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revexrevex
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We all have different passions in life. No one can say what is right and what is wrong. Working out is a lifestyle for me as well.
Tonight I was reminded how great it is to be able to work out and not have to worry about someone at home wanting you to hurry up and get back home. My workouts are so much more enjoyable without having to feel that pressure. My ex use to make me feel guilty for working out sometimes. She would want me to stay home. I wouldn't have done the same to her if something was that important to her. Working out is a lifestyle to me and I look at it like a job. I only miss scheduled workouts in the case of emergencies, vacations, special occasions. Some of you I know will disagree. To each his own. I'll never compromise on this. I only work out 3 times a week.
Man, I must be lucky.
I can take off hiking for half the day and my husband is totally cool with it. Which I do several times a week.
Must just be a psycho-chick thing, eh?
I can take off hiking for half the day and my husband is totally cool with it. Which I do several times a week.
Must just be a psycho-chick thing, eh?
out_at_sea
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biteme said:
That is a 180 degree...Up to now you were moaning for the lack of companionship and lack of sex ..Now you are happy with your workout and not worried that someone at home wants you back quickly.
You are a troubled and confused man...
Hope you will find the happy niche/pussy/girl.....OR you may wanna marry a bench press..
Ceebs
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biteme said:
Can't say that I've ever missed anyone's presence enough that I wanted to cut short their time to themselves, especially time in the gym. That's pretty needy, IMHO. Seperate hobbies or pursuits or whatever you want to call them are healthy.
What I fear about a relationship is staying in one out of comfort or obligation, rather being in it because I want to.
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I'm getting sick of you stalking my threads and making smart ass comments. You are not as intelligent as you pretend to be. No more Mr. nice guy with you. You misconstrued what I wrote previously. I've noticed you have a tendency to do that.
out_at_sea said:
That is a 180 degree...Up to now you were moaning for the lack of companionship and lack of sex ..Now you are happy with your workout and not worried that someone at home wants you back quickly.
You are a troubled and confused man...
Hope you will find the happy niche/pussy/girl.....OR you may wanna marry a bench press..
I'm getting sick of you stalking my threads and making smart ass comments. You are not as intelligent as you pretend to be. No more Mr. nice guy with you. You misconstrued what I wrote previously. I've noticed you have a tendency to do that.
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out_at_sea
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I could care less about your pathetic theads. All I did was expressing my POV . If you dont like it, so be it.
I am also getting tired with your bitchy and sorry-ass attitude. Grow up!
As far as not being "Mr.Nice guy" I dont give a rat's ass.
biteme said:
I could care less about your pathetic theads. All I did was expressing my POV . If you dont like it, so be it.
I am also getting tired with your bitchy and sorry-ass attitude. Grow up!
As far as not being "Mr.Nice guy" I dont give a rat's ass.
gettinlarger
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velvett said:
Agreed.
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alien amp pharm
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velvett said:
It's either that or it could just be a jealous person.
My ex was extremely jealous and if there was a chance of females (esp. ones in gym attire) being around, I'd get the same "don't go" treatment. I really don't think she was needy at all.
flexygrl
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Before I started working out with my husband I never, ever for the life of me would make him stay home. Now, when I feel like taking a day off and he feels like going, I'll ask once. I'll put on my pouty face and say that if he stays home and rests with me, I'll make it worth his while. He usually take me up on the offer, but there are days when he feels that he HAS to go. It's completely understandable. We usually hit the gym 5 x's a week. For me, depending on the week and any other activities I am involved in that can be a little much.
My husband made it perfectly clear from day one that this was part of his life. It was a take or leave situation. Thankfully I am now into it as much as him. He laughed at me on Saturday cause we only had 1 1/2 hours to do legs. With two people that's not a lot of time. 5 minutes before they turned off the lights I ran to a calve machine. He said, "never in my life would I have dreamed of seeing you run to do calves."
Anyway, when two people both enjoy it and make it a priority, it can work out really well. It's our quality time together. Nothing else to think about except that moment, that set......it's a great stress reliever.
But anyway, my point is that no one should be allowed to try and take that away from you. Yes, seperate hobbies in essential and healthy to a relationship. Hobbies together are even better, but under no circumstances should someone infringe on your ability to better yourself or to do things that make you happy. It's just wrong.
My husband made it perfectly clear from day one that this was part of his life. It was a take or leave situation. Thankfully I am now into it as much as him. He laughed at me on Saturday cause we only had 1 1/2 hours to do legs. With two people that's not a lot of time. 5 minutes before they turned off the lights I ran to a calve machine. He said, "never in my life would I have dreamed of seeing you run to do calves."
Anyway, when two people both enjoy it and make it a priority, it can work out really well. It's our quality time together. Nothing else to think about except that moment, that set......it's a great stress reliever.
But anyway, my point is that no one should be allowed to try and take that away from you. Yes, seperate hobbies in essential and healthy to a relationship. Hobbies together are even better, but under no circumstances should someone infringe on your ability to better yourself or to do things that make you happy. It's just wrong.
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alien amp pharm
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biteme said:
Exactly. It's funny how the people that cheat are also the ones that are most jealous.
I can only assume that they (cheaters) are afraid of getting the same thing they are dishing out.
PHATchik
Studio Gangsta
I don't think that you should have to give up the things you love such as working out or spending time with your friends when you get in a relationship. There has to be compromises. However, I do know what it is like to look forward to seeing that person. Sometimes, you can't wait until you get to see them again, talk to them again, be able to hold them, etc. Sometimes, it's just looking forward to a phone call, that sometimes doesn't come. So I can understand her wanting you to hurry up and come home. It's not always a bad thing. 
out_at_sea
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: What I fear about a relationship
I am not posting to please or to appease anyone's feelings as I just express my very own thoughts. You can agree or disagree.
A discussion should be an exchange of arguments, ideas and ignorance.
As to "dont click on my threads" ....only when you would own the cyberspace, I would respect your plea....
Would you like some karma as a resort to appease your wounded ego...?
biteme said:
I am not posting to please or to appease anyone's feelings as I just express my very own thoughts. You can agree or disagree.
A discussion should be an exchange of arguments, ideas and ignorance.
As to "dont click on my threads" ....only when you would own the cyberspace, I would respect your plea....
Would you like some karma as a resort to appease your wounded ego...?
Bullit said:
I think you starting posting on this board about the same time I did. Someone posted a rhyming thread and I remember you and I verbally sparred over a comment that I made concerning you mating with a gorilla. That was our first exchange. Do you remember? All in good fun.
