able to really look into me. He could just look into my eyes and be able to tell a lot about how I was feeling or whatever. He never wanted to change me. He loved the fact that I was sarcastic, funny, spunky, even a bitch sometimes. He handled it all. To me, that's what makes a person right. You have to love their little quirks, their attitudes, just be able to understand things without even speaking. With him, it wasn't a physical attraction for me. It was his personality that caught me. Of course, that relationship is a thing of the past. But I know I have to find that connection with someone else before I'll know they are more than just a casual date or two.
 
b fold the truth said:
I am proud of who I am...I just hate to be looked at differently and be thought of as strange. Ever feel that way?
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b fold, I know exactly what you mean. You need to forget about what other people think of you and be proud of your uniqueness. Maybe the ability to love that part of yourself is something that comes with time, but I hope you will get there faster that I did. The people I love the most in my life are the ones who are not afraid to do things a little differently or concerned with what others think of them. They're the ones who inspire me, just as you do, even though I don't know you personally. :)

I would also never want any man to love me for my looks, because that can and will change over the years, hell, sometimes even from day to day! I would never want to fear that he wouldn't love me as much if I chopped off my hair, or started getting spider veins and cellulite on my legs, or dressed in frumpy clothes. I don't think that is too much to ask...
 
Hey I hate to break up all the deep shit going on in this thread, but damn I like some big boobs with small to medium sized but not inverted nipples on a brunette with a small frame.

Thanks...sorry to interrupt. Carrion.
 
Inject 1000mg test and then tell me you won't look at a women sexually. Just kidding G! Bfold I think it's good that you don't look at women for there sexual attributes.
 
PHATchik said:
The last guy I was with was able to really look into me. He could just look into my eyes and be able to tell a lot about how I was feeling or whatever. He never wanted to change me. He loved the fact that I was sarcastic, funny, spunky, even a bitch sometimes. He handled it all. To me, that's what makes a person right. You have to love their little quirks, their attitudes, just be able to understand things without even speaking. With him, it wasn't a physical attraction for me. It was his personality that caught me. Of course, that relationship is a thing of the past. But I know I have to find that connection with someone else before I'll know they are more than just a casual date or two.
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Picky, picky, picky...sheeeeeesh.




;)
 
b fold the truth said:
I am not gay at all. Never even considered it...ever. Maybe I am just really picky...or maybe I just know that the one thing that really makes someone special is what they have inside...

B True
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I'm a bit like you. I fall for the girl and not her tits/ass/hotness.

The thing is, I have to have an attraction in order to let me give them a chance to win me over. A pair of big beautiful eyes melting me makes me want to listen to who they are and what they're about. It's then that I begin to fall for the girl and finally, THAT'S when I want to bang her brains out.
 
68GT350 said:



I'm not a bit like you. I fall for the first guy with the ass/big dick/sideburns.

The thing is, I don't have to have an attraction in order to let me give them a chance to win me over. A pair of big ole' set of balls melting in my mouth makes me want to listen to who they are and what they're about. It's then that I begin to fall for that guy and finally, THAT'S when I know I want to be a bottom for the rest of my life. :p
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Wow GT.....tell us what really makes you tick! ;)
 
I can see what youre saying, but to a very rapid extent. For example, how are two people supposed to meet without there being an initial physical attraction to make you or her spark up a conversation? Basically, I have to be able to look at the girl and love what I see initially, then if the personality clicks, then its all good. Not to be a dick, because you seem like a nice guy, but having no physical attraction to females at a bar, or anywhere they look real good in, kind of makes me wonder. It's just not normal. Has this been like that all your life? Even when you were in your teens through puberty and when your test levels are off the walls? Thats just not normal bro. But maybe im just misreading the way you are expressing this. Either way good luck.
 
NJSerious said:
I can see what youre saying, but to a very rapid extent. For example, how are two people supposed to meet without there being an initial physical attraction to make you or her spark up a conversation? Basically, I have to be able to look at the girl and love what I see initially, then if the personality clicks, then its all good. Not to be a dick, because you seem like a nice guy, but having no physical attraction to females at a bar, or anywhere they look real good in, kind of makes me wonder. It's just not normal. Has this been like that all your life? Even when you were in your teens through puberty and when your test levels are off the walls? Thats just not normal bro. But maybe im just misreading the way you are expressing this. Either way good luck.
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I guess that I have always been like that. I have only dated 3 women in my entire life...by choice. I meet most women and they turn me off so badly that I really care to never take it any farther. I just meet so many shallow people who care nothing more about a person that how much $$ they have or what their body looks like that they fall in love before they ever see what the person is made of...

Maybe I just don't trust a lot of women...and their intentions. I do not wear my heart on my sleeve...it is just hidden very deep and it rarely ever comes out. I could just never imagine meeting somoene and then taking them back and doing ANYTHING with them...

B True
 
b fold the truth said:


I guess that I have always been like that. I have only dated 3 women in my entire life...by choice. I meet most women and they turn me off so badly that I really care to never take it any farther. I just meet so many shallow people who care nothing more about a person that how much $$ they have or what their body looks like that they fall in love before they ever see what the person is made of...

Maybe I just don't trust a lot of women...and their intentions. I do not wear my heart on my sleeve...it is just hidden very deep and it rarely ever comes out. I could just never imagine meeting somoene and then taking them back and doing ANYTHING with them...

B True
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Dude I am exactly like that. I don't think I trust any women either. I've seen too many friends (myself included) hurt by those we loved, who didn't even give a crap about us. My heart, like yours, is rarely seen its true form anymore. I'm willing to bet no one knows really who I am. I dunno B. Whatever it is man, I think I know a little where you're coming from.
 
There are two women that I have trusted...and only ONE of them has seen the REAL me.

B True
 
I only just read this long thread and im pretty shocked

"I just feel the need to change...to fit in a little more...to be accepted. "

if there is one way to make nobody in the world who is worth anything think you are a great person than it is to go out of your way to fit in. to fit into what? the MTV world? your here on this planet for yourself and for those few people you believe in.

I still have trouble believing you never like see a hottie walking somewhere and just think DAY-UMM "now thats the kind of cream id like butter" or whatever of the like, but if you dont, who cares. if you still have good sex with the person you love for their personality whats the problem?

Dont worry so much. dont hide so much. it fucks up your big guy brain.

you seem so insecure I cant believe it at times i thought it was a cynical thread...

you say you have so many physical inhibitions towards all but that single special person. I dont personally believe any inhibitions or insecurities are good for you. im not saying you should go sleep around to have a healthy mind, but that you should feel ready to do so just like that if you WOULD want to do.

i think what you really need is some humour and some sarcasm towards life. some *i dont give a fuck what im supposed to be or what people think*

youd say that a guy who says hes looking to grow up to 320 lbs has plenty of that. apparently not.

I know im just damn 16... but please think about what i sayd i think it made some sense....

Also good luck in training and contest man.
peace
 
Robert Jan: Thank you...very much.

B True
 
this thread got me thinking....

i had a great party at my house yesterday... all my best friends and even like most my acquintances. and among these people was this one girl who is just totally hot. i dont have any good pics to show but shes a total head turner... gets scouted by modelling agencies all the time, the whole nine yards.

Shes very smart and very friendly... but I never really have a good time talking to her. Its like something is missing you know.

and another girl looks nice, and just that. And ive known her for years and i talk to her almost every day of my life and ive never been bored a moment while around her.

if id have to choose... man wouldn`t even be a choice... never even mind the barbie when given this choice...

OK this prolly sounds like a real DUH to everybody but im an immature 16 yr old and this was some really new thinking to me ok?
 
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