What do You look for?

[AAA]

Im curious what does everybody look for in there soul mate? whats the most important thing in a long term relationship? Personally for me she would have to be my best friend and someone i could trust in every manner!

 

[havoc]

There is only 1 answer that encompasses all other possibilties, because without it there is nothing in anything, I speak of respect. peace

 

[epimetheus]

Has to want to be friends as well as lovers. Cannot have a plan of conversion of some sort to change me into her Ideal man. We both should be willing to change, and not into what we predetermine. A woman that is willing to do things with me that she wouldn't normally do. I.e Fishing or something. Be willing to accept that I will go shopping with her or something I normally wouldn't want to do.
A woman that realizes a relationship is not a give take thing, but a Give Give. Each person adds to the relationship to make it stronger and better, and a woman that is not willing to make the sacrafices and changes that I am willing to make is not a woman I want to be with. Well, except for a good time.

 

[alphaxi]

Has to be my best friend...the one person I can cry with, laugh with, tell anything to, etc...someone who loves me uncondtionally and vice versa. I am also lucky to say that I have found that special person...

 

[AAA]

Great replys!! I hope Im lucky enough to find mine!

 

[alphaxi]

Great replys!! I hope Im lucky enough to find mine!

You will find the right one...just be patient! Trust me..it will happen when you least expect it to!

 

[AAA]

alphaxi, Ya I know I will find the right one some day, Im only 27 so i have plently of time, Its kinda of funny one of my best friends happens to be a women who i met about a year ago we just hit it off right when we met, we can talk about anything and have a great time hangin out together! It just to bad she is married! LOL

 

[alphaxi]

AAA: Yeah..that is too bad that she is married... But you will find a girl who is just like your best friend...plus it will be even more special because not only will you be best friends, but you will be in love with one another. Good Luck!!

 

[rippedtrojan]

is there an atm around here somewhere?

 

[alphaxi]

is there an atm around here somewhere?

 

[georgie24]

Has to be my best friend...the one person I can cry with, laugh with, tell anything to, etc...someone who loves me uncondtionally and vice versa. I am also lucky to say that I have found that special person...

you are very fortunate!!

now rub some of your good fortune off on me

 

[rippedtrojan]

the machine you walk up to and put your bank card in, whereupon the completion of a button pushing batter, it will dispense the allotted amount of cash and your card and a receit if you so chose.

 

[alphaxi]

the machine you walk up to and put your bank card in, whereupon the completion of a button pushing batter, it will dispense the allotted amount of cash and your card and a receit if you so chose.

Right...I understand WHAT an ATM machine is...what i dont understand is why you are asking....

 

[fistfullofsteel]

whats the most important thing in a long term relationship?

well in terms of a person that i want to spend the rest of my life with would be feeling incredibly connected with that person. (person being a female in my case)

 

[vinylgroover]

is there an atm around here somewhere?

lol. No confusion here.

 

[alphaxi]

lol. No confusion here.

LOL...took me awhile there

 

[vinylgroover]

Cool, now you can tell me what he meant. I just wanted to act cool like i knew

 

[rippedtrojan]

i just need some cash yo

 

[alphaxi]

Cool, now you can tell me what he meant. I just wanted to act cool like i knew

WHAT?!!? You arent cool? Huh..I thought you were...LOL just kidding...

 

[vinylgroover]

What? What do you mean just kidding? Does that mean you don't think i'm cool or you do?

 

[vinylgroover]

Back at you

 

[rippedtrojan]

vinylgroover and alphaxi shall be refered to as "the cool twins" from now on.

(homosexual implications should be considered)

 

[alphaxi]

homosexual implications??

 

[vinylgroover]

You've got me stumped again too Trojan

 

[vinylgroover]

Either that, or he thinks we're both female or both male

 

[rippedtrojan]

i didn't realize alphaxi is a southern girl.

i neither feel the need to be cool nor do i feel the need to be a member of a cool club.

 

[alphaxi]

i didn't realize alphaxi is a southern girl.

i neither feel the need to be cool nor do i feel the need to be a member of a cool club.

Um...it was a joke...no need to get hostile