What do you do if you suspect something?

[polarpixie]

What do you do if you suspect something is up that might affect you...with a good friend or your significant other? Would you confront them and ask straight out what you think they are up to? Or would you just sit back and let them come to you, if there is something to be said, even if that means you will have to pretend you dont suspect a thing and pretend to believe their lies?


Just a general question --- it could pertain to a friend keeping something really big from you for some reason, or your guy/woman has been thinking about leaving you....or both!!

 

[satanic goatslayer]

You walk up to them with your cock/clitoris in hand, hatchet sheathed in your belt, and ask them if they know the proper way to conceal lies and other tidbits of sin. When they reply 'yes', then it signals the time for you to unsheath the hatchet and hack their body into several dozen pieces.

Jah.

 

[alexiarenee]

I cant sit back and wait very long, I like to voice my opinions to people ( especially with my b/f...he never has to ask me what's wrong!) so I would definitely confront and ask.

 

[TxArmyGuy]

Go ahead and confront the situation. I hope you dont come accross overbearing but if this pertains to you then by all means say something

 

[basskiller]

Ask! Waiting could let it escalate. Where as talking about it could nip it in the bud!
bass

 

[KEL]

Confront the person. Get it overwith- it's easier to move on.

I do not like to "candy-coat" any sitch...


guess I'm a confrontational bitch

 

[WarriorPL]

Go with SG's method to solving the problem.

To follow it up, you can feed the pieces to some needy people in Afghanistan. They'll eat practically anything.

 

[MrMuscle]

im a more a "sit back and wait" guy. if they got something ot tell me, than say it..if they dont, fuck em

 

[polarpixie]

SG -- Wish I could be more like you!! But its more difficult for a girl to hold clit in hand....unless you are like one of those freaks....uggh...

I like the confronting idea, but aren't you guys worried you might end up looking like a paranoid jerk which might make things worse? Well, I am anyway....

 

[danielson]

it all depends on the situation

if you dont do anything about it, it might be the type pf situation that could fester, and as a result when it eventually does come out theres nothing you can do to resolve it. but on the other hand if you leave it they might bring it up themslves and as they are more mentally prepared to deal with what ever the problem is, or you might be able to read the actions of the person and benefit from knowing something they dont

if you do something about it it might threaten them, or it might just nip it in the bud.




if someone had kept something from me and it really pissed me off they did it i'd cconfront them straight up. if it didnt annoyme id give them a while to tell me themselves.

if it was about your 'other' leaving you, and you still liked him, id bring it up and try and work through it

 

[Jimsbbc]

Your gut feeling will rarely - if ever, let you down. Go with what your gut instinct tells you. Confrontation is better than a communication breakdown - which always leads to trouble

 

[big4life]

I would rather be able to talk about my fears, than just let them fester, and let something that may not even be there, cause problems. If I have a question, I ask it. I do not like to assume anything about people.

 

[theoak01]

i dont beat around the bush ,if i think something is up ill ask in a nice manner and then if i get fucked around i get a little more frustrated and have yelled at women,not something im proud of or do often

 

[polarpixie]

Your gut feeling will rarely - if ever, let you down. Go with what your gut instinct tells you. Confrontation is better than a communication breakdown - which always leads to trouble

True...why is that anyway I wonder...?