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swole
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lmao, this sounds like my home
" you've been in college so many years. You're a loser! When are you graduating!? I tell you what, you're not going to keep doing this under our roof, I'll tell you that."
This was said with a heavy Italian accent. Fuggin A.
This is why I hate the stubborn, traditional mentality. Caes, not sure what you family background is, but I can definitely relate to you nonetheless.
Do your thing and what's best for YOU. Family will support you, even when you least expect they would.
" you've been in college so many years. You're a loser! When are you graduating!? I tell you what, you're not going to keep doing this under our roof, I'll tell you that."
This was said with a heavy Italian accent. Fuggin A.
This is why I hate the stubborn, traditional mentality. Caes, not sure what you family background is, but I can definitely relate to you nonetheless.
Do your thing and what's best for YOU. Family will support you, even when you least expect they would.
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swole said:
The thing is, this isnt even a threat. This is the action. He isnt saying what he's going to do. He's doing it.
Tomorrow I'm moving out. He said I might as well go fulltime with work for the remainder of the year cause he's done paying for my schooling as well. He said, "I've blown everything"
I'm kinda not phased by it though. I dunno, I just feel like I'm done stressing with my father. It's not worth the headache.
KillahBee
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I'll add to what swole said:
All my life I was a fuck up. Not of MAJOR proportions, but enough to see my mother cry WAY too much because of how I was growing up and well into young adulthood. I wouldn't relive those years for anything. Constant anger and headbutting and disappointment.
There was a fork in the road right when it all looked its worst and, for whatever reason, I chose the right path. Now I am one of the most well put together people I know and the satisfaction and pure joy I get when I see how motherfucking proud my mother and father are of me, is the most unbelievable feeling I have ever had in my entire life. I live for it.
You'll figure things out brother. And eventually it will all come full circle and you'll experience that feeling too.
All my life I was a fuck up. Not of MAJOR proportions, but enough to see my mother cry WAY too much because of how I was growing up and well into young adulthood. I wouldn't relive those years for anything. Constant anger and headbutting and disappointment.
There was a fork in the road right when it all looked its worst and, for whatever reason, I chose the right path. Now I am one of the most well put together people I know and the satisfaction and pure joy I get when I see how motherfucking proud my mother and father are of me, is the most unbelievable feeling I have ever had in my entire life. I live for it.
You'll figure things out brother. And eventually it will all come full circle and you'll experience that feeling too.
swole
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KillahBee said:
i don't want to get all sappy, but man that hits close to him KB
it hurts so much inside because all my mother wants to see is for me to graduate and get a damn job
she sacrificed so much after kicking my father out, she provided me everything a couple would have, so it brings me the SAME joy as it does you to see my mother smile because of something I did
graduating will make her life, since all her time and effort will seem worth it
but at the same time she needs to respect my choices and take comfort in the fact she raised a level-headed, smart and caring kid (this isn't my ego talking, it's more about praising my mother and the job she did)
KB, I give you so much respect because of this. Everyday I live in anger because of my parents' views, and I know how difficult it can be day in and day out. props to sticking it through and making them proud.
CAES, there are other options bro. This is what I would like to talk about via PM. If you have credit and/or a job, you can still attend school.
KillahBee
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swole said:
thanks boss. I hear ya, with the wanting the respect from them thing. but I also have come to the realization of where they are coming from. I know they respect me as an adult and an individual, but man, imagine how it feels to love something that much, to give your life up for them. you'd die if anything bad ever happened to them, so you go into protection mode. shit, moms still calls me to make sure I am eating well and I am 26. it all works out in the end. you have a solid head on your shoulders, which is all anyone can ask for.
foreigngirl
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wow, I am so sorry to hear that Ceasar. Its just gonna make you a stronger person to clean your own way. You can do it.
Never understood parents like this - kicking their own kids out of the house cause they are disapointed in what they did with their life or school. My dad would ground me until I show better results instead of kicking me out so he doesnt have any control over my life
Never understood parents like this - kicking their own kids out of the house cause they are disapointed in what they did with their life or school. My dad would ground me until I show better results instead of kicking me out so he doesnt have any control over my life
