Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Well for those of you that told me awhile back to dump my girlfriend, you were oh so right. I happened to read her diary today(which she left out with all my books) and she is fucking some married guy from her work....so.....needless to say I am outta this mutha fucka. As soon as I can afford to which I hope to god is this weekend I am getting my own place. This sucks after 3 years but what can you do. From now on I am going out with decent no sluts. Never again will I date a girl that works at a restaurant or bar- every one I have date has cheated. I guess you can all say I told you so. I am a sucker I guess, but I am looking out for me now, fuck this stupid whore!
very bad day for me:(
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Norman Bates
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You should show tht diary to the woman of the man that is being cheated on by your ex.
I really can´t stand people that don´t take their vows seriously.
I really can´t stand people that don´t take their vows seriously.
sorry to hear that 
just remember that what goes around comes around and she will get hers one day. why would she leave her diary out anyway?? she is not the smartest cookie in the jar either i guess. a lying cheating stupid bitch... bad combination. you should be glad that you found this out now, rather then 10 years down the line when your married, with 4 kids, 2 dogs, and a cat named fluffy.
just remember that what goes around comes around and she will get hers one day. why would she leave her diary out anyway?? she is not the smartest cookie in the jar either i guess. a lying cheating stupid bitch... bad combination. you should be glad that you found this out now, rather then 10 years down the line when your married, with 4 kids, 2 dogs, and a cat named fluffy.
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Advaik
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I hate how people say "they'll get theirs" because they don't. They never do. I say you have to give them theirs. Fucking screw her totally over, do whatever you can to make her life hell, she did it to you. Don't ever let something just "slide" because "they'll get theirs someday," make damn sure they get theirs, and make sure you are there to watch it as their world comes crumbling down around them.
According to her diary she has done this to 3-4 guys already- lives with them for a few years and when it goes sour she fucks someone else...it is fucked. This is the second time this same thing has happened to me. To top it off, I sold my car a few months ago to help pay bills so I have no car and no savings, great situation eh? I have only lived here in San Diego for about 10 months and I really have no friends here...so now I am up shit creek. I am going to try and borrow some money to get a place asap. I cant stand to even be in the same apartment as her. I had to read this in her diary: "the sex with Carlos(he is a 5'8" fucking Mexican guy for Christ Sake's!!!) is pretty good and I love how he chokes me during sex"- I had to read that shit,AND she wears no protection with the fucker. When I read that I almost threw up. No shit, why would she leave her diary around? She wanted me to read it. I am sure of it. She already has herpes and she is fucking people with no rubber? What a dirty fucking whore! How could I fall in love with someone who would do this to me? I really need to learn how to take care of myself. I am not doing a very good job right now. All I know is I have to pick her up at work(we share a car since I no longer have one) soon and I am going to try and tell her as calmy as possible that I am leaving. Cheating is a deal breaker for me, I would never ever ever trust her again. Damn, this sucks guys....I have laid my whole lifes plans with this girl and its all down the tubes....time to find a new drummer and move on with my life. I wish I had enough money right now to just pack up and never see her again...leave a note that says fuck you whore! I am going to sell my belongings to get out. If anyone wants a good deal on some snowboards let me know. I am sitting her at my computer looking at the portraits her and I just got a couple weeks ago....so fucked up, why would you get portraits if you didn't plan to stay with the person? This girl is insane. The guy she is fucking is married and told her he is getting a divorce, what the fuck ever! sure he is. Why are girls so dumb sometimes. Any way anyone can cheer me up would be good. I just took 3 charge pills....it helps me feel no emotions. Whenever I look at her picture I feel nauseaus. I guess you cant take cheating personal...it is the cheaters fuck up right? I feel so down yet I want so badly to move on with my life asap! I moved out here from FL with her so we could get our band going and now this shit!? What a mess....if any of you live near San Diego, please e-mail me, I need all the friends I can get. Thanks guys and gals.
hippedy hop
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i took a dump today too oooooooooooooohyeah
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Advaik
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hippedy hop said:
You know, you havnt been on this board for more than an hour or two and I already don't like you. Why don't you go off some place and die? Fucking inconsiderate sob.
hippedy hop
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Advaik said:
those are some hateful words my brotha just tryin to chill and get my post count up so i can get an avatar like yours. oohyeah
the hippeddy loves u brotha are u a boyscout too?
vinylgroover
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Sorry to hear Mezz, but you're seriously better than all that shit and better to get it out of your life. In hindsight you should have done it much earlier, but you live and learn my friend. Just keep positive and big things will be just around the corner for you.
Good luck.
P.S That story could well get you into B.I.T.C.H.S
Good luck.
P.S That story could well get you into B.I.T.C.H.S
Thanks guys for cheering me up. I decided not to say anything to her and when we got home she was writing in her diary for awhile alone in our room...so..I waited till she was asleep and read what she wrote. She wrote that she slept with that guy on one ocassion and broke it off and how now she is really scarred that I will find out and she'll lose me. She wrote how she has been crying at her therapists about it and feels disgusting and dosen't know why she did it. Then she wrote that she has felt suicidal because of it and is afraid she has ruined everything. She wrote that she is horrified that I might read the diary and find out....kind of ironic I think. I haven't decided about this. Do people forgive this shit? I just dont know. I know people make mistakes but...is it worth saving a 3 year relationship? I am unsure right now. I have allot invested in this and she is my bands drummer as well but I am still not sure that it's even possible to forgive something like that. What do you guys think? Oh and yeah I would love to hit some LA clubs. Have any of you ever forgived someone for cheating? Did it work out? hmm.....
