What a fucking night

[theoak01]

first a lil background,last night was the celebration of no exams,my dumb ass goes out spends 100$ at the bar I drank a few beer and 15double rye and cokes,blacked out had to be carried out by my buddy.

laid in bed all day sick,but still went to bounce tonight because I need$
anyway its a university party closed to everyone else, and all fucking hell breaks loose with these type of crowds.

the worst of it was my buddy snapping and jumping a guy for no reason and all that guys buddies fighting us as we broke it up.

and because Im a smaller guy 5'6 190 some other guys I tossed were all pissy trying to start a fight with me,and the dumb cunt running the door kept letting the back in for me and another bouncer to throw out.

it was just madness,has a few of my buddies not been there I think I would have ended up bleeding,the other bouncers were useless and it pissed me right off.

I also believe I need to train harder and more frequently in fighting because I was honestly scared tonight,when the guys who tried to start with me because of my size cornered me with all the other boucners outside along with my buddies trying to break up a huge fight.

but Oaktown made it home again with a few scrapes but alive,I think im getting to old for this shit

 

[H_T_]

Be real nice if they could organize/unionize that line of work, i did it for over 13 years before burning out, seems the only people who take that job serious or give props to it are other bouncers.

 

[Bobber]

I was honestly scared tonight,when the guys who tried to start with me because of my size cornered me .

That must suck.

 

[theoak01]

ya it would be,I liked it better last year when I ran security and picked who I worked with,but I quit to go somewhere else that closed down,and now that im back the new head of security brings in dumb fucks.

Im 20 and Im burning out already,thank god its just till im done college

 

[theoak01]

That must suck.

ya man,I havent ever been scared in a fighting situation before

 

[Lowest]

Damn, I always wanted to be a bouncer. Meet hot chicks, throw drunk guys out, occasionally get bottles throw and knives pulled... and on top of that, you get PAID!! Did I mention I need a job? I think it's b/c I'm short that it's tough. I'm short and good-looking, so even though I'm a black belt and pretty jacked, i just don't exactly intimidate drunk guys I guess. But just wait till I'm 220lbs and 5'5", then I bet I get begged to bounce!

 

[DIVISION]

because Im a smaller guy 5'6 190 some other guys I tossed were all pissy trying to start a fight with me, I was honestly scared tonight,when the guys who tried to start with me because of my size cornered me with all the other boucners outside along with my buddies trying to break up a huge fight.

I'm 5'7 245lbs...........so no people don't start shit with me.....but alot of it has to do with your demeanor and attitude, OaktownNugga.

You are the bouncer and you gotta be assertive in all situations.....even if your heart is pounding and you are on the verge of getting your shit split.

Remember, you're the first and last line of defense......you have to regulate your area and dominate. That is how a bouncer runs thangs......

Good Luck, OaktownNugg....




DIV

 

[theoak01]

I didnt let it show,but I was fucking shittin,I am a very take charge guy,Im just not use to this young crowd,they like to scrap ,and play the numbers,and cant be reasoned with at all mix with a lil booze its a explosive situation

Id like to bulk up more but I find it hard to do that and keep my cardio up, at your size also im sure you got no issues,your huge man

 

[H_T_]

Damn, I always wanted to be a bouncer. Meet hot chicks, throw drunk guys out, occasionally get bottles throw and knives pulled... and on top of that, you get PAID!! Did I mention I need a job? I think it's b/c I'm short that it's tough. I'm short and good-looking, so even though I'm a black belt and pretty jacked, i just don't exactly intimidate drunk guys I guess. But just wait till I'm 220lbs and 5'5", then I bet I get begged to bounce!

You forgot to mention guns, hepatitis, hiv, and speeding cars. And the fact that every guy you make look bad is gonna keep an eye out for you for a long time. Had a couple of a$$holes confront me at the mall when i was with my girlfriend and my mother, i was ready to eat the skin off their faces but going loco wasn't the thing to do at the time. I'm not trying to make light of your aspirations, just make sure you have a good crew with you, people who will show you the right way to get the job done.

 

[theoak01]

^ exactly

everytime I hear"hey I know you" from someone I dont recognize my heart stops

 

[DIVISION]

I didnt let it show,but I was fucking shittin,I am a very take charge guy,Im just not use to this young crowd,they like to scrap ,and play the numbers,and cant be reasoned with at all mix with a lil booze its a explosive situation

Id like to bulk up more but I find it hard to do that and keep my cardio up, at your size also im sure you got no issues,your huge man

I feel ya' OaktownNugga.....

