Open relationship = no relationship. In other words, just best friends living together. If you can not remain faithul to this "partner" then maybe you should get out of the relationship and let him find someone that can. At least in singlehood, you never are really "cheating" on someone. You can handle singlehood can't you? Or are you the house boy? Cheating on a lover is not the same as selling yourself, if that is what I would ever choose to do. You can call it anything you want, and try to justify it anyway you want, but at least RyanH - while admitting he can't be monogamous - isn't living in another man's house under the disguise of a "relationship" while he is sitting down in the Geritol Graveyard.
Also, I never said I only work 2 days per month. I work about 7-8 per month. You need to pay more attention to post, or at least do a search.
Of course I am going to rent my house out. $1K for four hours? You got a way to make easier cash? Hmmmm.... lap dances on your Depend Wearing Friends? The way I see it, my house was going to be sitting there for a lot longer than four hours, whether it was used or not. Why not go ahead and get paid for it? One thing about this "nudie group" that conflicts with your prior statements about me is that everyone here was YOUNG. Not an old man in sight. Get the hint?
I did ask you about your little internet group. Actually to be truthful, I asked you about where an older man could go to meet someone. You brought up the internet group thing. As far as knowing an older man.. I didn't know I was required to have age limits on my friendships with people. Is that how you segregate your social life? Anyhow, since every Thanksgiving Fort Lauderdale boils over with Atlanta's population down for the softball tournament, it is no wonder that I would know people. Why this older man "mysterious"? Hmmmmm....? A better question is - while I do tend to know a few older men - you seem to submerge yourself in that environment. You don't mind showing your face in that Wrinkle Room, but yet you refuse to meet a fellow mod (unless "incognito") while he is in a play. So... you are good enough for old 70+ bar flys but not young guys? Is that why you go to the bar? So you can be the youngest one in there and attract attention?
Another thing is I do not hang out in that bar. Nor do I refuse to buy drinks if I so want one. Not that I have to, very seldown do I go to a bar and my drink is not bought for me before I even reach the bar counter. Hardly a drinker, if I do have something I buy it myself. But certainly not in a place where the bartender follows me to the bathroom as soon as I walk in. That is the kind of trash that congregates there. And as far as accepting drinks from "cronies" (as you so put it - and you hang out in the same place as these "cronies") you don't know me, nor know anything about me - but yet you seem to assume everything.
Yet not only do you regularly go there, you on one hand blast the bar as well, but yet... try to downplay your attendance there.
As far as who am I kidding? I am kidding no one. And you are fooling no one.
Hope you get "lucky" tonight at Viagra Falls. Of course with your taste in bars, "lucky" there means with a pulse and 20% of their hearing left.