What do you think about this letter?

[biteme]

I know that I made comments about you and the computer. They were
serious, but not... That is your life and if that is what you want to
do as downtime and such, I had no problem with that. That is who you
are, and I am noone to try to change someone. I don't believe that you
should ever try to change someone because you should like them for who
they are already and not hope to changel them to suit yourself. That
is just wrong. When I am with someone, I want to spend as much time
together as I can, but I too need some time to myself. I don't think
that I have had enough time to myself for a long time. Maybe I can
take a lesson from you...
As for the weekend thing, I think that we can still see each other
maybe on Saturdays sometimes. No sex. Not right now at least. I think
that I need to be true to myself before I can be in any type of
relationship again. Nothing having to do with you, just me. Do you
think that you could handle spending time with me and not have sex? I
felt so comfortable in your arms, I would be happy just having you
hold me. Everyone needs someone to hold, even if they are just a
friend. And, I know that you were not using me, it was mutually agreed
upon. It just moved way too fast!
You said that you are going through a lot right now... That's what
friends are for. If you need to talk, I am here. And don't worry about
you standing in my way of finding what I am searching for because I am
not searching. It hurts too badly... I think that I am going to focus
on my kids, myself spiritually and physically, and my friends. You
still have my number, so feel free to call. I am not going to bug you
about us, so you don't have to worry about a confrontation or
anything... You can never have too many friends. Let me know.


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[biteme]

No it doesn't. THat's one of the best letters I've ever received. It should be an example as to how to act when someone doesn't want a serious relationship with you. Better than the rantings, ravings, poutings, and guilt trips that most people try to put on you.

 

[blueta2]

hmmmm, she likes u more than friends.....so it seems!

 

[biteme]

hmmmm, she likes u more than friends.....so it seems!

I would like to be friends and even have her come over and spend the night sometimes. Think she can handle that without eventually freaking out on me? I can't deal with that kind of stuff.

 

[blueta2]

I would like to be friends and even have her come over and spend the night sometimes. Think she can handle that without eventually freaking out on me? I can't deal with that kind of stuff.

She seems nice....don't mess this up killer ;-)

 

[biteme]

She seems nice....don't mess this up killer ;-)

What do you mean mess it up? We're just gonna be friends. I'm still gonna go out with other women.

 

[blueta2]

What do you mean mess it up? We're just gonna be friends. I'm still gonna go out with other women.

I meant do not decapitate her...hehe!

Play it cool, be her friend and do not try any moves on her.

 

[biteme]

I meant do not decapitate her...hehe!

Play it cool, be her friend and do not try any moves on her.

I need to email her again and tell her the no sex thing will be very difficult.

 

[blueta2]

I need to email her again and tell her the no sex thing will be very difficult.

good, honesty is the way to go

 

[needtogetaas]

fuck her in the ass as hard as you can.if she still wants to be friends then she is a keeper.

 

[Phenom78]

I got up to "No sex." then decided you should move and change your number.

 

[heatherrae]

She sounds like a pain in the ass. Why does everyone have to make things so complicated?

 

[biteme]

I got up to "No sex." then decided you should move and change your number.

You're scaring me. LOL. I know you have much experience in these things.

 

[biteme]

She sounds like a pain in the ass. Why does everyone have to make things so complicated?

How so?

 

[Phenom78]

You're scaring me. LOL. I know you have much experience in these things.

Dude seriously

Run

 

[heatherrae]

How so?

Okay, first she wants to call it off because things are moving too fast, but does she leave you the fuck alone? No, of course not. She has to get your attention back and string your ass along because keeping a man on the hook is an ego boost. She goes on and on and on, rambling about her feelings, its a fucking estrogen fest that I can't even stand, and I'm a woman!

 

[biteme]

Okay, first she wants to call it off because things are moving too fast, but does she leave you the fuck alone? No, of course not. She has to get your attention back and string your ass along because keeping a man on the hook is an ego boost. She goes on and on and on, rambling about her feelings, its a fucking estrogen fest that I can't even stand, and I'm a woman!

I'm the one that called off. She's not stringing me along because I could care less. Thought I'd just have a fuck buddy and a friend. But if you think she really wants more despite what she's saying, then I need to cut ties with her cause that ain't happening.

 

[Bikini Mod]

She sounds like a pain in the ass. Why does everyone have to make things so complicated?

WERD

This broad sounds so fucking confused. What she is REALLY trying to say is: How come you dont want to spend every living breathing moment with me? Since you dont - so that I wont feel so rejected - let's play "friends" - no sex.

Yea ok....

If I am going to lay in a man's arms then it will be before/during/ or after SEX or else he is just my friend and we wont need to be lying down together - clothing on or off.

 

[pitbullrocco]

goddamn, heather is the fkn perfect woman!! and she is right! don't reply, don't respond, don't call her, don't answer her calls, just move on. listen to this woman, she knows from a woman's mind.....can't argue with that shit.

if "things are meant to be" they will be even if you go a year without talking.....trust it

and trust me....she's fucking another homo right as we speak now.....