Those young kids who like to mouth off and throw caution to the wind, not caring or understanding the consequences.....what they could mean.

A very volatile situation, indeed.

Regarding me......it's a double-edged sword. Some women like guys like me, others think it's "too much muscle" and I think that since I'm not a "pretty boy" I lose out on meeting some of those women. Overall I gotta be happy with myself, but often I ponder over these things.



DIV

 

[theoak01]

aslong as your happy right

 

[DIVISION]

aslong as your happy right

Tru DAT!!!!!!

I'd have your back....trust on that, Oaktown!!


DIV

 

[theoak01]

I appreciate it bro,people who are there when the shit goes down thats hard to find

 

[DIVISION]

I appreciate it bro,people who are there when the shit goes down thats hard to find

Irish Eyez are smilin'..........not black & blue......


eh?




DIV

 

[theoak01]

lol they sure are man,I made it out alive,my leg is banged up but not the mug,and thats what matters.

Im really looking at changing disiplines from krav maga which ive been doing for a month or so,to pencration where Ill get hit more and covers a wider base

I think the fact that nobody has really hurt me in a fight worries me

 

[H_T_]

90 percent of those sissies don't even know how to throw a punch in the first place, they count on rat-packing someone, hoping they can get him on the ground to kick them.

 

[theoak01]

I agree,I doubt many one on one fights would result in me losing,as even though im smaller for my age most guys are smaller then me,only taller, and unless they are a street fighter im alright. its the fact I know these people fight in groups that worries me.

and Im sure you enjoyed nights when you got off work and could go home and not have it on your mind that someone may be looking to get ya,or that your not hurting from a scrap

 

[Razorguns]

only total losers have to fight in a pack against one guy. It's what pussies do.

 

[EnderJE]

True, but it happens. Just break one of their legs...problem solved.

 

[CFZB]

first a lil background,last night was the celebration of no exams,my dumb ass goes out spends 100$ at the bar I drank a few beer and 15double rye and cokes,blacked out had to be carried out by my buddy.

laid in bed all day sick,but still went to bounce tonight because I need$
anyway its a university party closed to everyone else, and all fucking hell breaks loose with these type of crowds.

the worst of it was my buddy snapping and jumping a guy for no reason and all that guys buddies fighting us as we broke it up.

and because Im a smaller guy 5'6 190 some other guys I tossed were all pissy trying to start a fight with me,and the dumb cunt running the door kept letting the back in for me and another bouncer to throw out.

it was just madness,has a few of my buddies not been there I think I would have ended up bleeding,the other bouncers were useless and it pissed me right off.

I also believe I need to train harder and more frequently in fighting because I was honestly scared tonight,when the guys who tried to start with me because of my size cornered me with all the other boucners outside along with my buddies trying to break up a huge fight.

but Oaktown made it home again with a few scrapes but alive,I think im getting to old for this shit

Fuck the dumb shit.Why would you want a chick that hung out at these places anyway broley.

 

[Razorguns]

"Oooh, what a niigghhhtttt..."

cue it up.

 

[Lumberg]

you need to start having more of a prefessional attitude. it's not like an office job where you can show up hungover as shit and just muddle through your day. here your mental alertness can mean the difference between successfully controlling a situation and a trip to the hospital

I know it happnes one turns into two, turns into three, turns into thirteen. But seriously bro you see what happens to people who drink too much on a daily basis. You're better than that.

 

[theoak01]

perfectworld,what do ya mean about girls who hang at places like that? Im lost

lumberg -your absolutly right bro,I should not have been hung over and at work,it def hurt my performance because I felt weak and like ass all night. its not a regular thing,but I also didnt intend on drinking 100$ worth of whiskey either.

lets just hope they were all drunk and forgot about it by tonight and no revenge is sought

 

[biteme]

Lay off the booze brother. That shit be bad for you. As far as for the bouncing, don't think I ever could have done it. I'm just too nice until someone really pisses me off. Maybe I'm not that nice, maybe I'm just a coward. LOL

 

[theoak01]

Biteme- the drinking def has to stop,and thur proved it,I planned on spending 40 tops and blew 100 to feel like shit,so now that I realize Im having a control issue with it Ill nip it at the bud before I have a real issue on my hands.

the bouncing can be a challange but it just depends on the night and mood of the crowd,tonight was calm as can be,didnt have to toss one person, last night everyone was just pissy with people from other groups

 

[Patrick Steele]

I would never spend $100 a night for drinks. You can always find ways of getting free drinks at clubs. Just go to the areas were some people are bying shots by the hundreds and join in. They will never tell you to leave because they will be too drunk having a good time to even notice. Instead waste the $100 on gear to look better at the club and as a bouncer.

