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what do you dislike most about your SO

i dunno

Let me think
 
Hmm, she don't give it up no more? She has become a workaholic and alcaholic? She has since stopped her normal exercise and running routines. AND, she don't ski no more. WTF good is a season pass and owning a ski house if you make excuses not to ski?
 
My SO other pisses on me when I sleep, brags about it online then expects to get a pat on the back. And I didn't do shit about it because I got a few green dots under my name.
 
Angel said:
thought i would make this to go along with the like one!
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Her thoughts and actions are derived from feelings rather than facts and logic. But then again isn't that what separates men from women?
 
That he's not the person I thought he was....and his bad "habits" and disinterest is taking over his life....
 
pdaddy said:
Her thoughts and actions are derived from feelings rather than facts and logic. But then again isn't that what separates men from women?
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Exactly, well.. in most cases. I am more logical than emotional when it comes to decisions. I can completely take the emotion out of it. There were plenty of situations where I was told my thought process was screwed up. I've made some decisions in my life that were not typcial woman decisions because i took the time to stand back and assess the situation and didn't let my emotions do the talking.
 
StickFigure said:
Sorry bro but towo things:

1) I'm taken

2) and most importantly--I don't participate in the whole man-love thing.:heks:
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Two things:

1) I'm not taken
2) I don't participate in the whole man-love thing either :heks:
 
eat big said:
Two things:

1) I'm not taken
2) I don't participate in the whole man-love thing either :heks:
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Then just to clarify, this thread is about SO's which means "Significant Other", are you sure you're in the right thread??
 
StickFigure said:
Then just to clarify, this thread is about SO's which means "Significant Other", are you sure you're in the right thread??
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Bahaha that's funny, if you're taken why do you jump on a thread started by a female?

:heart:
 
eat big said:
Bahaha that's funny, if you're taken why do you jump on a thread started by a female?

:heart:
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Just because I post on a thread started by a female does not mean I want her. lol! What, am I supposed to post on threads started by guys??
 
StickFigure said:
Just because I post on a thread started by a female does not mean I want her. lol! What, am I supposed to post on threads started by guys??
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Duh :rolleyes:
 
Erzulie said:
Exactly, well.. in most cases. I am more logical than emotional when it comes to decisions. I can completely take the emotion out of it. There were plenty of situations where I was told my thought process was screwed up. I've made some decisions in my life that were not typcial woman decisions because i took the time to stand back and assess the situation and didn't let my emotions do the talking.
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pffffffft. I dont even HAVE emotions!@
 
Erzulie said:
;)

You need to learn Womanese
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It's hard to keep up with something that keeps changing. There aren't any 'tells' when an episode is in the making, nor is there a sure fire way to relenquish them. It's like a tornado, no real real way of predicting where they'll hit or how much damage they'll cause.
 
pdaddy said:
It's hard to keep up with something that keeps changing. There aren't any 'tells' when an episode is in the making, nor is there a sure fire way to relenquish them. It's like a tornado, no real real way of predicting where they'll hit or how much damage they'll cause.
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Bet that other chick is looking good about now.

I kidd!
I kidd!

:D
 
What I dislike most about my SO is his total lack of sex drive.

It's making me freakin bonkers. I've had sex 2...no. 1 1/2 times this year.
 
the-short-one said:
What I dislike most about my SO is his total lack of sex drive.

It's making me freakin bonkers. I've had sex 2...no. 1 1/2 times this year.
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Are you sure he's not gay?

How do you have sex 1/2 times?
 
EnderJE said:
Are you sure he's not gay?
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no, he's not gay. his diet sucks, he's carrying extra poundage, he's a workaholic, and he's tired all the time. :worried:

EnderJE said:
How do you have sex 1/2 times?
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you get interupted 1/2 way through by a small child who couldn't sleep. I think a lot of us have been there.


You know what? Getting turned down by your SO for sex really sucks. I'm at the point now where I don't even make the first move, because the last thing I want is sex with someone who doesn't want it. And you can tell when someone is just going through the motions so they can get it over with. I'd rather not have sex at all then have crappy sex.


sorry. i vented.
 
the-short-one said:
no, he's not gay. his diet sucks, he's carrying extra poundage, he's a workaholic, and he's tired all the time. :worried:



you get interupted 1/2 way through by a small child who couldn't sleep. I think a lot of us have been there.


