What happened to my independance

[B0ARDIN087]

Before I had a girl i was so independant. I would do my own thing always and never wanted to be with anyone for an extended period of time. Now i am dating my girl and when im not with her i want to be. I think about her all the time and will regularly blow off events to go be with her. Im trying to learn fromt his whole experience as this has been the msot intense relationship i have been in. There are defintealy strong feelings but at the same time recently I have been having doubts. I frequently get irritated with the way she very passively expresses her feelings. Its all great if she sends me a sweet txt message or voicemail. Fact of the matter I feel like she never really makes it apparent how much she cares for me. Which im sure she cares alot about me but not so much by direct actions.

I wonder if its me thats impossible to please or her not being sufficient. Im thinking its me and im thinking its stemming from former insecurity and loneliness that never went away completely. Sound possible? If your going to bash me for making posts like this then go ahead but make it funny. I posted this hear because i take alot of the advice hear to heart and i consider alot of you to be wise and cultured. So if u dont like hearing this stuff then jsut dont respond.

 

[string_bean00]

Sopping Wet Vaginas...here we come.

 

[The_Ghost]

God I hate seeing some of you bros like this.

Buckle up son, you got a bumpy ride ahead of ya.

Stop worry about shit you can't control and lay off the clomid!

You sound so needy you are gonna cause this women to run for the hills. Women don't want a lap dog bro. They want a man they can respect.

 

[bran987]

weren't you the guy who posted a thread about how fucking pumped you are about college (FYI I didn't read that thread because well... it's obvious what it says_
yes you ar efucking up if you go into i with a girlfriend
you are a good lookin dude (puma99 said so) it's up to you whether or not you cling

 

[The Greatest]

for starters eat something please

 

[awittyusername]

Bro, you think its bad now....You will some day realize this is just puppy love. You haven't even had sex with her yet.

It gets stronger as you go on through the phases..

2nd phase sex. (probably this girl)

3rd phase sex on a regular basis (might happen w/this girl) Its starting to get real hard now

4th phase awsome, crazy, wild sex (will not be w/this girl) This is some powerful shit. But, you need to experiance it and then be able to walk away.

Once you have done all this and realize it. Then, you are ready to start looking for the one. (unless, you want to keep banging chicks)

Good luck and don't let this 16yr old girl hold you back from great learning experiances in college.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Just a lil story of me recently:

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Dated this girl a few months ago. Everything was PERFECT. I fell in love right away and wasn't afraid to express my feelings w/her. I bent over backwards treating her great and wanted to be around her 24/7.

Conclusion: She dumped me basically out of the blue.

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Currently I'm seeing this new girl. She's gorgeous. I don't really care if I'm with her or not though. To be honest, I'm kind of a jerk to her.

Conclusion: She is falling for me, calls me almost everyday, always wants to hang out.

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Just something to think about.

 

[B0ARDIN087]

Ya bros I know. sorry i was in a wierd mood last night while writing this. I had a shitty day and was basicly just questioning myself and my ability to cope with shit. I'm always looking to improve myself and I was just wondering whether or not i was doing anything wrong. Sometimes i use girls as a security blanket. I need to get better I'm just real happy with her and didn't want to fuck things up so i was overanalyzing.


And im very young still so im hoping when i get to the later "phases" that I'll have learned alot more by that time anyway. And ya Im not going to let her hold me back in college. I cant concievably see us being together in school. Its kinda depressing that Im leaving EVERYTHIGN behind not just her and the relationship but my friends and family. In all my excitement i had not been thinking about everythign that will be gonein the next year and it was bothering me last night. well thanks bros and I'll work on fixing up my situation.