 

[DIVISION]

you need to start having more of a prefessional attitude. it's not like an office job where you can show up hungover as shit and just muddle through your day. here your mental alertness can mean the difference between successfully controlling a situation and a trip to the hospital

I know it happnes one turns into two, turns into three, turns into thirteen. But seriously bro you see what happens to people who drink too much on a daily basis. You're better than that.

^^^for once, Lumberg, some good advice from you. I was beginning to wonder exactly what Smurfy saw in you.


@ Oaktown, the thing that disturbs me is that no matter how many people give you solid advice on here, you tend to do what you want to do anyway. Whether that means still living at home with your parents, showing up to work drunk, or concentrating on your college studies.

It's like you want the advice, but you don't put it to use. Frankly, I'm puzzled; you're much better than this.






DIV

 

[theoak01]

I have no choice about the living at home,Im in huge debt with college loans because my parents didnt help me,I have bills with my cell phone ,gym membership etc so until Im making good cash moving out isnt a option,believe me bro I want out,but have no choice,I make about 400 a month in my job and that cant even pay for rent let alone other bills.

school I know I fucked the dog large but I got by,that wont happen again. and like I said man I usually dont goto work hung over Im more responsible then that but once I start drinkin I dont stop,so I plan to cut way back on the amount of partying.

believe me man I do appreciate you guys advice but some things are out of my control

 

[Patrick Steele]

I have no choice about the living at home,Im in huge debt with college loans because my parents didnt help me,I have bills with my cell phone ,gym membership etc so until Im making good cash moving out isnt a option,believe me bro I want out,but have no choice,I make about 400 a month in my job and that cant even pay for rent let alone other bills.

school I know I fucked the dog large but I got by,that wont happen again. and like I said man I usually dont goto work hung over Im more responsible then that but once I start drinkin I dont stop,so I plan to cut way back on the amount of partying.

believe me man I do appreciate you guys advice but some things are out of my control

Not making enough money is because you choose to yourself. Pick a better job. When my friend was in college, he was 10 grand in dept himself. He got a job stripping and started making 300 to 500 bills a night and was working 3 times a week. If you have a nice physique that is the best job you can get. Flexible hours, fun job and LOTS of women. You work hard for your body. Let your body work hard for you. I am surprised not more bodybuilders have though of stripping as a way to make exra income.

 

[theoak01]

lol im hardly a bodybuilder,I just train because I like to,I sit around 15% bf most of the time so no nekkid oaktown.

life at home is pretty shitty,but I have a dish hooked up to the tv in my room so I can hide away when they get real bad ,so lately its been alright

 

[rsnoble-im-back]

Dont miss those days. At all.

 

[Gambino]

oaktown, it seems at the young age of 20 you are invovled in a lot of drugs (x, booze, gear). I think you should really look at yourself to see if this is the path you wanna take. the habits you get into as a youngster will stick with you orb, ask one who knows

 

[Lumberg]

I have no choice about the living at home,Im in huge debt with college loans because my parents didnt help me,I have bills with my cell phone ,gym membership etc so until Im making good cash moving out isnt a option,believe me bro I want out,but have no choice,I make about 400 a month in my job and that cant even pay for rent let alone other bills.

So are you still in school or what? Your school has got to have a gym. ANd the loans? Please you can get on a plan where it's only like $50 a month tops not to mention you don't have to pay when you're still in school.

 

[theoak01]

I am aware of that I dont have to pay while in school,but all my books were put on credit cards,I know bad idea but thus is life.

I also know I got alot of growing up to do with the drugs especially,but I wont be doing them this come spring as they drug test you when you become a cop which is the plan thus far.

and honestly id rather live at home and be miserable then be on my own and broke working full time to scrape by,I have friends doing it and they eat very shitty because the money isnt there for anything decent

 

[Mandinka2]

Well Oak...
1st Lumberg as others have pointed out is right on... we've spoken about this as well.
If your folks arent much help then sure life is that much tougher but u gotta be mentally tough to cut thru this life as well... a night out has to be a rare reward for a job well done and nothing more.
On the door then a cool head is your best friend...no need to unload on punters unless absolutely neccessary - only leads to more trouble - but as the others mention - dont ever let someone disrespect you.
Take care bro.

 

[wootoom]

sorry to hear that bro