(and i didn't mean that disrespectful on you bro)

 

[-SD-]

quit being a 'mo and just fuck her.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I just recently sent a "dear John email" and ended it with "no matter what, I hope that we can always be friends".

THAT MEANS NO SEX - NO LAYING DOWN - NO KISSING - NO HUGGING AND NO HOLDING FOR ANY REASON WHATSOEVER.

If he wants to have dinner together occasionally or go to a concert, chat on the phone whatever, that is fine. But there will be NO SEX OR ANY PHYSICAL TYPE EXCHANGES PERIOD.

 

[Bikini Mod]

quit being a 'mo and just fuck her.

What so the crazy bitch will NEVER go away?

 

[-SD-]

I just recently sent a "dear John email" and ended it with "no matter what, I hope that we can always be friends".

THAT MEANS NO SEX - NO LAYING DOWN - NO KISSING - NO HUGGING AND NO HOLDING FOR ANY REASON WHATSOEVER.

If he wants to have dinner together occasionally or go to a concert, chat on the phone whatever, that is fine. But there will be NO SEX OR ANY PHYSICAL TYPE EXCHANGES PERIOD.

Any man that settles for this shit is Lance Bass.

 

[biteme]

goddamn, heather is the fkn perfect woman!! and she is right! don't reply, don't respond, don't call her, don't answer her calls, just move on. listen to this woman, she knows from a woman's mind.....can't argue with that shit.

if "things are meant to be" they will be even if you go a year without talking.....trust it

and trust me....she's fucking another homo right as we speak now....

I don't think you understand. I don't care if she is fucking someone. It would be nice to just have a friend with no strings attached. It probably doesn't work. But, some say it does.

 

[biteme]

quit being a 'mo and just fuck her.

I already have.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Any man that settles for this shit is Lance Bass.

No duh.

Get it... I dont WANT him to call me anymore, but I dont like to be harsh either.

 

[heatherrae]

I'm the one that called off. She's not stringing me along because I could care less. Thought I'd just have a fuck buddy and a friend. But if you think she really wants more despite what she's saying, then I need to cut ties with her cause that ain't happening.

Yeah, I typed that wrong. Okay, so you slow things down and she is now trying to play Vulcan mind meld by witholding sex...lol. I would go for someone who isn't such a pain in the ass as writing me letters like the one above. That would make me run for the hills. Its the classic of pretextually remaining friends hoping it will develop into more. Plus, she's playing hard to get by taking the sex away now ---too late to play hard to get with the booty after you already gave it up...lol.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I don't think you understand. I don't care if she is fucking someone. It would be nice to just have a friend with no strings attached. It probably doesn't work. But, some say it does.

There is NO WAY in hell this woman will be qualified to have a no strings sexual relationship with you. That letter SCREAMED she is clueless and still in fucking high school.

Some dude cuts me loose... I am like - cya (in a nice way).

Men are like buses. There is another one coming every ten minutes.

This broad wants to be your gf. The whole let's be friends without sex thing is just her way to get any little bit of attention from you to salvage her "dignity", very low self-esteem. You were not "just friends" to begin with, nor will you be thereafter.

 

[biteme]

There is NO WAY in hell this woman will be qualified to have a no strings sexual relationship with you. That letter SCREAMED she is clueless and still in fucking high school.

Some dude cuts me loose... I am like - cya (in a nice way).

Men are like buses. There is another one coming every ten minutes.

This broad wants to be your gf. The whole let's be friends without sex thing is just her way to get any little bit of attention from you to salvage her "dignity", very low self-esteem. You were not "just friends" to begin with, nor will you be thereafter.

I think maybe you're right. Damn. I thought I was gonna have a fuck buddy/friend.

 

[gotmilk]

it's not you...it's her. She needs to find herself. God knows what the other guy's name who lost her.

Decapitate your little biteme.

 

[biteme]

Well you guys were right Im afraid. She calls everyday several times a day and still text messages. Got irritated at me because I didn't call her last night, when she said that I said I would. Get used to disappointment. Nobody owns me.

 

[biteme]

Damn phone is ringing again. It's either my guy friend who acts more like a girl, wanting to talk on the phone for hours about stupid shit or it's her. I'm not getting up to look.

 

[Phenom78]

Well you guys were right Im afraid. She calls everyday several times a day and still text messages. Got irritated at me because I didn't call her last night, when she said that I said I would. Get used to disappointment. Nobody owns me.

lol

They never listen

 

[heatherrae]

Well you guys were right Im afraid. She calls everyday several times a day and still text messages. Got irritated at me because I didn't call her last night, when she said that I said I would. Get used to disappointment. Nobody owns me.

Told you so.

 

[biteme]

Told you so.

Yes you did. I should have listened.