You know what? Getting turned down by your SO for sex really sucks. I'm at the point now where I don't even make the first move, because the last thing I want is sex with someone who doesn't want it. And you can tell when someone is just going through the motions so they can get it over with. I'd rather not have sex at all then have crappy sex.


sorry. i vented.
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Have you tried spicing things up? Maybe he needs some motivation, maybe it's become boring for him. And PLEASE don't take that the wrong way. I'm saying nothing about you at all. But if you aren't having "fun" with your sex life, maybe you need to find some stuff to spice it up.
 
the-short-one said:
no, he's not gay. his diet sucks, he's carrying extra poundage, he's a workaholic, and he's tired all the time. :worried:

you get interupted 1/2 way through by a small child who couldn't sleep. I think a lot of us have been there.

You know what? Getting turned down by your SO for sex really sucks. I'm at the point now where I don't even make the first move, because the last thing I want is sex with someone who doesn't want it. And you can tell when someone is just going through the motions so they can get it over with. I'd rather not have sex at all then have crappy sex.

sorry. i vented.
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lmao...that sounds like my SO...have you tried uppers? Or scheduling it in advance?

LMAO...yep..been that alot. Ever have then knock on the door? Didn't have sex for a few months after that moment.

Yep, does suck. Sorry to hear.

No problems. What would C&C be without bitching? Why not leave?
 
StickFigure said:
Have you tried spicing things up? Maybe he needs some motivation, maybe it's become boring for him. And PLEASE don't take that the wrong way. I'm saying nothing about you at all. But if you aren't having "fun" with your sex life, maybe you need to find some stuff to spice it up.
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true life sex story:

a few sundays ago, he was sleeping in. I crawled back into bed and woke him up by giving him head. This is something I actually like to do, by the way, so I'm confident in my skills...

anyway - there were no problems on his part with enjoyment. He even told me afterwards that it was awesome and a really nice surprise. In the back of my mind, I guess I was thinking that maybe it might be reciprocated later that night.

no. He went to sleep. still haven't had sex.
 
the-short-one said:
true life sex story:

a few sundays ago, he was sleeping in. I crawled back into bed and woke him up by giving him head. This is something I actually like to do, by the way, so I'm confident in my skills...

anyway - there were no problems on his part with enjoyment. He even told me afterwards that it was awesome and a really nice surprise. In the back of my mind, I guess I was thinking that maybe it might be reciprocated later that night.

no. He went to sleep. still haven't had sex.
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Holy shit, that is just crazy!!
 
the-short-one said:
true life sex story:

a few sundays ago, he was sleeping in. I crawled back into bed and woke him up by giving him head. This is something I actually like to do, by the way, so I'm confident in my skills...

anyway - there were no problems on his part with enjoyment. He even told me afterwards that it was awesome and a really nice surprise. In the back of my mind, I guess I was thinking that maybe it might be reciprocated later that night.

no. He went to sleep. still haven't had sex.
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LMAO

Sorry, I shouldn't laugh, but seriously...that's bad.
 
the-short-one said:
true life sex story:

a few sundays ago, he was sleeping in. I crawled back into bed and woke him up by giving him head. This is something I actually like to do, by the way, so I'm confident in my skills...

anyway - there were no problems on his part with enjoyment. He even told me afterwards that it was awesome and a really nice surprise. In the back of my mind, I guess I was thinking that maybe it might be reciprocated later that night.

no. He went to sleep. still haven't had sex.
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That's just fucked up! I'm sorry to hear that Shorty.:(

You two ever talk openly about it?
 
EnderJE said:
lmao...that sounds like my SO...have you tried uppers? Or scheduling it in advance?
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I'm thinking test. :D He is 16 (yes 16) years older than me. I'm 32, he's 48. But it's not like he's friggen 80 or anything. sheesh.

EnderJE said:
Why not leave?
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We've been together 3 years and I still love him. Even though the last thing on his mind is sex, I still get that tingly feeling when I look at him. And I know he loves me.
 
the-short-one said:
I'm thinking test. :D He is 16 (yes 16) years older than me. I'm 32, he's 48. But it's not like he's friggen 80 or anything. sheesh.



We've been together 3 years and I still love him. Even though the last thing on his mind is sex, I still get that tingly feeling when I look at him. And I know he loves me.
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Age shouldn't matter, hell I need it more and more each year and I am 37. Can't imagine ever not needing it.
 
StickFigure said:
That's just fucked up! I'm sorry to hear that Shorty.:(

You two ever talk openly about it?
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I've brought the subject up a few times.