Norman Bates
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Is it possible that she knows that you have been reading her diary?
If she's been cheating on and off over the years then it's not likely she'll stop. Is it worth staying in the situation-- I suppose that depends on how taxing you think this situation will be on your sanity. She doesn't sound healthy at all. As for her being depressed or anxious about this situation and feeling suicidal, at least she's already getting professional help-- but that's not your responsibility. I know you care about her, but you can't "fix" her or make it all okay. She has to do that on her own and you leaving would likely be a wake up call.
You're best getting out of that mess, even if it's hard to do. It'll likely be best for you in the long run.
You're best getting out of that mess, even if it's hard to do. It'll likely be best for you in the long run.
Torch
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Leave that bitch, you dont need that shit bro. What happens if you work it out and she walks all over you again?
Cut your losses, there plenty other girls out there that will treat you with respect.
Extreme situations cause for extreme measures. Do what you got to do and get the fuck out. Man up nig
Cut your losses, there plenty other girls out there that will treat you with respect.
Extreme situations cause for extreme measures. Do what you got to do and get the fuck out. Man up nig
finabomber
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sorry to hear that bro, cant trust them as far as you can throw em!!
Finabomber
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Mezz,
That is all some fucked up shit, for real.
But, before you break the shit off with this bitch (which you totally should), I say get every possible thing you can out of her.
Borrow her credit cards, take her money whenever possible, so on and so forth while still acting as if nothing has gone on. In fact, cut your donations to the bills, groceries, etc. down to as little as possible without arousing suspicion.
Then, once you've saved back enough money to get your own place, juiced her (and maybe even her family) for whatever money you can get, gotten every possible thing you could out of it, Tell her sorry ass its over, because she's apparently a cheating weirdo that already needs psychological help.
If you really wanted to go for the gold, you could propose, have her family pay for the wedding, then walk out at the altar. Dizamn that'd be some shit.
That is all some fucked up shit, for real.
But, before you break the shit off with this bitch (which you totally should), I say get every possible thing you can out of her.
Borrow her credit cards, take her money whenever possible, so on and so forth while still acting as if nothing has gone on. In fact, cut your donations to the bills, groceries, etc. down to as little as possible without arousing suspicion.
Then, once you've saved back enough money to get your own place, juiced her (and maybe even her family) for whatever money you can get, gotten every possible thing you could out of it, Tell her sorry ass its over, because she's apparently a cheating weirdo that already needs psychological help.
If you really wanted to go for the gold, you could propose, have her family pay for the wedding, then walk out at the altar. Dizamn that'd be some shit.
vinylgroover
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Don't even think about going back Mezz. Sure you can forgive, but you can never forget. Forgive her, but don't go back to her, if you know what i mean. That way you will be able to close it off once and for all and move on.
You sound calm and rational for someone who has had to go through this, which tells me you've got great strength of character. Time to move on and give back to yourself .
You sound calm and rational for someone who has had to go through this, which tells me you've got great strength of character. Time to move on and give back to yourself .
Lifter4Life
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DUMP THAT NASTY PIECE OF SHIT WHORE. Lifter
if she cheats and thinks she can get away with it she'll do it again. she already has a track record. she can also tell that u know somethings up
revenge has a funny way of escalating. telling the mexicans wife might mean you;ve got some psycho divorced husband on the warpath ready to kill u etc. even though u arenlt the guilty party u still might get the shit end of the stick
as for borrowing the money, it may have legal ramifications later on. not sure if it definately will thats somethign for the lawyers, so i'd be careful if u did that.
from the sounds of it u cant trust her, but its one of those choices u have to make. have u got anyone u can talk to if she leaves ur life? will u look on this 5 months down the road and wish u gave her a second chance? its ur call on that, but she;s already violated so any peoples trust
revenge has a funny way of escalating. telling the mexicans wife might mean you;ve got some psycho divorced husband on the warpath ready to kill u etc. even though u arenlt the guilty party u still might get the shit end of the stick
as for borrowing the money, it may have legal ramifications later on. not sure if it definately will thats somethign for the lawyers, so i'd be careful if u did that.
from the sounds of it u cant trust her, but its one of those choices u have to make. have u got anyone u can talk to if she leaves ur life? will u look on this 5 months down the road and wish u gave her a second chance? its ur call on that, but she;s already violated so any peoples trust
bigAragorn
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what a fucking bitch man.....leave her ass cold......you dont need this bitch and no one deserves to be treated that way.
Man this is fucking depressing....dosent anyone stay faithful anymore
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Man this is fucking depressing....dosent anyone stay faithful anymore
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Frackal
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Hard to be on this board and not become jaded about women.
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