TheSalami said:
hey helen, what do you think we should do with black people?
love them just like everyone else
i didn't say "fuck 'em" but "love them" - it's
different btw
(sometimes the same but often different, it seems...)
sometimes black people are a lot nicer than white people, actually. there is this really kewl Afro-American dude at my church who is about the nicest person to me in my chruch.
when i was a BS leader i had a group of 15 (i got fired & thrown out for being mentally ill - they wouldn't even let me back as not a leader - well anyway...) and only one was Afro-American which was not really fair to her. I never met her before. We got really good friends and she was one of my most supportive people i ever met. She said it was a good experience for her to find out white women were not too tight-assed to share about real shit in their lives. Well she did not use those words in our Christian context of course but that was the point.
Actually another Afro-American was joined to my group after a bit.
But the first one was the one that i cliked with. You know how it is - you synch more with some people than others. That's just the way it goes. We could relate because of certain relationship hurts we both had and right away she could tell i could relate and she liked that. Some people are like that and it has nothing to do with outside color.
The licking idea is intriguing LOL but may be seen as disrespectful. It probably depends where you lick, how good it feels and if it makes the other people feel too guilty to enjoy it

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If you want to lick a black person mostly because you are hoping they'll lick you back and find out if you taste like vanilla why not just say that in the first place so they don't misunderstand???
Who knows, maybe they'll laugh and try it.
If you put sweet cream all over you first then maybe you will

. If they put chocolate sauce all over them then definitely they will. Icecream is very runny though and will not stay on much

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Ah life. It can really screw ya can't it???
love
helen