I'm beginning to think that it might be a...physical problem. When we were first together, he could go three times in a row and we had sex all the time.

He's put on weight and his diet is shockingly bad. He's stressed all the time. When I bring up the subject of our lagging sex life, he's touchy.

????

erection problems? maybe, but I think he just needs to get his ass back in shape.
 
the-short-one said:
I've brought the subject up a few times.

I'm beginning to think that it might be a...physical problem. When we were first together, he could go three times in a row and we had sex all the time.

He's put on weight and his diet is shockingly bad. He's stressed all the time. When I bring up the subject of our lagging sex life, he's touchy.

????

erection problems? maybe, but I think he just needs to get his ass back in shape.
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I got it!

I remember reading that people who don't feel attractive typically don't engage in too much sex. So, fix the diet and the sex will prolly increase.

Dr Phil's got nothing on me. Except maybe for about 100 million dollars.

But I have respect....yeah...
 
the-short-one said:
I've brought the subject up a few times.

I'm beginning to think that it might be a...physical problem. When we were first together, he could go three times in a row and we had sex all the time.

He's put on weight and his diet is shockingly bad. He's stressed all the time. When I bring up the subject of our lagging sex life, he's touchy.

????

erection problems? maybe, but I think he just needs to get his ass back in shape.
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I can tell you from experience, a few years back, I went into depression and my stress level was through the roof. My diet sucked and I ended up weighing 307# @ 5'9". My sex drive was almost non-exhistant. But when I got back in shape, started hhittin' the gym again and eating right, got the strees under control, the drive came back like an 18 year old kid.

Maybe try to help him relax a bit and encourage him to get back in shape without nagging him about it.
 
EnderJE said:
I got it!

I remember reading that people who don't feel attractive typically don't engage in too much sex. So, fix the diet and the sex will prolly increase.

Dr Phil's got nothing on me. Except maybe for about 100 million dollars.

But I have respect....yeah...
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The more I work out and eat right, the more he talks about doing the same. But he doesn't do it. He just talks.

I went through this depressive stage for a while, thinking he just wasn't attracted to me anymore. I still wonder sometimes. :worried:
 
the-short-one said:
The more I work out and eat right, the more he talks about doing the same. But he doesn't do it. He just talks.

I went through this depressive stage for a while, thinking he just wasn't attracted to me anymore. I still wonder sometimes. :worried:
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Why not ask him about it directly? Or have both of you see someone to talk about it.

You've got the "tingle" when you see him. Other should be so lucky.
 
StickFigure said:
I can tell you from experience, a few years back, I went into depression and my stress level was through the roof. My diet sucked and I ended up weighing 307# @ 5'9". My sex drive was almost non-exhistant. But when I got back in shape, started hhittin' the gym again and eating right, got the strees under control, the drive came back like an 18 year old kid.

Maybe try to help him relax a bit and encourage him to get back in shape without nagging him about it.
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that's what I've been thinking, which is why I haven't nagged.

He's a BIG guy - used to lift religiously and cycled for a long time. He keeps talking about getting back into it, so I'm hoping he will.

gentle encouragment. lead by example.
 
jenscats5 said:
Maybe a check-up to see if his testosterone is low??
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yeah. I'm pretty sure it is. I will try and bring this up in casual conversation. :D When we're talking about the gym or something.
 
the-short-one said:
yeah. I'm pretty sure it is. I will try and bring this up in casual conversation. :D When we're talking about the gym or something.
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It might be worth a checkup....then he can work on some stress relief....

Although the sex might work as such....
 
the-short-one said:
that's what I've been thinking, which is why I haven't nagged.

He's a BIG guy - used to lift religiously and cycled for a long time. He keeps talking about getting back into it, so I'm hoping he will.

gentle encouragment. lead by example.
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Good girl! Props to ya!
 
Hmm short-one, I cant really comment on lack of sex drive because thats all thats on my mind at my age :). My SO too drives me insane with her suprises, for eg I would come home, open the bedroom door and she would be home early from work and I would just find her there on the bed in nothing but a short mini brown skirt and socks on, opening and closing her legs. I would go into more detail but you would probably get the rest :). Perhaps thts something you might think fof doing?
 
Off of the top of my head I can't think of anything that I truly dislike about him... I REALLY dislike his ex, but she's not his fault. :)
 
dirty~d~ said:
Off of the top of my head I can't think of anything that I truly dislike about him... I REALLY dislike his ex, but she's not his fault. :)
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ex wife or ex gf?
 
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